DeWanda Wise
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Friday 06 May 2022 22:14:07 GMT
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TINY | production + strategy🎬 :
YES!! Sometimes the friend isn’t even a bad person, their energy just requires too much 😩 I struggle with respectfully ✨ not wanting to come around ✨
2022-05-06 22:41:47
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BIDDY. :
Fact. Played the role of “party friend” for a while - as an introvert, I don’t even like going to clubs… 😵💫
2022-05-07 01:16:46
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Trini :
OMG I DIDNT EVEN REALIZE YOU WERE THE STAR IN THAT LIFE CHANGING SHOW! Thank you for your time and energy, that show really changed me in the best way
2022-05-31 03:15:52
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nuggetofbold :
Thank you for this! I’ve invited so many people to tell me their problems, by over-valuing being a ‘good listener’. Time to be more authentic. 🥰
2022-05-07 02:48:52
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Anna | Vitality Coach :
These are usually the ones you feel badly walking away from! Because there’s no “good reason” you just feel badly when you interact with them 🫠
2022-05-07 01:43:56
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maddyroses :
“We never see youuuu. It’s been so loooooong.” I know, I’ve been enjoying myself
2022-05-07 12:05:18
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Nun Ya :
Through therapy I realized I had been doing this for years. That's why I always felt like no one would accept the REAL me. I had pretended for so long
2022-05-07 02:25:11
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Vee :
Fyp said my govt name with this one!
2022-05-06 23:56:01
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RoSa :
I know what you’re talking about and I need help. My friend is nice but she’s bored. I’m in a stage where I want to have fun, go out, but she’s always
2022-06-02 02:12:24
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Chlothegod :
every time I see your face I take a deep breath bc I know you’re about to speak power into my life and I’m always eager to stop and listen.
2022-05-07 03:47:14
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Kathleen Tu :
I’ve realized that they don’t have to be bad towards me but bad for me and my mental health 🥺
2022-05-11 19:45:28
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st sauveur vanessa :
Totally agreed , sometimes I feel like I’m Dr Phil for them while I’m struggling with my own things 😫
2022-05-29 15:35:07
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HAZELNUT :
“Playing a role” wow
2022-05-07 01:07:27
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Big Tish 🖤 :
I'm accepting this shift w a close family member who I used to be very passive & accommodating with. It's been difficult but I have to respect myself.
2022-05-07 00:44:37
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Irisbeilin :
Oh wow
2022-05-07 00:32:24
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💗 :
i’ve felt like i’ve needed to entertain most ppl and its exhausting, that’s why i prefer other quiet ppl
2022-05-07 03:44:07
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yapnfizz :
Been in retreat mode for quite a while because of this. Realized 90% of my connections have been performative & I feel fraudulent so I’m staying away
2022-05-29 13:32:53
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love_lemichel :
seriously. being aware of your own personal boundaries. nope I simply won't answer the phone today. I don't have it in me.
2022-05-25 12:22:16
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GretchenThyme :
It’s like a thread of tension, that’s more than discomfort- it feels off, inauthentic and even destructive over time.
2022-05-30 21:53:09
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MsJlong27 :
I use to feel so drained by certain ppl energy NOW I have boundaries and listen to my body
2022-05-25 19:22:25
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Natasha :
Do you have any advice for the next step? Once you’ve backed away and a tension builds between you and the person who’ve distanced yourself from.
2022-05-07 04:04:07
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Daniel Backer author :
It’s really resonates with me, thank you.
2022-05-31 00:19:18
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𝔉𝔞𝔦𝔱𝔥 :
How do we communicate that to the friend you like to entertain? “Hey I don’t wanna entertain this anymore”? Genuine question
2022-05-30 15:38:26
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Campbell | Soup for the Soul :
I am navigating this in friendships. Wondering if it’s a defense mechanism to growing stronger, healthy codependent relationship or doing work
2022-05-07 03:33:50
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