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Naz :
I forget the name but there’s one with a girl named Abby I think (??) and the mom is constantly shoving a camera in her face while she lives her life
2022-05-07 04:11:42
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Alies_Mom :
If us parents didn’t speak and advocate for our high needs kids who would? You? The people commenting? Y’all say parents aren’t part of the community
2022-05-09 04:31:38
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faith :
fr like that one account i think her name is abby…her mom and her seem to have a great relationship but abby is like 24
2022-05-09 03:36:12
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Jere/Jeremy :
yes and the comments always infantilize them. :/
2022-05-07 13:18:32
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ilovelain :
Yess!! Even if they aren’t necessarily saying anything bad I still stay away 😬
2022-05-07 00:42:06
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🪐 :
the comments on Abby's videos make me feel sick "can't believe how pretty she is!" "wow she's really articulate!" "she's so sweet and innocentl"
2022-05-11 16:25:06
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NachoLibre :
Yesss. Especially this one account with someone who is nonverbal, and literally the mother speaks for them….like what?! Feels unethical
2022-05-07 00:52:22
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BK :
Sometimes I block accounts like that because they feel exploitative
2022-05-07 00:50:21
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bea 🪐 :
pretend you didn’t notice we switched in the middle of filming this lmao
2022-05-07 00:27:29
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1Ø1✨🧚 :
I know exactly who you’re talking about. I liked them at first bc it seemed sweet but once I gained this perspective I was like hmm it feels like a
2022-05-07 00:44:10
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Ja’Niyah :
The meltdowns… man that’s some really personal stuff. 😬
2022-05-07 12:43:56
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amber | they/them :
especially when those parents use those heavily prompted conversations to make other parents feel better about ABA 😳
2022-05-07 14:26:55
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madeline :
Yes it rubs me the wrong way and I appreciate the way you presented it
2022-05-07 01:35:15
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abigail :
YEP it feels very exploitative
2022-05-07 06:06:09
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whoisserial :
I block those accounts without hesitation
2022-05-07 00:59:26
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bríghid :
this makes me think of a specific account, they don't seem nefarious but it's just.. off? in the exact ways you described
2022-05-07 01:37:48
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alexthefeminist :
feels like a lot of things slide on this app under the guise of “education”
2022-05-08 19:59:58
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christine :
it’s the fact that i can think of multiple accounts like that
2022-05-07 06:41:44
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ok :
and everyone in the comments just eats it up like y’all aren’t concerned ??!?
2022-05-08 18:06:07
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minyarn :
yes. it feels like they’re parading them around
2022-05-07 17:36:18
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burritos_and_adhd :
they bother me so much 😬
2022-05-07 04:55:46
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j :
YES! And they never personally reply its just all videos set up by the parents 😬
2022-05-07 11:20:27
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Jkbillyj :
Yes, I wonder 💭 if they’re even allowed to hold a phone.
2022-05-07 01:02:49
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AlexKennedy416 :
Yes. this has always bugged me. It violates consent or just avoids asking for it. Its why i dont talk about my kids struggles on any media.
2022-05-07 01:29:26
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bec🌺 :
it's even weirder that you never see their mom's face. just a voice behind a camera, prompting and patronizing.
2022-05-07 02:51:50
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Nakedandafraid :
The only account i like is living w lilac
2022-05-19 16:20:24
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Shandeelion :
😳 I didn’t know this was happening 😳
2022-05-07 01:02:44
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Dani :
Ok because i thought i was the only one… they be shoving the camera in their adult faces and talkin to em like small children its very weird
2022-05-08 02:10:12
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Jorge R. R. Martinez :
I agree wholeheartedly. I think on a base level it scares me to see any parent post their children or run entire accounts dedicated to just their kid
2022-05-07 04:40:27
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KJ :
Yeah and there’s a few with children who have high support needs … and you can see that child doesn’t know what’s going on with a camera in their face
2022-05-07 10:31:34
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Ama Rose ♿️ :
That last analogy, omg 😬
2022-05-07 00:46:01
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Shell :
It gives “theyre my lil pet” vibes 🤢
2022-05-07 01:22:24
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Anastasia✨🗡️ :
Yesssss like Abby honestly…
2022-05-08 07:59:01
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meghan.r.a :
I’m autistic and I will block any account like this that pops up on my feed. It makes me feel really uncomfortable.
2022-05-07 00:56:52
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no one :
Are we talking about stece bc I liked them 😞
2022-05-08 13:48:40
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Coffee3456 :
Those same tik toks are the ones where the comment section is all “you’re such an inspiration” it creeps me out
2022-05-07 04:20:10
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djfish04 :
yes and just posting them doing random things. getting all in their business and asking them weird questions
2022-05-07 01:06:18
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Fen :
Any time I see any "I'm their voice!" self-aggrandising shit it rubs me the wrong way. It's scary people think that way.
2022-05-07 10:22:08
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Cool story 🙃 :
Yes and it upsets me so much. Some also force teach them to mask infront of the camera
2022-05-07 00:48:04
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Dan (he/they) ♎️ :
Ya it makes me feel so weird.
2022-05-07 00:50:05
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i communicate thru video :
I just wish we could have a disclaimer or sumn saying the autistic kid has their explicit consent to be filming and/or posting
2022-05-08 20:35:21
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Move with Joy :
Yep.
2022-05-10 19:20:07
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☾ BbyChoptop ☽ :
Oh fuck 🥺 I follow Abby just because she makes me feel so happy when I’m struggling but j didn’t think about this and I feel terrible
2022-05-07 08:02:35
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BigBestiny :
Right yeah, it seems weird. Like I saw them laughing at something their son was doing but he wasn’t joking and it just, idk
2022-05-07 02:07:49
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overcompensade :
infantilizing and exploitation its awful
2022-05-07 01:37:02
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A :
Not the tiktok warning on this video…
2022-05-07 01:12:21
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Ace Affinity Artistry :
Yes & it’s even weirder when they answer questions about certain stuff like personal hygiene w menstruation. I understand having that info out on(1/2)
2022-05-07 17:11:36
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Aanafortunata :
Ya ugh, just ugh
2022-05-07 08:34:29
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Emma !! :
This is how I feel about that woman named abbey ….. it’s weird as hell and as an autistic young adult, I would be so overwhelmed and hurt if my mom
2022-05-07 12:57:26
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