Katerina
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Monday 09 May 2022 18:02:40 GMT
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Natori Namono :
Usually that’s because we’re just not that into them, and the anxious person is putting a lot of pressure on us to be more into them than we are.
2022-05-09 23:44:16
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🌸Ceci🌸 :
I've seen some avoidants act really attached and smoochy and then back off completely acting like I was the one who was doing it to them. So what I do
2022-05-10 00:46:44
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Gi :
had avoidant partner who did this& I understood what was going on, but the disrespect& heartbreak I had to endure was not something I could forgive…
2022-06-27 15:52:37
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des <3 :
I do this when they’re too eager to get to know me too fast. I’ll just slowly retract my energy in our interactions hoping they match my vibe
2022-05-09 23:56:51
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Katerina :
The annoying thing about being FA is that you understand and experience both sides of the spectrum. You are both the villain and the martyr 😅
2022-05-09 18:03:25
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Aleeza :
avoidants do this to secure people too tho! unfair imo to call it too obsessive/clingy when a relationship is formed on warmth/kindness/vulnerability
2022-05-10 13:57:05
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Kayleena Kelly :
So why not just end the relationship vs doing this/pushing away?
2022-05-09 20:24:53
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amycherieart :
ohhhhh.. yeah he pushed me allllll the way away 😓
2022-05-09 20:38:32
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chickenparm1030 :
When I first started talking to my ex.. they were basically kinda pushing me away but we both knew that we really liked each other
2022-05-09 18:48:44
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L!ll!an🇨🇦 :
Tbh I had to leave someone becausethey lacked communication for their feelings, we're distant and I felt invalidated for mine, & ignored so
2022-06-05 20:19:32
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sofia :
posted this at such perfect timing, i was afraid this is what my ex did.. we ended on such bad terms this past thursday:(
2022-05-09 18:22:29
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lady jae :
Idk I’d rather just talk it out instead of being pushed away. My ex pushed me away and it never resolved anything.
2022-05-10 10:38:57
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Devon Effie 🌈 :
Jokes on them…. I’m also attracted to red flags too.
2022-05-16 12:51:49
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Drawing People :
Yeah, I know that’s what he feels I’m overwhelming but I’m not changing for him or anyone. He can take it or leave it.
2022-05-10 12:48:16
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Cameron Stelmach :
Realizing my partner was an avoidant made so much make sense. And I’ve been able to support him. He is working on it. Ty for these.
2022-05-10 00:01:23
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jenniferyoung28 :
I experience people like this as so selfish. I’m secure, but I love CONNECTION, and when I’m putting the energy in, SO blah when FA are neurotic/cold.
2022-06-01 17:05:13
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Chelsea Conner :
but what I love is the flaws, the imperfections. People are deserving of love
2022-05-16 22:29:43
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Liberty the Liberal :
you and I are the saaaammmew
2022-05-15 23:07:37
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Jrpower_94 :
In the end it all comes down to being afraid to communicate true needs and desires. The sudden pushbacks/bounderies come from a place of anxiety
2022-05-11 12:36:11
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TJ❤ :
How do you have a relationship with avoidant if they constantly push you away 🙄🙄
2022-05-10 07:56:32
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Julia Fudala :
too bad I didn't see this like two weeks ago before my avoidant bf broke up because I was too anxious
2022-05-10 07:27:50
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Ramit and Kira :
The part that’s frustrating is that sometimes it can even show up in basic conversations. Like can’t even pinpoint what is triggering them and obv
2022-05-09 18:35:48
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lenfantterri :
It’s funny bc that’s kind of why I like them so much.. I’m slightly anxious, and I can feel their solid, realistic energy, they’re still there
2022-05-10 00:23:18
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butterfly 🦋 :
Why then show interest or start a relationship in the first place knowing you will definitely push them away?
2022-07-03 07:56:20
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Wearecr8tors :
Yeah but it’s the avoidant that starts it’s and wants to talk daily n then u get used to it and they just pull the rug and we’re left wonder why…
2022-07-20 08:47:56
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