@theholisticpsychologist: @jennaweakland model the lifelong impacts of unpredictable parenting

Dr. Nicole LePera
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raphieshin
raphieshin :
Watching this just gave me like flashbacks and instant anxiety
2022-05-23 00:35:44
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healingwithhelene
Helene, PLPC, NCC :
This behavior from my mom caused me to doubt my intuition and become really reliant on other people’s opinions about me.
2022-05-23 00:27:31
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bec.with.a.b
BEC ~ HIBISCUS HOTEL :
When you’ve grown up in this environment, it’s a REALLY hard pattern not to repeat, especially when dealing with challenging dynamics in a household
2022-05-23 01:07:19
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jamesonthefox
JamesontheFox :
Oh I see you’ve met my mother
2022-05-23 00:56:12
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st.ella.luna
ella 🖤 :
immediately jumping up from the couch to go do something “productive” whenever you hear the garage open
2022-05-23 20:52:42
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jhoffsc24
Jennifer Hoffman :
I struggle with this as a mom. My mom and dad both treated me like this and I occasionally lash out like this to my daughter
2022-05-23 00:49:10
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holdthelettuce178
🧸🪲🌯🧡 :
“Learns people are unsafe so talk to no one and learn zero social skills”
2022-05-23 10:16:20
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redirt5
Reddirt :
My mother, complete with sulking and storming off in her car for hours and hours. Expecting apologies from us when she returned and hugs.
2022-05-23 11:16:12
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anne.not.ann
anne.not.ann :
This was my childhood. It’s why I learned to observe people intently to try to be able to read them & predict their actions.
2022-05-23 11:56:25
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mayac33
mayacruz333 :
Any tips? I was parented like this and unfortunately now Iam this mom. I try my hardest to catch myself but parenting them and reparenting me is HARD.
2022-05-23 00:50:35
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aana.love
Aana.aa :
My mother… she was bpd, never knew if she was going to rage all day or take me on a shopping spree, she was like a ticking time bomb. I never relaxed
2022-05-23 05:25:23
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sl3epless.nights
Sle3plessNights🚦 :
and then when they are nice, i tell myself "she's not bad, she's nice sometimes!" and just completely dismiss the negatives and it ruins me cause 1/2
2022-05-23 20:31:08
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theorchestras2ndfiddle
The Orchestra’s Second Fiddle :
This is my mother to a T and it was so…overwhelming and destabilizing. And she acts like I’m blowing her behavior out of proportion in hindsight.
2022-05-23 08:39:21
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jblubird
Jblubird 🐦 :
she's overly stressed and doesn't know how to deal with the buildup of emotions. we need to teach how to manage our emotions. mindfulness is key.
2022-05-23 18:17:34
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leatherjacketdude
Mateo :
I can’t believe the ppl in the comments trying to justify it. Being raised by a mother like this has changed the very course of my life, it’s taken a-
2022-05-23 16:11:24
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new.ellysa
Ellysa Yagho🐦 :
nah fr
2022-05-23 20:45:22
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gatsbysgirlfriend2001
gatsbysgirlfriend2001 :
Wow this was seriouslt my mom
2022-05-23 16:16:43
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theshannonrenn
Shannon Renn :
This triggered my fight or flight, I havent felt that amount of fear in a while...🥺
2022-05-23 15:47:09
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e_lenzz
cianna :
My mom likes to bring up my age like “you’re this old and still act like this?!” Meanwhile she’s almost 50 and still acts like a child
2022-05-23 21:13:03
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daphn.ep
💫aphne :
this is definitely my mom, I love her so much but she's exactly like this
2022-05-23 22:25:17
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lucykthanks
Lucy Kat 🦩🖤 :
My mom just mutters and says passive aggressive things like that under her breath and even at 33 it still send me into fight or flight...
2022-05-23 15:03:15
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a_blon_d
BlonD :
My mum still acts like this. She winged and screams and kicks things over. I’m scared I’m going to end up like her :( I’m so like her already
2022-05-23 00:35:25
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thisisntwhatitlookslike9
jayjay :
i can literally hear the different walking, breathing, and movement patterns of my dad when he’s angry. i have to rush around the house cleaning
2022-05-31 15:19:11
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sariririn
sari 😼💫💖 :
my dad LMFAOOOOO
2022-05-23 15:34:18
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agentnum13
RieRieRager 😈‼️ :
wait what that’s not normal? 🧍
2022-06-01 15:39:28
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