@theholisticpsychologist: @jennaweakland I model how people pleasing begins at a young age when we learn our needs don’t matter.

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dollypartonxoxox :
Omg my mum was like that every time I brought my needs up. I now betray myself and I don’t believe that there’s anyone that can ever respond to my -
2022-05-26 16:51:50
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monlovesthebay
monlovesthebay :
these role plays have lead me to parenting classes and family thearpy. This situation happens so much in my life
2022-05-28 16:45:31
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honeykelsi
Kelsi ✨🤍 :
So my therapists told me trying to be a people pleaser is kind of like a form of manipulation because I want Ppl to like me.
2022-05-28 14:50:11
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goodenough515
goodenough515 :
My kid says she’s hungry constantly even after she’s just had a big meal. What do I say then?
2022-05-31 22:51:12
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bec33666
❤️‍🔥 :
Why do all your videos make me want to cry? 🥺😅
2022-05-27 02:43:38
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gabmck13
Gabby :
Unlearning. My parents/grandparents did this + when we would see the 2nd scene out in public they would tell me that’s parents spoiling their kids 🥴
2022-05-27 04:22:05
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nicole._williams
nicole :
my mom went through all of this growing up and now she's putting me through it but she doesn't realize any of that
2022-07-10 15:31:15
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familycourtsurvivor
Familycourtabusevictim :
Thank you for these videos, they help me to reframe past memories and end with a great feeling, instead of being left triggered. Fab content woman!!
2022-05-29 12:48:59
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blairlucas
Blair Lucas :
What happens when they say they’re hungry every hour 🤔 lol
2022-05-31 17:25:02
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harmonyygait
⟡ℍ𝕒𝕣𝕞𝕠𝕟𝕪⟡ :
Then when done eating make the statement I’d like for you to try and clean up as much as possible in 10 minutes 😏
2022-05-29 21:38:48
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valleyfloorart
Valley Floor Art :
I always got the sigh. It wasn’t until this yr when I realized it was messed up I had to “hold it” on an 8 hr car ride w/only 1 stop.
2022-05-27 21:13:59
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malloryweatherford
Mallory Weatherford :
okay. but what if they do this every single time I ask them to do a chore? because it happens so much.
2022-06-02 12:51:26
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wenwenwins
wendy lebouef :
Ok but sometimes my kid says she’s “hungry” but i know she’s bored- so i clarify
2022-06-03 07:30:43
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its_bree_and_adonis_rip
its_bree_and_adonis_rip :
My dad used to get legitimately angry at me when he’d take us out and I needed to use the bathroom. He’d ask me why I didn’t go before we left and I’d
2022-05-29 22:31:34
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_johanna_.g
J O H A N N A🌸🌱 :
What if we’ve asked them like 20 times 😫
2022-06-02 04:27:57
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_riki_lynn
Intotheforestigo :
these are so helpful ❤️
2022-05-27 03:46:07
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kenjiii3
Saja :
please please where did you get that penguin i need one
2022-05-26 22:41:34
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hemingways_lemonade
Sammi :
My daughter asking for water 50 times when putting her to bed 😭 I’m tired and she’s just playing with me but I feel like I’m doing this
2022-05-31 22:56:53
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hemerocallis228
user3016526498479 :
we need community and down with capitalism, i understand both sides bc for the mom it's hard always doing everything and never having time to unwind
2022-05-30 04:56:23
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mrk_storytime
Mary Rachel :
I always got the “you just ate”
2022-06-09 14:23:27
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theseventhplain
🦇 :
HAH! My mom says “I need to stop eating” when I ask for a snack. But my sisters ask and she says yes and never says anything about besides chose a
2022-06-13 18:54:20
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resilientrobynn
✨ResilientRobynn✨ :
Oh my gosh, I just did this to my daughter yesterday 😬. Looking at it from another point of view, I see where I shouldn’t have.
2022-06-13 17:08:46
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birthday.worms
Seven • Joke :
this reminds me of my dad using the treadmill and elliptical as a workout for my brother, he was never fit and he would always make my brother walk(1)
2022-06-13 02:52:19
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sushihasanewdisguise
SushiDraws sushi :
yeah my parents yell at me if I snack bed bed... even though I eat everything they gave to me for dinner
2022-06-13 22:38:21
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