@jesmartini: Reply to @76ladik and remember that the goal isn’t “fixing behaviors” it’s helping our child gain skills/tools/ strategies…while feeling loved, safe, and valued ❤️ and that’s going to take a lot of time…and that’s ok #fyp #whatwouldyoudo #hopethathelps #parents #nobadkids #MomsofTikTok

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smallbump89
Smallbump89 :
I remember being a toddler and having tantrums and my overwhelming feeling was that no one was listening to me or cared what I had to say
2022-05-27 22:40:59
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ourlargefamilylife
Grandma Britni :
I remember being little and throwing a fit. I remember thinking “someone please stop me!”
2022-05-27 22:37:16
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mamirevali
MamiRevali :
This is where trauma sucks, I don’t remember what I felt like as a kid. So now I struggle to help mine through these episodes.
2022-05-28 20:19:28
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dancing_on_the_edge_
Monika :
what are those skills and strategies?
2022-05-27 23:18:03
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evako00
Eva :
My 2yr old wakes up screaming,continues for about 1 hour every night.No apparent reason.I try to reason,hug,say I love him.don’t know what more to do
2022-05-27 23:07:35
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jessierae1112
JessieRae1112 :
that is currently my son. he’s 6, has adhd and odd. every day is a battle. he’s in therapy, has a BA and has a 504 plan at school. i still feel like
2022-05-31 19:09:31
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quill_
Quill :
Sometimes I think I’m not able to think far enough ahead to be a good parent.. I have ADHD and that’s so many steps. But I want to do them all
2022-05-28 23:02:36
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suzie494
user8380514225187 :
My boy lashes out like this and we figured out he is just asking for space. He was trying to hurt people to get them away so we’re teaching him to...
2022-05-28 19:36:36
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bexthismess
Bex ଘ(੭ ᐛ )♡ :
I was sent to my room to "cry it out" and now I'm incapable of expressing negative emotions around others no matter how close.
2022-06-06 05:59:27
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sydneysmith016
Sydney Smith :
ok what do you do when your a adult and are ao emotionally disregulated married with 3 kids and go 0-100 in half a second on everything to the point
2022-05-29 06:01:01
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lovetorun321
lovetorun :
I have a kid that does this when given a natural consequence (he's throwing something so I take it away for example) and I don't know what to do becau
2022-05-28 00:35:40
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mothmaggots
zenith💫 :
when i was like 10 ish i was in trouble for smthn don’t remember what all i remember is telling my parents i was gonna run away, all they said was-
2022-07-01 08:09:37
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lexy_2122
Nicole(lexy) :
I couldn’t even cry and run to my room. I had to walk “respectfully” and wait to cry, quietly.
2022-05-28 18:44:20
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andreiamuhitu
Andreia Muhitu :
I remember meeting a toddler who's mom would punish him severely. obviously he had behaviour issues. one day the mom spoke of her trauma...
2022-05-28 10:40:58
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melissalovley_2
M :
How do you get to the root? What kind of skills would you suggest for two and three year olds
2022-05-27 22:47:38
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denise5907
denise5907 :
I love the unconditional communication but how do we implement that and ignoring bad behaviors? I’m trying to prepare for my sons iep
2023-09-14 14:33:24
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laminatemedaddy
Bee🍯🐝 :
my son hit me today when we were out to lunch. we left the restaurant and sat outside until he calmed down and told me he didn't like how loud it was
2022-05-30 00:49:07
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hobbitinside
HobbitInside :
My mom used to say "if you act like a child I'll treat you like a child" which made me think all extreme emotion was childish. No one taught me how to
2022-05-28 23:07:03
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karimshalon
Karim Shalon :
My son did this yesterday he’s typically not a hitter but he was dog tired and I kept trying different ways to calm him and to get him to rest and he
2022-05-28 01:29:33
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shugaghost
Burlington Cvnt Factory :
My son is non-verbal. His frustration with not being able to effectively communicate was the cause for his physical outbursts. It’s hard to not yell..
2022-05-28 18:44:58
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sfmoonfire
Lunarmoth :
I have struggled with yelling etc. I realized that it doesn't help. I try to get to the root of the problem. It has made mornings much easier.
2022-05-27 22:41:31
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evelynnikas
Evelyn :
A speech pathologist should be the first person to consult for ‘communication strategies’, as that is their specialty.
2022-06-18 05:51:26
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creativeknotsbyjb
creativeknotsbyjb :
What happens when you can’t get professional help? We’ve been on a 2-3 year waitlist with every single university/attachment trauma with no end (1/2)
2022-06-06 00:43:58
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user12098372628726
cdl17rn :
The child I have stepped in to raise is 9 & was smiling as I was trying to discipline him. He refuses to listen to anything & thinks he is an adult.
2022-05-31 15:33:31
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