Rachael-The Considerate Momma
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Monday 13 June 2022 18:28:46 GMT
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Jo :
I had a friend whose parents would buy her a brand new car, or some other thing, but then use it to control her. It seemed so strange to me.
2022-06-13 18:48:29
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taylorofthenorth🇨🇦 :
How I'd handle it "That's totally understandable you were in the pool. For next time maybe turn on the ringer please."
2022-06-13 19:19:29
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sarah :
The consequence doesnt even make sense?? “Im mad u didn’t answer me so I’m going to make it to where u CANT answer me at all now” what did that solve?
2022-06-13 19:08:23
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Ashley :
Yes, this!!!!! ALSO here’s me thinking if he was so worried about her where abouts the last thing he should do is take her phone
2022-06-13 18:45:08
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Rose :
and this is why as an adult I barely speak to my mom. she tries to control what I wore even after I moved out.
2022-06-13 18:46:01
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Kate Masson :
Not to mention that now he has NO way of contacting her. Not safe or respectful.
2022-06-13 18:48:59
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Katelyn Allen :
and I bet if she went out and bought her own, he'd still try to control it and her... coming from experience 🥴
2022-06-13 19:32:11
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NurseSam7717 :
My dad has always done this to me. It’s given me anxiety.
2022-06-13 19:27:56
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Rachel :
I’ve definitely had this happen to me by my parents… 😳 Never thought of it as you put it. Yikes.. Makes me think for sure!
2022-06-13 18:36:04
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Mireya :
My daddy is just like that guy and I don’t have even a tiny little bit of respect for him 🥰
2022-06-13 19:59:10
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bobbiesioux96 :
Im 26 with kids and out of the house and my mom still trys to have control over me , if i dont do what she wants when she wants it
2022-06-13 18:52:44
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aiming4tomorrow :
My first car that I was supposed to be grateful for was used to control me. I’ll never do that to my kids
2022-06-13 19:50:00
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Arielle :
It’s like an abusive relationship. Control is control.
2022-06-13 19:37:36
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Aaron :
And if she had it so close to the pool to here it ring and it accidentally fell in the pool, he’d be mad about that as well. 🤷🏻♀️
2022-06-13 19:24:02
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Mango :
Just 100% FACTS!!!!
2022-06-13 18:50:04
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Bridjet Zemlak :
This is also why I hate when someone is like “hiding my Amazon packages from my husband!!!9
2022-06-13 19:50:25
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Leah Knight :
I didn't respect my parents until I was an adult and we were able to heal our relationship bc I grew up in a very authoritarian household
2022-06-13 19:26:10
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Tarrah Jade :
I got in trouble for being on my phone during a party because I was talking to my mom planning a time to meet her. Then the next day I didn't answer
2022-06-13 18:43:51
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emeryrealle :
daughter does something innocent like swim in the pool, dad's be like TAKE IT AWAY. sons stay out all night not answer phone, dad's be like OH he's
2022-06-13 19:43:37
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Annaliese Erin Parent Coach :
100% I have a video like this in my drafts I’ve been a little nervous to post 😂 because I’m sure parents will get mad at what I think about taking
2022-06-13 23:58:57
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Kelsey E :
THANK YOU!!! I have this struggle with my dad. He’s “older than me” so I “MUST” respect him since he has more “experience” on earth
2022-06-13 20:16:39
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Misadventures of Moose&Co :
That behavior is teaching her what to allow from a husband. Triggered my PTSD from abusive relationships
2022-06-14 21:28:40
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Taylor | Millennial Diaries 💕 :
Also, it teaches girls that men are supposed control them/their belongings when they’re the ones paying for things
2022-06-15 00:42:11
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Brenda Martin7886 :
I’ve never related to something so hard. This is why I still struggle answering the phone when my mom calls. Thank you for making me realize why
2022-06-13 19:15:43
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Katherine :
I think we live in the same town!!! Not gonna say where but I’m 90% sure lol.
2022-06-13 20:54:55
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Kaden Escobar :
I'm confused. He's upset he couldn't get ahold of her...so he took away the tool that would allow him to get ahold of her all together...
2022-06-13 19:05:05
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nikkilynn_2504 :
Dealt with this all my life and until I became a mother myself I couldn’t stand up for myself and now I do and will absolutely not do this to my kids!
2022-06-13 19:49:44
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geekinthepink :
my husband made a joke ONCE about how it was *his* something or other. no sir, not today, I am not that bitch. he's never done it again.
2022-06-13 19:02:18
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RainbowFrog Boutique :
As a child who grew up with parents like this, and as a parent who is trying to break the cycle… I agree with you 100% 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
2022-06-14 18:15:53
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Zully Perez :
No cause toxicity has been normalized.
2022-06-16 13:59:16
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destinylopez0127 :
Yes! I grew up with authoritative parents. It was respect it was fear. Kids shouldn’t fear their parents! And water still is the best 😍😍
2022-06-16 21:17:58
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Marissa V 🩷 :
Becoming a grown A** adult and not “obeying” absolutely ruined my relationship with my dad for good.
2022-06-14 02:15:51
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Alyson 🌻 :
How do I get my husband to stop this…. I just opened a barber suite and he tells me I contribute nothing. If I buy anything I get introuble.
2022-06-14 03:15:24
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jasmine marie :
my father treated me similarly & it’s exactly why i don’t have a relationship w him. :-) i have the most amazing one w my mom though!!!!!!
2022-06-15 23:55:10
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Steffi 💋 :
This still happens to me and im 25 Years old…and its even worse because if i say something im talking back…or giving attitude…theres no winning 🫤
2022-06-13 20:58:54
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das.german.girl :
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
2022-06-13 18:55:02
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VoniqueJ :
I agree. He should have had an open conversation with her and they should have come to an agreement together.
2022-06-13 19:09:06
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Morg :
SO RANDOM. But I think I live in the same town as you😳😂 based off of your cup
2022-06-13 18:49:07
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Gab | FAITH & SAHM :
“We do so much for you, I just find it ridiculous…” yikes so you are proving that you only do things for me so you have the control to guilt me later
2022-06-13 19:22:40
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missmisscreme :
slay momma
2022-06-13 18:49:05
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lifewithkatelynedwards :
👏👏👏👏👏👏
2022-06-16 03:15:24
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tearsricochet86 :
I’m sorry, but lip color please?!??
2022-06-15 20:29:01
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SashaBear :
I had a dad just like that and it was awful! I parent my kids differently bc of how terrible that kind of parent is to the kid.
2022-06-13 19:21:42
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Omm :
My dad always does this …and then apologizes and acts like he did nothing wrong . I am a grown adult now
2022-06-15 05:35:07
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Dani Dawson :
I grew up with you do what your told or get screamed at . If you did something wrong it was because you had an attitude. never showed respect yet
2022-06-15 09:22:33
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Adrianna Peterson :
Had a horrible relationship with my real dad growing up. He shut my phone off multiple times when he didn’t get his way. One of them being while I
2022-06-15 05:35:00
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Hi :
The word ungrateful honestly triggers me bc I was called that my ENTIRE life .. they always told me when I got older I would get it & I never have.
2022-06-15 20:22:52
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