TherapyJeff
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kacey ✨ :
It’s so difficult. I always feel like I’m less of a woman because my libido is so low. And the guilt of “rejecting” him makes it all feel even worse
2022-06-18 19:00:10
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sghetti 🍝 :
The touch without expectations thing… that.
2022-06-18 22:07:26
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Church of Adventure 🧝 :
I don't know if telling them the reason why helps that much, because they just see it all as "excuses"
2022-06-18 21:17:04
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Jurrell Lewars-Munro :
ouch and today tiktok really said FOR YOU
2022-06-18 19:35:12
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Corgdashian 🇨🇦 :
"no" is a complete answer....no needs to justify 🤦♀️
2022-06-22 02:44:27
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MaMaMia :
How do we get this to show up on their fyp?!
2022-06-18 18:57:46
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Geneva :
I was with you until needing to give reasons or soften the no by doing “hand stuff.” No means no, and a true partner would recognize that.
2022-06-22 02:54:26
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Madison :
ugh this 👏 when touch comes with expectations I begin to feel resentful every time he reaches for me and it’s icky
2022-06-19 00:39:40
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Lo-Lo 🍉 :
I was with you until "give a reason" and "offer hand stuff" 😳🙄 no is a complete sentence and feeling obligated to "help them out" is coercive AF
2022-06-21 01:23:54
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Amb :
Also you don't owe your partner anything you don't want to do, they shouldn't make you feel guilty. Assault happens in committed relationships too.
2022-06-21 10:19:58
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Leon Kennedy's Butler :
this makes me feel seen
2022-06-18 19:16:59
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Greerishere :
This ♥️
2022-06-18 18:53:14
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Hot Dog Hikes U.K. :
Know the difference between intimacy and affection 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
2022-06-18 20:13:19
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Sarah ✨ :
I say this all the time! Everytime we hug he thinks something else is happening. So frustrating I want affection with no expectation
2022-06-18 22:04:36
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Magpie's Oddities :
naw I'm just Asexual lol
2022-06-19 02:06:46
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me :
so going through the comments here, essentially most women struggle through this with male partners… makes sense to me ☠️
2022-06-19 14:24:52
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🤍 :
I shut down every time he wants a "cuddle" because it's not a cuddle..
2022-06-20 09:31:02
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T ✨ :
LOT of people in these comments conflating communication and coercion and throwing around some big words w/o context or empathy 👎🏻
2022-06-24 15:59:34
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🪩Ricoque🪩 :
in my case is the opposite. I constantly feel like I'm forcing myself to him even tho he reasures me I'm not
2022-06-18 19:44:28
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It’s me :
🙌🏻 I’ve never had a relationship where touch isn’t followed by expectation/wants
2022-06-21 03:47:34
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Schlgrl_ :
I know there’s nothing wrong with me but I hate having no libido so much
2022-06-19 13:26:33
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Evel :
see I'm ace but so romantic and I feel like I'll never be in a healthy relationship
2022-06-21 21:48:27
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Myles :
My husband is lower so we have a system where I will ask him how he feels about it that day and he says yes, no or ask later. I never ask a reason why
2022-06-18 23:35:11
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