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Southie :
Idk how to respond w/o relating 😭 I’ve been called self-centered for it too but I feel like it’s saying oh I understand!
2022-06-18 23:40:07
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midnight s. moon :
i know this is an audhd thing and i simply dont care...if they dont understand thats my way of connecting with them, they dont want to connect with me
2022-06-18 23:48:53
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ItsTimaraa :
I do this to, but at the end of what I’m saying I try to bring the focus back to the other person & it keeps the convo going. ☺️
2022-06-19 00:39:22
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Gazelle Mone’t :
People who get offended when you’re relating to them and connecting, are the ones who are self centered.
2022-06-26 06:54:19
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Antoni :
I think personally nothings wrong if you interrupt but when you dominate the convo and don’t bring it back to the person they feel cut off.
2022-06-19 00:47:32
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r_boo1 :
I think the only time you have to be cautious is when someone is telling you a trauma experience and then ppl hit back with “hey, x happened to me”
2022-06-19 15:51:34
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milo :
using “i” language vs. making general statements
2022-06-21 20:46:27
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⋆˙⟡ Alyssa Harper ⟡˙⋆ :
I feel like I don't even know when to talk in a conversation… So I don't talk that much because I always feel like I'm interrupting 😅
2022-06-19 06:18:00
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Shady 🌝 :
I try and ask a question first 😭“How did you like it?” -their answer- Yeah he’s good live…(continue w your experience) 🤷🏽♀️😅
2022-06-19 00:27:55
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Snazzie.Jazzie :
I want to be friends with everyone in this comment section, i don't have enough friends that understand my communication style 🥲
2022-06-19 02:05:03
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Beep :
It doesn't make any sense to me why someone would be mad at that
2022-06-19 00:53:53
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Nekko 🇨🇦 :
I have no idea... I relate to this so much 😭 Conversations with other ND's are the best, we communicate the same way and no one's offended 🥰
2022-06-19 01:51:57
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corrineredfern :
Is this not…normal? Surely this is how we connect to each other as humans
2022-06-21 23:07:57
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Gustavo Kowai :
I end my sentence with a question, like “I really like when they play music X, what song do you like the most in the show?”
2022-06-27 01:53:44
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Sav 🤟🏽 :
You’re on the right track! Say your experience then turn it back to them and ask them a question about their experience!
2022-06-21 13:41:48
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Melly :
I appreciate what you're saying but I'm so distracted by how on point your outfit is
2022-06-19 14:45:32
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Lauren Sundstrom :
I always like to “sandwich” those things - like “oh wow, that sounds like it was an incredible experience! I saw Frank Ocean too, it was mind blowing-
2022-06-21 17:20:29
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The Fox :
I do this but always bring the focus back to them, "HOW DID YOU FEEL AT THE CONCERT?!" "DID YOU LOVE IT?!"
2022-06-19 14:57:47
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Andy 🏳️🌈 𓆩✧𓆪 ᵗʰᵉʸ-ᵗʰᵉᵐ :
It's ND communication style, there's nothing wrong, we should be normalising it.
2022-06-19 00:51:53
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corndogco :
i always do that and no one has ever called me out on it 😳😳 gotta surround yourself with better ppl i think… i’d cry if someone called me out on tha
2022-06-19 19:38:18
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Jennine Jacob :
This is what I help people with. You were just missing ONE TINY thing… validating their experience before sharing your experience.
2022-06-25 11:08:59
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Ravena ⚧️♿ :
I don't know either. I'm always afraid people will think I'm turning the conversation all about me BUT IS NOT IT. I swear.
2022-06-26 20:34:59
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Ian Alieno Art :
well it's because some of the thinga people say it's because they want to talk about them, not necessarly bc they want someone to relate, but bc-
2022-06-19 11:32:19
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🫧 :
i have such a hard time with it and it’s so frustrating 😭
2022-06-19 00:03:31
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samalama :
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with bringing up a personal experience like that! But I always make sure to ask them questions about their-
2022-06-19 14:38:18
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