@abbyeckel: Emotionally disregulated adults attempting to emotionally regulate tiny humans is exhausting work #consciousparenting #gentleparenting #traumabreaking #emotionalregulation #parenting #tiktokmom #momtok #kids #mentalload

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rebeccathomas408
RT :
YES! This book helped me with this: How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Farber and Mazlish. It’s amazing!!
2022-06-21 13:51:12
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notmyemaillol
Sarah :
This is true but....things have swung too far the other way imo
2022-06-21 01:33:08
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melissaespinal5
Melissa Espinal :
Most relatable TikTok ever…. We have the same life 😩
2022-07-11 03:13:33
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brandydenison
Brandy Denison :
I had this realization that my husband and I never were taught how to be a partner in the home
2022-06-21 02:04:31
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meganru6
meganRu6 :
feel this 💯!! Exhausting during the day and after they go to bed I think of the mistakes I made/reactions I shouldn't have done.
2022-06-21 01:57:01
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sarahsp5
Sarah :
I feel drained
2022-06-21 02:02:30
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nymphetaminefury
NYMPHETAMINE FURY :
What's worse is trying to emotionally regulate the 5kids I have AND my husband 🥺 I'm exhausted, overstimulated, and overwhelmed
2022-07-08 14:29:46
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theblacksheepsurvives
Roxie 🖤 :
Yup! We are doing double and triple the work. We are emotionally regulating all day long so we are tired. We are worried and we don’t have a “village”
2022-06-21 12:10:09
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meganlindsey421
Megan Lindsey Alicbu :
But our parents weren’t taught either. As a society we are becoming more aware of our emotions but no previous generation has done this.
2022-06-21 20:05:20
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jbutler0927
JessicaMetalCore🤘 :
Any tips??? taking notes over here!
2022-06-21 19:10:00
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roarem
Roarem :
Maybe it's a spicy take, but I think your regulation and boundaries need to come first. Teach them by example, instead of being a referee.
2022-06-21 17:44:28
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mrsnatashacarr19
mrsnatashacarr19 :
THIS! I had no idea before i became a mum this was a thing! (I know right 😭)
2022-06-21 10:45:46
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kitten_shots
jenna 🍉 :
Ok but physical work isn’t the result of neglect so why would emotional work be
2022-07-05 11:58:12
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akielora
Akielora :
Two tiny humans and a hubby and fixing myself it’s sooo tiring 🥺
2022-06-21 02:08:14
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tissiechan
Tissie Chan | Yoga Therapist :
Tbh I think even if you’re good at emotionally regulating yourself it’s still exhausting.
2022-06-23 05:34:09
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ard9092
dranna :
I'm literally teaching my son to regulate emotions while I'm also teaching myself
2022-06-21 12:44:42
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wysteriawaxstudio
WysteriaWaxStudio :
Gen X mom here. Please know that each generation really did try (with some exceptions) to do our very best for our kids. ❤️
2022-06-21 19:17:56
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ladylmm
LadyLMM :
i really like the letting your kids feel their feelings. my mom is the best but she would always "cheer me up" but sometimes i needed to just be sad.
2022-07-11 13:58:48
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mrsluccik
mrsluccik :
been told by my 3 and 5 y.o. to take deep breaths tonight when I was loosing it🙈 they are way better at it
2022-06-21 19:47:28
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lucy.teamgreen
Lucy_💚 :
I feel like the pressure to do better and help our children to grow up with better directions is a huge part of it. We know how it damaged us and we
2022-07-09 03:21:27
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relatablered
RelatableRed :
Preach..Boomer parents are the most communicatio-challenged & least emotionally available ppl I swear.
2022-06-27 14:56:14
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monicamchugh5
Monica McHugh :
Yes Omgggg I’m just starting to figure out how to regality my emotions from therapy, AA, the right meds.
2022-07-06 04:06:12
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aausha_k
Aausha_K :
I had parents who I call ‘emotional hippies’ and they helped me with my feelings ect. But also it’s hard to relate being sad about ✨little things✨
2022-06-27 04:25:09
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