@zeni_light: I wasnt diagnosed with ADHD until I was an adult. I have always lived in what I like to call “controlled chaos” but sometimes the chaos is just a little too much. If you find yourself slipping into a rut or things get too overwhelming- try and tidy up your space, pat yourself on the back when you complete your chore and then give yourself grace for when it gets that bad again. There is nothing wrong with you, even if the shame creeps in and makes you believe there is. (I’m constantly redirecting myself from this self-shame) this is very uncomfortable for me to share this side of who I am, but its time to stop the stigma and embrace who we really are and love ourselves through it. #adhd #adhdinwomen #adhdtiktok #controlledchaos #selfacceptance