BJ Colangelo (she/her)
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Sunday 26 June 2022 23:45:12 GMT
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Lena :
I'm thin and my partner is heavier than me, they have been asked how they "got me to like them" like????
2022-06-27 19:34:25
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BJ Colangelo (she/her) :
Y’all, I know this isn’t exclusive to the queer community but I’m not straight so I won’t speak to that experience. 💚
2022-06-28 02:46:09
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K :
Your wife’s side profile is gorggg omg - y’all are so cute together
2022-06-27 05:52:03
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Aly :
honestly I think it pisses off the straights too. im queer but married to a man and people get aggressively confused by it.
2022-06-27 00:38:27
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1acid :
I don't understand how being thin is androgy bc being fat is more androgynous, isn't it? bc both fem and masc fat ppl usually have big breast?
2022-06-27 10:04:05
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TheCherryBish :
Yes! me and my ex got this all the time. to the point that people would ask me how I could "manipulate' her to be with "someone like me "
2022-07-16 13:29:18
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Sara (she/her)🇨🇦 :
We don’t talk enough about the antfat bias in the queer community. And you two are adorable, love the green.
2022-06-27 22:40:13
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Angelbeaa :
I’ve heard lots of people not understanding how my partner can be attracted to me, even to the point of getting angry and frustrated
2022-06-28 00:54:07
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kaite :
yes!!!! my pride month has been rough because 1) i’m a bi feminine presenting person dating a man 2) he’s stringbean and i’m a marshmallow
2022-06-27 18:40:46
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1kingworm :
i’m shaking with envy and wish you nothing but the best
2022-06-27 10:14:16
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Aggy :
Yes! I date queer people and straight men. It definitely gets commented on by straight people when I date thin and or conventionally attractive
2022-06-27 21:55:51
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Soda Rabbit :
power to you!!! I'm a tall but chunky girl and we always get stared at since my partner is at 5'8 and I'm almost 6'2 lol. my partner loves the fluff😁
2022-06-27 14:16:25
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abinheat :
it does annoy them so much lmao they just can't grasp the concept of being attracted to someone thats not white and thin. also youre both so beautiful
2022-06-28 02:55:54
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Alex :
SAME DUDE SAME. my husband is 200 lbs of lean muscle, and i’m 240 lbs of soft squishy and the STARES we get for it lmao
2022-06-28 00:52:50
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Emily K-L 🍉 :
yes!! Somebody met my (now former) partner and said "oh! I thought he'd be bigger" and just left that there for us to enjoy
2022-06-27 16:58:15
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birdlake_ :
When I was thin people treated me like I was a human
2022-06-27 22:25:12
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Steph | scentfromthefuture :
um you’re both GORGEOUS wow
2022-06-27 12:13:14
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J 🍉🏳️⚧️ :
People really have the Audacity on this topic
2022-06-27 18:49:39
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Kaia :
It's SO sad that people think that fat people are less than. You deserve to be loved by anyone, regardless of yours or their body shape.
2022-06-27 22:23:44
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Loki :
100% agree- I'm not considered fat but I'm also not considered skinny 'enough' to be a likeable queer person
2022-06-27 23:43:10
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alex :
hey off topic but pls don't say "queer and trans people" bc queer includes trans as an umbrella term :)
2022-07-18 07:48:59
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Serah✨ :
I’m in a straight relationship but the same thing happens to me. Thin women at a bar will look at me as if I’m lesser than and try to “take” my bf. P1
2022-06-28 03:20:28
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Shelby Buell :
I’m waiting for someone to stitch this with just the word, “exist”
2022-06-28 02:49:44
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PlantCrazedHermit :
definitely a problem for the NB community. I'm NB and I definitely stugle with the idea that have to be thin to be androgynous.
2022-06-28 19:45:09
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charles :
you are both living my dream
2022-06-27 20:56:23
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stefani :
I posted this on someone else’s stitch but yes!!! When I’m dating thin butches, skinny women will get so weird about it
2022-06-27 02:59:59
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🎨Anemone🍉 :
I relate to this so hard, my partner is very fit and I’m midfat
2022-06-27 19:51:00
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Kathryn Stewart :
my partner is very thin; they are actively trying to gain weight. I'm fat and their family totes resents me for stealing them away.
2022-06-27 22:04:21
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ParGo :
Do they not see the level of color coordination y'all have😳 smh
2022-06-27 22:30:56
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Ny :
TikTok is literally too powerful, like I just started listening to your podcast and here you are on my FYP
2022-06-28 21:56:01
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Rhi Alex 🍉🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ :
As a fat person myself yes!! I’m single, but the fact our community is extremely fatphobic is real. The times I’ve been rejected over my size… 🙄
2022-06-27 10:10:31
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Hecate :
I feel you. I'm a plus size drag queen and my boyfriend is 6'3 and slim and we get so many looks
2022-06-27 01:19:51
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themooneyes :
"but how am I supposed to feel superior if this attractive person chose someone fat over someone like me!!"
2022-06-27 10:37:57
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Nanners :
Unrelated but your eyes are beautiful 🥰
2022-06-27 16:59:00
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Kelllogs special K 🇨🇦 :
Exist..
2022-06-28 01:23:16
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Gen C :
Yes! This was the same with my ex. She was a very conventionally attractive red head. I got very comfortable with her being hit on in front of me
2022-06-27 10:49:40
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Melle :
THIS. THIS. THIS.
2022-06-29 01:05:22
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☆ :
your wife's nose and general side profile is gorgeous ! youre a very good looking couple
2022-06-28 03:14:32
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FloweyTheFlour :
I’ve felt like transfem acceptance/celebration within the community heavily depends on whether the trans person is thin or not..
2022-07-03 15:47:48
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Paula Ming Dobles :
tbh I'm queer myself, dating a cishet yt man and idk if it's that added layer of racism, ive gotten that kind of response, mostly thin women
2022-06-27 00:35:39
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marina_the_seahag :
I'm mostly jealous of both your eyeliner looks 😁
2022-06-27 23:38:30
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peesh :
It took me so long to un-idolize the 110 5'2" "tumblr smol bean queer" body type
2022-06-27 19:54:04
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George :
Y’all are SO cute together!!!!!
2022-06-27 20:23:20
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𝗯𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗰𝘂𝗽𝗮(•̀ᴗ•́)و :
omg absolutely feel u, we r both queer and nb, and they’re noticed by many ppl for their beauty and i just… stand there
2022-06-27 21:43:30
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Brittny Pierre :
What the fuck? People have no chill. Sorry that happens. Also your makeup is also 💯💯
2022-06-27 00:49:40
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Charly Denouement :
💯💯💯 although this definitely isnt a uniquely queer thing at all
2022-06-28 02:13:04
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