@drewwdaniels: Why do “avoidant” go for “anxious” attachments in relationships? #relationshipadvice #attachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #couplesproblems #relationshipproblems #marriageproblems

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mizzieukage
Izzie :
Yeah until the avoidant pushes the anxious away
2022-07-07 23:31:46
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veetxgirl
Vee Vee :
except an avoidant runs away when you love them
2022-07-08 02:57:49
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hailstorm122183
Al’an :
I can’t live with somebody that doesn’t come to me and initiate conversation, affection, and love. So very lonely.
2022-07-08 05:57:07
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gg_in_ok
gg 🩷🇺🇸🛟 :
This is only possible if the avoidant is on a healing journey. Otherwise the anxious just lives in HELL trying to get their needs met.
2022-07-08 15:56:23
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chileanwithcoffee
@chileanwithcoffee :
anxious attachments push me away even more.
2022-07-07 20:23:07
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courtney_murray3
Courtney_Murray :
THIS!!! 🥺 I am the anxious, because he’s avoidant…the more avoidant he gets the more anxious I get
2022-07-08 02:31:32
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drewwdaniels
Drew Daniels :
does this weirdly resonate with anyone else?
2022-07-07 20:07:15
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sineadk88
Sineadk88 :
I'm an avoidant and my partner is an anxious attachment both trying to heal and grow together
2022-07-08 01:04:18
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valevlo
Valerie :
well, my avoidant got sick and tired of my anxious tendencies. he dumped me. I haven't been able to move on. he is being so cold. fml.
2022-07-14 17:26:14
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tashasalinas99
Tasha :
NICE FLIP!!! 🔥🔥🔥 All I’ve ever heard is the negative dynamics. This is gorgeously beautiful. Wow. Perfection.
2022-07-08 00:19:10
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blutopaz94
blutopaz94 :
My therapist said it’s probably because he felt like he could live vicariously through me since I share my emotions freely and he doesn’t
2022-07-08 05:32:41
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snake_jazz7
Chelsea Catalone :
Are you still married? I need answers.
2022-07-28 14:39:10
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goonmonkey52
user1305357349838 :
I was anxious, she was avoidant. Recipe for disaster once there started being issues in the relationship. Glad I walked away
2022-07-07 22:38:07
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lost.galaxy.kitten
Kesu ♡ :
😅 Dating an avoidant... triggers my high anxiety issues but I also understand he has his own issues
2022-07-09 04:11:29
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friedguda
friedguda :
Excellent video 🥰
2022-07-07 20:27:25
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beedivine10
Jamie :
sorry but I need communication, abundance, passion, affection and energy. All of which an avoidant won't give.
2022-07-14 21:38:48
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omniposimp
Simp :
But like… sounds like y’all both anxious. Bc I’m avoidant, if I feel pursued too much I run away
2022-07-08 01:21:08
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imjennabella
user6259247704160Jennabella :
ARE YOU A LIBRA???? 😏
2022-07-07 21:43:01
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fromsteph_withlove
Stephanie :
It’s more like we need to win the love of the avoidant to prove that we ARE worthy and lovable. But the thing is, even if we do, it’s never enough 😳
2022-07-07 21:44:52
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hailstorm122183
Al’an :
I feel not pursued and he doesn’t initiate love. So it is to painful to be married to him anymore.
2022-07-08 05:48:42
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atlbsn
atlrn8 :
Anxious pick avoidant bc their comfort zone is being anxious and avoidants make them anxious.
2022-07-11 00:11:26
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barbaracarolinewa
barbaracarolinewa :
the avoidant just ends up doing to the anxious what you say was done to you.
2022-07-11 09:59:33
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alex.daydreams
alex.daydreams :
How do avoidants save exactly? All they do is take, take take & refuse to self reflect. It’s excruciating.
2022-07-13 18:50:00
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fijones70
fijones70 :
The realist explanation of my last relationship. It drove us apart but watching this makes me think we can sort this out. X
2022-07-07 20:37:21
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jenn.ntonic
Jenn :
Except the avoidant runs off once the anxious shows their love for them
2022-07-25 12:47:23
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