@chillpolyamory: high standards cut both ways 😩 #polyamorytiktok #relationships #nonmonogamy #relationshipanarchy

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themiddlespoon21
themiddlespoon21 :
This reminds me of how my 3-year-old daughter will use our parenting techniques against us. 😂
2022-07-13 18:19:11
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max_in_maine
Max_in_Maine 🍉 :
Oh I feel this! Because good partners are tuned into that thing and able to voice it constructively 10/10 🥰
2022-07-13 17:57:44
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magslydale
Maggie Robinson :
I have learned too that It’s a gift to have a partner who respects you and themselves enough to fairly reflect your own high standards back at you.
2022-07-13 19:51:09
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lily_cait
Lily Swanda :
Would you be willing to talk about how you deal with the anxiety of that much intimate time and space with a LDR? Because 😔
2022-07-13 18:00:50
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whysofewhonks
Calvin Reeder :
This ain't just a poly thing either!
2022-07-13 21:13:31
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the_kikidoll
Janné :
Yes! Also, where did you get your necklace?
2022-07-13 19:51:01
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snaggledtooff
jack :
@benj
2022-07-27 19:35:08
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astra__2002
Astra :
I think high standards might also be hard to stick to if you're polyam because of the ironic shrinkage of the dating pool.
2022-07-13 18:13:06
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sweetsartcorner
Sweets Art Corner :
Absolutely right! Had that situation last weekend, I was mad at my partner for something he did and acted sulky and salty instead of telling him -
2022-07-13 18:28:07
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doggerybaw
Monica 🍉 :
my partner(of over 12 years) finally feels safe enough to unmask at home with me. growth is hard but so worth it!
2022-07-13 19:21:16
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magslydale
Maggie Robinson :
Oh god it’s allll facts
2022-07-13 19:49:13
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jaqkal.m
jaqkal.m :
🤣 The double-edged sword for sure
2022-07-13 19:20:06
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bowiethefrenchie
BowieTheFrenchie :
It’s more work, but it’s so much healthier ❤️
2022-07-13 20:01:46
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joefourfingers
Joey Fourfingers :
That’s beautiful! 🥰
2022-07-13 18:22:32
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notnksanymore
C :
This is so true! I have been really learning this and I’m so thankful for the ability to learn and grow
2022-07-13 21:12:52
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cher_lupa
Cher :
I'm glad that works that way for you 🥰
2022-07-13 18:01:27
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eevee.celeste
eevee.celeste :
so so true! I'm more selective with partners because of it as well, and ultimately everyone has a better time if I'm honouring what I value
2022-07-13 21:38:05
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nanabrh
Nanabrh :
woooow I love that !
2022-07-13 22:28:52
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penny_in_wonder
Penny in Wonderland :
I need to bring this energy
2022-07-13 22:46:17
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floordeboor_fit
Floordeboor :
Thank you for all your content 🥰 Going on a date for the first time (while having a partner) next week 😱😍☺️
2022-07-14 03:31:37
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poopykitty3
poopykitty3 :
How would you go about introducing something new to your partner, I think the new thing should be no problem and they just aren’t comfortable.
2022-07-14 06:28:56
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glitternoodle
demetra :
where do you get all your amazing jewelry?!
2022-07-14 09:22:43
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roland_firebrand
rolandfirebrand :
high standards are great when the person who has them also lives by them. glad you and yours share quality standards!
2022-07-14 15:18:47
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shtant0
Shtanto :
Recently I noticed myself adjusting my standards a lot trying to meet people, something I've always been doing. Not good. Viel Gluck freunden 🤗
2022-07-16 10:40:55
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kevindrivenkarma
Kevin Walker :
Love that story thank you 🥰
2022-07-18 10:52:44
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natanacreativepineapple
Natana 🍍|🌈Virtual Assistant :
Love this 🥰
2022-07-13 17:59:21
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skyesidhe
skyesidhe :
Literally just had to write a text which was (acceptably) uncomfortable for me because of this same high standard RIGHT before seeing this. 😂
2022-08-01 03:26:48
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ldn_twentyseven
T ✨ :
Yes!! I ALWAYS say “I have such high standards because I am such a high standard”
2022-08-08 22:58:34
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chrisalford8101
chrisalford8101 :
I have a speech impediment ADHD and a brain injury to mention a few completely disabled another thing I worry about
2022-09-06 03:31:36
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chrisalford8101
chrisalford8101 :
because of my facial dysymmetry nobody has ever trusted me in 60 years so I have become pathologically honest it presents problems in dating
2022-09-06 03:33:00
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