Dr. Nicole LePera
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Thursday 11 August 2022 19:26:11 GMT
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Brendan Patrick 🎵 :
Hey that’s me! When I stopped abandoning myself and stopped playing the character they created for me, I went from golden child to outcasted. 😂👍🏻
2022-08-11 19:36:58
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kelliknud5 :
I called myself a “chameleon” in high school because I felt I could be around/be with/be friends with anyone and everyone..aka ppl pleasing
2022-08-11 21:27:46
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Meg :
Needed to listen to this 3 times before my brain recieved it fully. Thank you for your hard work!
2022-08-11 19:56:37
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🤍 :
Homieeee but what do I do to change it now that I understand that? I’m about to actively start seeking disapproval lmao 😂😅
2022-08-11 19:44:38
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jp_sunshine🌻 :
....help. I feel my son does this to me. His father and I share custody. How can I help him know he doesn't have to please me, etc.
2022-08-24 03:24:58
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Keerilyn :
My immigrant parents provided me with everything but emotionally they were not there. Most of my childhood was full of physical abuse.
2022-08-30 15:36:48
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FelixLeesLeftFoot :
I have a question: can emotional neglect happen later on in a child’s life? For example: my mom started emotionally neglecting me when I was a … 1/2
2022-09-12 02:41:48
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kirklandkook :
where is this being recorded / where can i hear more? trying to develop / find my sense of self now!
2022-08-11 19:42:58
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Riana :
Recovering people
2022-08-15 19:17:11
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Tik Toker :
I have delayed speech any time I try to communicate my emotions to anyone, stopping mid sentence sometimes to make sure I don’t say the “wrong thing”-
2022-08-21 05:55:11
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😏 :
One person can start generations of people pleasing. I’m a people pleaser from learned bevior, not trauma.
2022-08-11 23:27:24
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Päivi Heiskanen :
Sending love to anyone who is healing ❤️❤️learning to be self compassionate is so important when you do the work. Criticism is still hard for me1/2
2022-08-12 15:44:14
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Kasey Sanchez725 :
I’m a strugglin people pleaser, but for me I think it’s more closely related to how much validation I got from my mom and others, not how little. 1/2
2022-08-13 06:35:44
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Ashley Artsco 🎀 :
Be true to yourself. You can’t please everyone. Sense of self and authenticity is crucial to leading a fulfilling life.
2022-08-11 20:12:51
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chloeesmithh3 :
I’m on the right side of TikTok 🙌 Thank you so much for helping other’s be true to themselves. You inspired me to go to therapy!
2022-08-11 19:47:01
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reThink :
Yep this is spot on. Now how do we as adults not people please for that sense of self
2022-09-09 16:17:28
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ashleykplay2 :
How do I stop people pleasing?
2022-08-17 17:47:21
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Nena :
How can you stop this pattern?
2022-08-11 20:01:56
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Mia Bella Somniator :
brrooooo yup. how do u break this?
2022-08-19 07:00:22
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Em Crisman :
I’m having a hard time. Is it possible to be people pleasing without being neglected? I feel like I was not neglected. Hmm
2022-08-12 23:16:14
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Peche :
❤️❤️❤️
2022-08-11 19:56:21
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🔮 :
Can you do a video about bpd ?
2022-08-16 02:44:15
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