LifeintheAshlaneLLC
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Dwayne Moody906 :
save that bullshit for someone who lives in your world in the real world that shit don't play
2022-09-09 18:30:15
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Thokozile :
"Weaponized incompetence" is the best term I've ever learnt.
2022-08-13 12:02:09
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Mylz_Grind :
This is common sense. People are just lazy.
2022-08-12 22:09:55
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Khanyi :
“But my mama…” 🤪
2022-08-13 07:49:21
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black brother :
as a man I 100% agree I keep telling other men this but it keeps coming over as rocket science
2022-08-13 12:42:33
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Hannah M :
Also just because you pay the bills it doesn’t mean you can control her every move
2022-08-13 03:53:02
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Echo :
Even when she is a SAHM, he still needs to help when he gets home from work. It’s not fair if he only has a 9-5 job and she has a 24/7 job.
2022-08-16 06:15:09
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Cori :
bills + money for personal use!
2022-08-13 03:34:19
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Dominique A :
A lot of dudes don’t want to step into manhood!
2022-08-23 20:47:14
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heather6earle🇨🇦 :
And no more of “ but you just sit all day at work and my job is more physical “
2022-08-13 19:28:37
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Nina :
Told my husband that ok I’ll do all of that but I keep all my money. Want a 50s wife, be a 50s husband.
2022-08-13 14:21:19
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Monika Rose 🌹 :
Wait NO; What about her retirement? Sitting home & not getting retirement prepared? If they divorce or death, she has no income, 20 yrs no career
2022-08-25 00:55:33
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876lb :
First step is to set the stage for both roles. most relationships don't start with expectations which is why they fail.
2022-08-12 21:55:28
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kyaffical_4k :
don't forget too that if she is staying home and not work, she needs needs money to to look good for you, she is gonna need money for herself
2022-08-13 12:46:37
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Zandi Z :
So happy to see men in the comments saying, yes this makes sense. It is such a simple concept.
2022-08-13 04:43:06
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D :
it's so simple...and I'm also so tired of discussing this issue over and over 🙄
2022-08-13 12:51:19
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Tierra Schaatt :
Tax bracket better match the request!
2022-08-25 04:02:48
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Marni :
You couldn’t pay me to do this for a man. We miss out on way too much professionally and our health suffers.
2022-08-13 14:30:39
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LaurenRima81 :
I would argue even if he earns more, if they both are working 8 hours, house chores should be split. period.
2022-08-13 13:15:50
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DChantey :
I deleted my comment on one of your posts, because I didn’t want any smoke lol. But this was my thought…IT IS SIMPLE!!!
2022-08-12 23:24:16
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Poundkeyz 🇨🇦 :
I lived in a home where my mom cooked, cleaned, raise my brother and I and she was the breadwinner but my dad was 3rd child that didn’t work.
2022-08-13 12:36:05
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coachkenny11 :
I don’t see a problem with helping each other out even if I do pay all the bills even if we go half ima still wanna do everything lol
2022-08-26 15:09:00
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Cleveland _Red :
From one Patterson to another your delivery is triggering. You aren’t wrong but you’re missing some key points. I’ll never expect her to do
2022-08-13 14:51:35
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Thunderbird & Koolaid :
If you date a person who already lives alone it isn't hard to continue to doing any of those things when you unite. The question is why unite?
2022-08-12 21:54:01
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Kwanele :
How do I like this a million times
2022-08-13 05:19:52
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phnmnlbeauty :
they understand this concept when they go oversees 🤷🏽♀️they provide and don’t tell those females they have to work
2022-08-13 15:57:06
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iamacraftymama🇨🇦🇧🇧 :
And she must get what she wants. No policing of her expenses.
2022-08-13 14:16:15
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user9128892463596 :
You succeed as a couple or you fail as a couple. We share in all tasks.
2022-08-13 11:05:56
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ghettolaw :
Exactly well said Queen
2022-08-13 02:39:16
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Kristina Domeikienė :
You are forgetting the pension! You are wasting your work years and will not get pension!!!
2022-08-13 12:41:57
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Jerv :
Agreed totally 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
2022-08-13 03:35:30
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Decker :
I do half the house work and pay the bills. I’m just simply not lazy
2022-08-12 21:43:45
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Sanguine Bardell 🇨🇦 :
We are done playing, period.
2022-08-13 14:46:03
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Marianna | Sacred Guide :
Paying the bills isn’t enough. Emotional support is just as vital. And it’s not fair for her to do the job if 5 ppl and he does just 1. He still needs
2022-08-13 20:33:32
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MO :
Totally agree, that's fair
2022-08-12 23:57:09
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Les :
YOUR CARE AND SACRIFICE FOR YOUR FAMILY HAS TO BE MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOURSELF…for example: step fathers and mothers who raise other people kids…
2022-08-12 21:59:55
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Sammy :
Yes, with me and my husband, he works, n I stay home. And he will still sometimes help cook and with the kids. We have 5. It works for us
2022-08-13 09:46:06
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vocal_blonde :
Also, she won’t be responsible for that child care and domestic labour 24/7. If she’s working at home from 8-5, you’re a team nights and weekends.
2022-08-13 14:51:25
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Trease83 :
in the words of the infamous Lauryn Hill... it could all be so simple .. but youd rather make it hard
2022-08-26 15:00:28
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Yellow Blossom 🌼 :
Ladies please be hypergamous or STAY SINGLE and maintain your own place! For your peace🥰
2022-08-23 16:58:45
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troublemane79 :
My sentiments exactly… Equal efforts and work is key. Talk about expectations and duties then agree on them. TeamWork is where it’s at💪🏾
2022-08-12 22:25:36
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Alie :
As a SAHM I can’t do it all either.
2022-08-24 16:30:01
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Sean Garvey :
I have no problem paying all the bills if she stays home. Zero. Where are the wives?
2022-08-13 14:09:47
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Sabrina :
Sis I feel you, but that will never happen, we always have the most to do. I am mom and their dad, he is just a shell there😳🥺
2022-08-13 05:00:51
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Dee :
Exactly. American women finally woke up. What’s the rubbish about going 50/50? Will his body ever be ruined by childbirth? It must NEVER be 50/50….
2022-08-13 09:54:25
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biancahuntwhitten :
Even if a guy is 100% financially supporting his family I still think that when he gets home, both partners should share equal domestic duties.
2022-08-23 23:26:39
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offshorejohnny :
Absolutely. But when I pay for everything, I would appreciate if the house is well-kept the dishes are done and it doesn’t even have to be perfect
2022-08-12 22:35:58
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LuvyhoneyB :
babe you made my pores move with the accuracy and to the point statements you spoke my gosh
2022-08-13 02:44:31
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