@theconsideratemomma: Fear produces compliance but it doesn’t produce RESPECT! 😕 #parentingwithunderstanding #respectfulparenting #gentleparenting

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amazingterribletv
amazingterribleTV :
It’s just manipulation on the kids part
2022-08-30 03:06:16
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mamabearg123
mamabearg :
compliance is what we basically do in work place.
2022-08-30 00:14:28
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itsmaebtw_
Mae 🍉 :
I was terrified of my dad as a kid. Now he wonders why I never “spend time with him”
2022-08-29 22:42:20
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theohheyydee
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The comments did not pass the vibe check. Too many people hell bent on being a tyrant.
2022-08-30 03:14:12
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galactickellz
Galactic Kellz :
He did a really great job at expressing how overwhelmed he was. I don’t see him pushing a boundary, he literally verbally expressed his emotions
2022-08-31 04:35:24
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kvhi700
kvhi700 :
Yes; it’s time consuming sometimes but taking 5 mins to help get them started or break it down into smaller steps makes it easier all around.
2022-08-30 00:14:08
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ohlookitsbrookee
fortunateone :
every time i try to tell people this they say "well i turned out fine" .......but did you???? 😂
2022-08-31 17:44:14
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samyager6
Sam Yager :
All these people with “he needs to be disciplined.“ my dad was a yeller like this. I wasn’t taught how to manage emotions or how to break tasks 🔴
2022-08-30 00:50:19
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landonandlogan365
Lauren&Logan :
these comments don't pass the vibe check! 🥺
2022-08-30 02:38:50
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thorn_bites
Lewis :
I was never taught HOW a to clean, HOW a to look after myself, just expected to somehow do it by myself and yelled at for not, to the point of tears+
2022-08-31 16:51:23
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maid.of.stardust
Ayla :
Constantly amazed at how heartless some parents are. I was told my tears were manipulation when in reality I was just a little girl who needed 1/2
2022-08-31 14:31:46
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isaretjess
Jazz 🥶 :
But no one helps you when you are an adult and we can not show vulnerability like that so isn’t it inevitable I honestly don’t think it’s that bad 🙃
2022-09-10 19:56:13
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dashkatchem
Jayne :
The number of times my friends and I have just sat in each other’s rooms while we clean because the task felt too big without emotional support..
2022-08-29 22:46:10
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b.radman13
Brittany :
👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 YES! He was literally trying to communicate. His parents will be the same ones saying “I wonder why he doesn’t talk to us” when a teen
2022-08-30 01:12:11
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muhriiee02
Liz Marie :
I grew up in that environment and crazy thing is my “father” would tell us, he WANTED us to be fearful of him.
2022-08-30 20:08:47
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shadowed.echo
Bre :
Just wanted to add too, if the child doesn't want to start with the books, a simple "what do you want to start with?" could be sufficient as well.
2022-08-29 23:59:01
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rebeccaduell0
Rebecca Duell :
My husband only cares about compliance because he was raised that THAT is respect. He saw the op and was like "see moms to soft" 🥺
2022-08-29 22:45:15
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tes.untethered
Tes :
BREAK 👏🏼 IT 👏🏼 DOWN 👏🏼 MAMA 👏🏼 👏🏼
2022-08-29 22:47:05
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jaedengomezz
jaedengomezz :
THIS
2022-09-04 20:28:05
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jenanicole45
Jena Nicole FNP-BC 💋💉👁️ :
"Compliance is not respect". 💯
2022-08-29 22:54:15
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asha.k310
Ash :
I am terrified of my father’s reactions to things because of this type of parenting so thank you for this
2022-10-21 15:23:37
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bootyfoots
Tiffany :
You are so correct. I wish child development was taught to all parents.
2022-08-30 22:11:12
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hannyschacky
Hannah Schack :
Growing up like this, I definitely would’ve gone into my room and quietly cried and felt even more stressed and upset
2022-08-31 13:58:57
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katieaitchi1
Katie Aitchison :
Kids aren’t born with problem solving skills, it’s up to us to teach them and to show patience through that process!
2022-08-31 17:43:23
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