@alaskan.bull.woerm: If you see/ hear people talking about THEIR experience (something that you’ve never experienced), it’s probably best to take a back seat & listen instead of pushing this air headed take of how someone should carry themselves. #beautystandards #ShowOffLandOFrost #colorism #blackcommunity #beauty #socialanxiety
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Saturday 10 September 2022 18:32:37 GMT
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Yesss I feel this so hard with all the girls giving dating advice to get “princess treatment”….. I’m lucky if I get respect my dude
2022-09-17 18:32:29
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MITCHEL :
Funnily enough my partner is the conventionally attractive person in our relationship yet somehow they’re insecure. Completely agree though.
2022-09-12 02:52:26
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thraxkylo :
What I don’t get is everyone had preferences ab something so why do people cry when they aren’t desired
2022-09-14 05:50:09
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Georgie :
It’s not just treatment, it’s also opportunity, financial status, medical care. The diff in exp is profound and the results can be dehumanizing.
2022-09-17 17:40:42
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LittleMissLei :
A lot of conventionally attractive people don't even believe or see themselves how others see them. That's also a very real experience
2022-09-18 12:08:51
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Ncky Blogs :
I have literally never commented on a tiktok video before, this is honestly the most real thing I have ever heard come out of someone's mouth. ((1/2))
2022-09-18 04:19:41
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Crystal Combs :
But if it’s your friend you’re just trying to help them and give them pointers so they can be happy
2022-09-14 03:58:39
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plushplush :
People are mean because I'm fat and I've been fat since I was 9 years old. They get mad if I ever think I'm cute.
2022-09-19 20:36:32
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Xiata Sanir :
I’m conventionaly attractive now but I’ve been on both sides and the treatment is so different
2022-10-18 03:36:58
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✩ Muvatokyo ✩ :
THANK YOU
2022-09-12 20:49:32
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Simply Grace 💕 :
Right !
2022-09-11 04:42:17
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@mynamesjefffff :
This might just be me but does anyone get mask anxiety: like you feel scared to take your mask off in public because you know how you’lol be perceived
2022-09-11 02:21:43
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Evy :
there's a term by psychologist Edward Thorndike called the 'Halo Effect' and it's counter part the 'Horns Effect' which talks about how conveniently 1
2022-09-17 22:06:45
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AnswerTheBell :
I second this message cuz my experience is dark skin. 🤷🏾♀️
2022-09-10 22:05:49
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Tatiana ✨ :
Nah fr, I definitely see it, especially when I wear makeup and when I don’t. Pretty privilege is really real.
2022-09-11 05:46:16
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steph :
The way men treat me with my short natural hair vs when I have a my curly wig &lashes is soooo different. Once I reject them, they say I’m ugly & bald
2022-09-11 20:46:24
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🍓Berrryyy🍓 :
So damn true! People need to stop denying the realities of others! We live in a society that created these constructs ‼️💯
2022-09-17 20:54:59
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Rose :
no really talks about how expensive it is and can be to keep with yourself..nails hairstyle clothes waxing eyebrows eyelashes skincare
2022-09-11 14:39:51
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I agree with her , we live in a superficial world. Yes, many treat me soo nice based off my beauty, everyone opens the door for me girls and Boys.
2022-09-16 07:00:58
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👩🏽💻 :
It’s weird how lightskin women feel the need to over step and invalidate darker skin women and then bully them in the same sentence
2022-09-13 18:22:29
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🍫 🎀 𝒜𝓂𝒾𝓃𝒶 🎀 🍫 :
preach
2022-09-11 04:30:23
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rosesformyhaters :
Wanna know what’s weird about this? Maybe I am an anomaly but whenever I walk outside in my 4c unaltered state, no makeup as a light skinned woman...
2022-09-11 04:44:17
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Shay :
I think a lot of conventionally attractive ppl turn a blind eye to avoid feeling the guilt of something they essentially can’t control, but possess.
2022-09-18 01:33:10
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Goddessoflove2024 :
appreciate ur honesty,it's hard to speak up about something u may feel insecure about
2022-09-12 06:14:40
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Ms. Lisa :
Umhmm I’m delusional because now idk if I’m conventional or unconventional but I’m not light skin and I get told I’m beautiful everytime I got outside
2022-09-18 03:01:04
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Afrolove🫶🏾 :
I have a very unconventionally attractive body & it’s exhausting trying to pick something to wear that won’t have ppl staring at me in disgust.
2022-09-17 18:24:43
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Kiara🪷 :
It’s so aggravating they will never understand how dehumanizing it feels
2022-09-14 14:45:35
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Neci :
This is so true . I would rather them acknowledge it.
2022-09-13 01:33:12
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reychawl 🌸 :
I agree, but also I hate how society determines "attractive". like for ex. I ♥️the middle eastern noses, but the media makes ppl insecure -
2022-09-18 01:51:27
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Jazz | Tall Lifestyle :
This is very much a real thing! As a a woman who has experienced “pretty privilege” seeing the opposite is one of the ugliest things I’ve witnessed..
2022-09-17 19:40:20
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Rare Vagabond :
As an ugly duckling who turned into a swan..this is facts..I clearly remember how I was treated in my youth vs now...
2022-09-18 02:58:58
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Crabapple_Conspiracy 🇵🇸 :
BTW a conventionally attractive person’s reaction to the concept of “pretty privilege” will tell you a WHOLE lot about them.
2022-09-17 20:53:11
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JustRandy :
I can totally relate to so much of this!! I appreciate the realness!!! I’ve heard you’re pretty for a dark skin way too many times!!!
2022-09-18 02:07:30
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Jordynantonia :
Exactly!
2022-09-14 06:45:59
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Staar | Midsize Millennial :
This!!!
2022-09-17 22:39:04
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user8722312450031 :
no you're right... Me being oblivious I didn't notice when younger but but I do get treated different based on a perceived beauty.
2022-09-14 21:35:50
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thezaihedit :
I was literally just writing about this
2022-09-13 00:43:17
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KellyBean! :
talking to black folks about colorism ds bw experience is like talking to a brick wall... Glad people are still trying tho
2022-09-15 00:39:23
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Heiress 💕 :
It’s real and I’m sorry this happens to you. Bro, if they don’t know how it feels they can’t speak on it
2022-09-18 21:36:52
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Outsidercritic :
Very true
2022-09-13 13:40:16
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Risa :
Appreciate your honesty. It’s sad that people try to tell us how to feel about colorism and pretty privilege.
2022-09-13 00:49:20
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Amelia🩷 :
I'm an in-between, I know that I'm not conventionally attractive, but I am also aware that I am good enough. what you're saying is painfully true.
2022-10-11 05:53:47
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Kierraaa :
Why is it that darker skin women & light skin women with black features understand this but light skin women with white features act clueless? 😂😂
2022-09-19 22:38:30
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Labritney Nelson :
I mean it’s plenty of beautiful ppl who don’t feel beautiful either even if they are conventionally pretty. It’s really what you see in the mirror
2022-09-19 04:07:15
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Alex 🦋 :
So true.. I damn near cry a little.. that’s why I like to stay to myself and around people that’s more like me… cause I know me won’t fit in with the
2022-09-17 22:16:02
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k. :
the disregard & vitriol i’ve received for being a fat dark skinned girl with a TWA & no makeup. i gave up listening to them
2022-09-14 04:53:53
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mmfatik199 :
gladiators used to be treated like GODS and ppl still do it
2022-09-11 07:16:18
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