@theholisticpsychologist: Parentification is known as an “invisible” trauma where a child becomes an emotional caretaker to an adult. When we’re put in this dynamic, we experience emotional neglect. This leads to low self worth, anxiety, confusion about who we are, issues in relationships etc. We also struggle with understanding boundaries because we were never modeled them #selfhealers #parentification #childhoodtrauma #innerchildhealing

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manalniz
Manal | art + words :
I don’t want kids because I have two, a boy and a girl, named mom and dad.
2022-09-12 13:09:42
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bake_you_happy
bake_you_happy :
I was so proud to be the emotional support as a child. My therapist made me realise how not okay it was 😳
2022-09-12 13:02:26
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hamiartea
owl :
they do it even when you grow up and it's really tiring
2022-09-12 12:41:01
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boxgirl7554
Alve :
How much trauma do I actually have
2022-09-12 13:48:51
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nicki_7891
Nicki 🫶 :
my mum did this with bills she never stopped talking about it when I was little
2022-09-12 13:14:02
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janaejones355
janaejones355 :
My mother used to pack me and my little sisters into the car to go find my dad in the middle of the night.
2022-09-12 12:47:21
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lucia.1996
Lucia :
my mom showed me the bruises from my dad, thanks mom for teaching me that is normal 😌
2022-09-12 12:44:03
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alyinx
Gnomopelato :
Not exctly the same,but my parents have been worried for my sister’s depr3ssion since I was 12 and I felt like I had to solve the problem confort them
2022-09-12 13:01:40
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zuper_sweet
zuper_sweet :
Thank you for posting this it triggered something in me that needs to heal.
2022-09-12 13:06:13
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neavaeha
Nivaeha :
My mom complained so much about paying bills, nagging over my dad leaving that I was 7 years old when I said:I don't want to be an adult and pay bills
2022-09-12 13:21:17
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tazjupiter
T :
Saving this to show my therapist
2022-09-12 12:49:25
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synneeverett
SynneEverett :
my mum showed me the picture of my step-dad and his affair she had found in his bag, when I was waaay to young to understand. never forgot
2022-09-12 12:36:39
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raviollieraviollie
raviollie🍝 :
to bad my parents never thought this would be damaging, since i had to parent BOTH of them
2022-09-12 12:54:43
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anastasiamarkou
Anastasia Markou :
i am related to this...😭 as a child same thing happened 😭
2022-09-12 12:37:21
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ricky_ricks1
Ricky Ricks | i told ya! :
Oh gosh, this is one of the most hurtful things I have to work on during my healing journey 🤦🏻‍♂️
2022-09-12 12:48:22
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it.aint.easybeing.wheezy
it.aint.easybeing.wheezy :
these always hit home
2022-09-12 12:38:42
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user1283936.4
User18934792 :
Alguien traduzca o stitch este video, es súper común en los padres latinos hacer esto 🥺🥺🥺
2022-09-12 19:18:23
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razzpberri
razzpberri :
so many of your videos hit home for me. I feel less alone. my moms issues with her weight especially have lingered with me for a long time.
2022-09-12 12:41:19
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your.s.3mma
Emma 🪽 :
Ma mère m’a fait ça 💀💀
2022-09-13 09:49:36
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dandan12274
dandan12274 :
Even when the children are older…my mom disclosed my dad’s affair at 16yrs old and it shattered my ability to trust other men in relationships
2022-09-12 13:31:34
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childofchaos18
Zoe :
I know all the deatails of my dads affair, I know all the drama about my moms friends and about one of her friends abusive husbands, and more
2022-09-12 13:28:01
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karlaaguiar
karla ღ :
my mom keeps doing this to me, i’m 24, i get really annoyed everytime she comes to complain about my father but choose just to ignore
2022-09-15 15:08:14
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theempressishere
Simple :
Are you a systemic/family theory therapist? I really like your approach to family relationships, I'm devouring ur content, it's awesome!🙏
2022-09-12 16:02:18
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franscot96
🦄𝓕𝓻𝓪𝓷🐺🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ :
muum dose this
2022-09-12 12:33:26
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