@theholisticpsychologist: When we’re raised as trophy children, we experience childhood emotional neglect. This impacts our ability to connect with other people, to communicate our feelings, & to work through conflict. Healing is about learning how to self express & how to ask to get our needs met even when it’s scary or uncomfortable. #selfhealers #childhoodtrauma #innerchild #emotionalneglect
Dr. Nicole LePera
Region: US
Friday 16 September 2022 13:22:30 GMT
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Rune :
I started off as the trophy child but then turned into the scapegoat in my late teen years once I realized I was being abused and started “rebelling”.
2022-10-23 07:42:10
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Blondie❌ :
I unknowingly treated my children that way. Trying to repair the damage.
2022-09-16 18:54:29
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nareisraelyan :
The loneliness as an adult of wanting to talk about your trauma but feeling like you’re betraying your parents because appearances are all they have
2022-09-19 14:07:37
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Alina Lehmann :
Oh that was my mom except that there was no social media. The social media were here „friends from church“ I had to impress. She even has put down
2022-09-19 21:11:31
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lmnop :
Oh damn. My husband was the trophy kid. Cute, witty and athletic. I see him pedestaling our third because she acts so much like him. This is hard
2022-09-16 16:24:39
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2bagsofgummies :
Relatable… it was so uncomfortable being presented and objectified. And so lonely.
2022-09-16 15:27:19
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Caribeads :
These are so helpful for parents. Thank you
2022-09-16 14:17:06
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TRIANA :
Oh damn. So this is why I don’t have any friends now. My mother did this.
2022-09-18 20:31:40
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lindsayteffer :
....trying VERY hard not to ugly sob on a city bus atm
2022-09-16 13:39:25
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khajiit has comments :
ugh my mom had me like ten years before her friends did. whenever she meet up with them she'd parade me around as the perfect quiet child.
2022-09-16 15:53:46
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Maya and Zeus :
I love your face at the end of all the videos 😂 😳
2022-09-16 13:44:24
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Caradwynn🇨🇦 :
What about parents who are really open and supportive at home, but expect kids to "keep it at home" What does that do to the developing kid?
2022-09-16 15:57:39
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user8349220163227 :
This one hit hard.
2022-09-16 16:41:54
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🍯 static :
Yup….that’s me 🥺
2022-09-16 13:30:00
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mari_october :
it's okay you can say family vloggers.
2022-09-17 12:03:18
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c_anne13 :
i need your book 🥰😁
2022-09-16 14:07:24
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👁📼 ૮ TﻌT ა 👁📼🇵🇸 :
I was a 'good kid because I'm quiet and sometimes people don't even notice im there I dont ask for much and when I did it was only for things that
2022-10-16 22:21:42
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LG :
My mom bragged about my sports accomplishments to others, but never went to a single game my ENTIRE life. Confront her? Feels shame/gets defensive
2022-09-26 21:46:25
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Melissa Ruff257 :
my brother LOL he was the perfect and only one talked about people were surprised when my parents brought us girls anywhere 😂
2022-09-16 14:24:56
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zola :
I am a trophy child. This was hard to watch 🥺
2022-09-18 17:34:45
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jovanapopovic2006 :
*sends to every family channel*
2022-10-15 05:00:59
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✨Andi✨ :
Your videos are helpful for parents and an unraveling realization for adult children 🥲🥲🥲 your videos make me go… “ wait,that’s not normal?!”
2022-09-16 19:32:16
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Hannah Scott :
Mainly cause I have friends who went through these or I did
2022-11-26 20:26:18
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missy_kay31 :
That was my father for the first 10 years of my life when he was in it
2022-09-16 15:48:16
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