@deconstructing.neuro: More people need to get comfortable with asking questions instead of blindly assuming and making moves like you actually know what’s going on. #neurodivergent #actuallyautistic #directcommunication #neurospicy

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imjessagirl
imjessagirl :
They don’t ask why bc they don’t care. it’s easier to make someone else the villain than to acknowledge they might actually be part of the problem!
2022-09-22 14:26:23
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laurenstrill
Lauren Beth :
Sooooo surface level to the point that all they have to talk about is other people😤
2022-09-22 18:30:27
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headcasespace
headcasespace :
when they do ask why, they cherry pick something you said to be and ignore everything else you say.
2022-09-22 13:45:14
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flowerpharm
flowerpharm :
I've started calling it "self-terminating"/ "early-terminating" thought processing. It seems like their thoughts do not last/process as long.
2022-09-22 14:55:45
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bsksibeskullyaloeed
🕷 :
I've said this to my friend trying to explain why I can't talk to ppl.....I'm always misunderstood bcuz ur talking bout the leaf while I'm in the root
2022-09-22 14:08:11
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l0psided.apric0t
lopsidedapricot :
They assume so much and assume wrong most of the time lol. They will create a false narrative
2022-09-22 14:12:18
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happypinkprisms
happypinkprisms :
They don't care why. They see us on the lower end of social hierarchy scale and were socialized to think it is acceptable to treat us poorly.
2022-09-22 14:04:49
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eldritchfoxx
eldritchfoxx :
Will do anything but actually talk to ppl and get to know them
2022-09-22 13:57:29
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kgoodie__
Kate 🍉 :
I’ve noticed they lack nuance too and if you try to have a nuanced conversation they become so argumentative even when that’s not the intent
2022-09-22 15:24:21
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deconstructing.neuro
✨ Wanderlust & AuDHD ✨ :
Rarely are things just what they appear to be on the surface. Ask questions to actually understand. Don’t make assumptions
2022-09-22 13:14:50
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love.puffz
Love Puffz :
what grinds my gears is how they will become condescending or patronize you for having layers of thought then that becomes invalidating. 🙃
2022-09-22 15:16:25
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christina1camp
Christina :
They make those assumptions because that’s how they would behave
2022-09-22 15:00:28
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destinymeansfuture
destinymeansfuture :
But yeah as someone who has been asking “why” we do things since I was little, it’s easy to tell that most people NEVER wonder.
2022-09-22 13:21:04
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peachjellies
peachjellies :
They’re always just coming to conclusions 😭 Meanwhile I gotta do a thesis
2022-09-22 15:00:14
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mysticshiba311
JBird :
In my experience they don’t question ever, they always go about based off of assumption and always assume they are right.
2022-09-22 15:02:51
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mayhugh19
mayhugh :
everyday I become more and more convinced that NTs are just narcissists living within a society that was built for and by them 🤷🏻‍♀️
2022-09-22 14:46:50
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deannaxdulce
deanna🍉 :
And they get mad when you ask why! they get defensive af.
2022-09-22 14:05:42
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shadowsarita
shadowsarita :
I feel this, it feels pretty lame for ND’s to be sitting there trying to connect and NTs like oh well me. Me. Mine me.
2022-09-22 14:52:59
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dunderzvbbis
gooze :
they do it to us too, like the moment we say or do smth they thinks weird then they distance themselves n whisper when u walk by
2022-09-22 14:19:54
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tk_mfcs
TK MFCS :
Yes! It took me a while to understand what that was
2022-09-22 13:47:32
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f__kingpockets
F__kingpockets :
Yep, I lost a friend when I moved because I was stressed and they made it all about them 🤦‍♀️instead of asking what’s wrong or help me.
2022-09-22 14:26:22
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rotmage
kät :
I'm an education major, and we just had an hour discussion about how bad standardized tests are and we just need to deal with it and I'm like "...?!?"
2022-09-22 15:09:57
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thetoptyr
Tyr :
I don't think they actually care about anything outside of them selves enough to do that
2022-09-22 15:07:28
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bxrnyourself
bxrnyourself :
it baffles me how someone can move through life with zero self reflection. are you even alive??
2022-09-22 15:34:45
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salleysmile
🚗♾️salley’smile :): :
Why is central to my existence 😂😂 forever want to know why. It can get problematic to not let go when there is no why given … 🥴
2022-09-22 13:25:05
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