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central_fl_lmt
central_fl_lmt :
Thank you for giving me the clarity I needed after yet another "getting louder" episode and feeling completely lost
2022-09-23 13:02:31
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kyleekepomccreight
Kylee Kepo McCreight :
I was so people pleasing. I allowed someone to control everything I did, who I saw, and even my food intake. I wasn't even allowed to lift weights.
2022-09-23 11:07:40
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jimmyonrelationships
Jimmy Knowles :
Anyone else struggle with people pleasing?
2022-09-23 11:00:26
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bethechange84
Cautiously Optimistic :
You are consistently the first thing I see on my FYP every morning. The algorithm knows it’s a good way to start my day. Thank you
2022-09-23 12:54:17
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biblotaco
Lissa - Lis/SAH/ :
sir! it is 6am. I didn't need a cry fest thanks
2022-09-23 11:20:23
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expectabundance
✨💕 Expect Abundance 💕 ✨ :
You are mad hitting the spot with both clarity and compassion. This is an art and a skill!! Bravo.
2022-09-25 14:30:31
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sarah198000004
sarah19800004 :
when the only positive feedback comes from when you people please, bc otherwise you're invisible, it's hard to stop
2022-09-23 13:20:40
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nerdyonabike
NerdyonaBike :
Yes! What do I do??
2022-09-23 13:19:30
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foundcoin
Leslie Moseley :
This sincerely has helped me. I was thinking something like this about myself, but this just completely explained it. Thank you!
2022-10-01 02:37:26
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dalextermination
caroline.germain :
Omg this hits so strong. Thank you.
2022-09-23 12:16:42
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confidentmama
confidentmama :
Meeeee!! I’m getting so much better. I’ve learned boundaries and now I’m practicing them.
2022-09-23 13:10:50
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that1girlfromthat1time
Amanda :
this is exactly what has happened to my relationship. and when I healed and realized it's all blown up 🥺
2022-09-23 12:57:21
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scout623
suebohn :
dam , this one hurts
2022-09-23 12:19:28
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keatsme
Kerry :
Sooo right on.
2022-09-23 12:17:00
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cuppycaketotherescue
Cuppycakes :
I am a people pleaser because i was raised in that environment, but i know what i am, and choose to love without expectations. It is my nature
2022-09-23 12:07:09
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melbelle77
melbel :
Do not generalize please. Some are people pleasing because they have ADHD, it's not their fault and it's not easily changeable. Be respectful 🙏
2022-09-23 11:59:36
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terraday79
Terra Day :
omg, the pattern. 3-5 days then back to "normal"
2022-11-06 01:47:36
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rerebeaulac
Rere :
this last year for me has been all about this and things have become so much better all around. still tough to do sometimes
2022-10-12 12:22:20
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mariarojas9421
mariarojas9421 :
Oh. I needed this.
2022-09-23 14:57:40
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voulez_vous95
😘 :
okay but how do you set boundaries when they're used to you doing things all the time for them? because they end up acting like you don't care about1.
2022-09-23 15:21:04
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voulez_vous95
😘 :
also you make a good point about not projecting hurt or resentment
2022-09-23 15:22:10
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madisonsellers13
Madison Sellers :
do you have a podcast? 🤣
2022-09-23 15:39:01
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rebeccakearns80
rebecca80 :
all of these people pleasing videos are way to close to home for me!!! I feel like I'm going called out
2022-10-07 12:32:30
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notanamericanidiot1
NotAnAmericanIdiot :
When I was a kid I use to say my Mom couldn’t say no to anyone but me 🤷🏻‍♀️She was a people pleaser to her detriment
2022-11-13 06:02:22
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ombience
MyOmbience :
wow..biggest fear is abandonment, but it seems I'm the one who abandoned myself. 😳
2022-09-30 20:24:12
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rebelkitten27
RebelKitty Cat29 :
I know this first hand. I recently have been trying to make boundaries and respecting boundaries. as soon as I told my hubby, he told me I was being -
2022-09-25 21:59:56
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amy_tiktok_tiktok
Amy :
Yes, you pretty much have described me.
2022-09-23 21:06:06
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dunkks
dunkks :
I struggle with this daily 😅
2022-09-23 11:06:40
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jennieofalltrades
JennieOfAllTrades :
nobody would love me if I stopped giving giving giving, but I don't allow any anger or passive aggression or resentment.. I just say that the lesser
2022-09-24 13:08:55
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ambernelson872
ambernelson87 :
I really like your tik toks. thanks
2022-09-24 05:42:07
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ptsd_hope
yVoNNe :
💚
2022-09-24 01:28:28
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heatheranne83
Heather Anne :
Wow! Totally me to a tee. A major part as to why I'm single 🤦‍♀️On my path to healthy boundaries
2022-09-24 14:04:52
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kimberlydawnh6
Kim Henderson :
🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
2022-09-24 17:10:58
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thumper33333
Kjyorkiepoo :
WOW, SO WELL PUT!!!
2022-09-24 20:05:06
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leahmwould
LeahWould :
The last sentence was resounding
2022-09-24 22:30:08
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mrsveronicabramley
Roni :
This one is mine; thanks for the reminder. Ps do you have a list of books? I have seen a couple in the videos and want to read them! Thanks
2022-09-25 12:44:01
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expectabundance
✨💕 Expect Abundance 💕 ✨ :
💥💥💯
2022-09-25 14:28:45
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jesmomso3
tcmomm :
I have worked on this , the people pleasing, still under construction 🚧 but AWARE. Also to know and learn what my worth is and ask for it.
2022-09-23 22:26:50
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drkalecrouton
DrKaleCrouton :
Thank you for all of your videos, Jimmy. I’ve needed help lately and you’ve been one of the factors in getting me to where I need to be.
2022-09-25 15:44:24
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ashley.j.213
Ashley :
Growing up with an abusive single parent molded me into a ppl pleaser. Idk how to break the habit now as an adult
2022-09-25 18:52:36
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bellacaos
Bellacaos :
So I thought I was a people pleaser, I do put all before myself. I give until there’s nothing left of me. However, I don’t have anxious attachment…
2022-09-25 18:58:31
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sashanoir
SashaNoir :
Thank you🥰
2022-09-25 19:41:23
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jaxquackenbush
Jax Quackenbush :
I just cried the whole time listening to this. My relationship is this dynamic. Thank you for giving clarity.
2022-09-23 19:17:19
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cathyhainsrd.lnw
Cathy Hains, Reg. Dietitian :
If you're not already a counselor/therapist, you'd make a great one!
2022-09-26 15:21:10
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cathyhainsrd.lnw
Cathy Hains, Reg. Dietitian :
Plus pretending to be someone else is dishonest, and dishonesty breaks trust and can destroy the relationship.
2022-09-26 15:24:07
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314man
Robert Johansson :
When i ask what she NEED, her answer is: you should know it. How? Why? When?
2022-09-27 09:20:58
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