and then you feel ashamed for feeling ashamed and thats the loop nobody warns you about. the shame isnt yours it never was. it was handed to you before you were old enough to give it back
2026-09-30 17:51:18
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heck_fan :
And then I feel ashamed for feeling ashamed 🥲
2022-09-25 02:30:12
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Kiki :
How do we let go of our deep shame and these beliefs? Intellectually, I know better, but awareness doesn't release it.
2022-09-24 20:01:43
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Susie G :
I need to heal
2022-09-25 12:04:05
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Nikki :
this is it. this is the one. always felt this way, never sure how to express it without seeming like im just “blaming” my parents when i just wanted -
2022-09-24 18:24:30
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Suzy Q :
Toxic shame comes from having caregivers who were shameless. Or that’s what my therapist told me.
2022-09-25 11:55:04
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Madsterpiece🌊 :
I’m so happy I found this video
2022-09-24 18:53:13
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zelda imai :
please, I feel so constantly guilty
2022-09-25 07:06:02
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Samten Chödron :
Very much looking forward to that series...thanks, Kai. 🙏💚
2022-09-25 00:53:45
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nev🤍 :
I believe I needed to see this as I’m healing my inner child
2022-09-24 17:31:58
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rayray_1221 :
I always say I feel like I have so much guilt but toxic shame feels more fitting. Thank you 🥰
2022-09-24 18:21:10
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Cat 🎈 :
hi Kai, your videos really help me. Thank you 😊
2022-09-24 18:19:36
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Karina M. Valdez :
Have never related so much to a tiktok 😭 would love to try & heal using your tips/tricks
2022-09-24 19:35:47
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Brofluencers :
Talk more about that please 🥺🥺🥺
2022-09-24 17:23:14
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Yolie :
I would love to heal my inner Child my trauma and this pain . I am looking forward to this new series ❤️. Thanks
2022-09-25 07:57:09
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Crystal 🌙 :
Are👏🏾 You 👏🏾 Accepting 👏🏾 New👏🏾 Clients😅
2022-09-24 18:10:34
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Eugene :
I think this is me Coach. Which section of the training covers this? I need to go listen to that...
2022-09-24 22:28:40
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Patchouli :
I deal with a lot of this.
2022-09-24 17:55:47
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purrrentice :
OMG how have I not heard of this?!?
2022-09-25 03:44:41
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Elle :
Wow. Right in the nose.
2022-09-25 11:39:16
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Tiger :
This was oddly, specifically, what I was looking for…..
2022-09-25 11:42:48
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Bleu Rizo :
could this be caused by religious trauma?
2022-09-25 05:08:47
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Joroh:-) :
Do you have thoughts on Non Violent Communication you would share? Thanks for your content! This vid hits
2022-09-25 04:47:46
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Alexis :
Please talk about how I can work on getting over this? I want to have a good happy life
2022-09-25 06:14:52
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