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📚Jo Lee Reads📚 :
If only that worked 😂 if you get told no and ask “why can’t I go” it’s “I’m parent and I said so and as the child I don’t owe you an explanation”
2022-09-25 17:58:14
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David Wiersma462 :
i like it as an example of parenting and teaching your child how to negotiate and discuss reasoning in a respectful manner
2022-09-26 01:36:02
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Mitchb1621 :
It’s a compromise. Parent wants child home at a reasonable time to be rested for school. As long as the parents are clear on who is going and…
2022-09-26 01:08:24
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Lyttle_Leaf :
I agree with other comments. It should be on the parent to model effective communication, not the kid to figure it out.
2022-09-25 18:24:50
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☀️Sliver Of Light☀️ :
I gave my children the ability to ask "is this negotiable ". this let me know it was important enough to them to consider, and led to discussion
2022-09-26 00:37:42
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Bryce D :
because he communicated well and they came to a compromise?
2022-09-25 17:47:42
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Soon :
The parent said 'no' without asking any context. If they want a conversation giving an answer immediately will end it. I don't understand this logic.
2022-09-25 17:53:56
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Michael Sargent :
Seems like the comments here identify with the teen and are offended when the video seemed aimed towards parents to teach teens communication...
2022-09-25 20:07:20
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UgotTANKED🍉 :
Yea its not as simple when you ask "Why cant I go" and they hit you with "Because I said so, theres no debate, dont bring it up again"
2022-09-25 18:07:32
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Keläriél Grey :
Why can't adults ever lead with their reasoning, then? They're determined to be frustratingly cryptic. "SoLvE mY rIdDlEs ThReE"
2022-09-25 21:48:00
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6392)636 :
If you said “this won’t work”, you’re missing the point. It’s not a hack for kids, it’s a model for parents.
2022-09-26 00:41:26
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Hello Doge Yeet :
Nah if you abruptly say no then thats a convo ender 💀 Wheres the logic, be more open to discussion
2022-09-25 19:45:34
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JT :
if only this actually worked. If I try to negotiate, all I get is "my house, my rules, don't ask questions"
2022-09-25 19:59:46
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The Pervy Sensei :
It SHOULD work. But most use the “I’m the parent, you’re the child. You do as I say” or “because I said so”
2022-09-25 19:06:54
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pp toaster :
actually the parent in this situation taught a lesson. like ok dang that's a twist. a welcome one at that
2022-09-25 19:30:56
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sydney.hvr :
Unless you have a parent who’s responses are always “cause I said so”
2022-10-03 17:16:22
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Zathura3724 :
I use this to negotiate things between me and other people. i share this with people because this isnt to me a thing between parent and child but people
2024-11-13 19:58:00
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Jake 🤙 :
i like the idea of this, but the issue is that many parents hit kids with the “i’m a parent and i said so” not actual reasoning
2022-09-25 18:26:27
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Critically_Foxxish :
problem is this doesn't really work. my parents lack the drive to communicate anything back no matter how nice I ask questions.
2022-09-25 18:02:59
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Postman :
As a parent myself, I've changed "No", to "it depends", and then let my kid state his cause.
2022-09-25 23:33:26
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claydoggin :
good video
2022-09-25 17:55:07
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Jack Samonte :
a new perspective thank you
2022-09-26 06:16:44
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(: 🇵🇸 :
the word why is banned in my house because my parents can't give me a good reason.
2022-09-25 19:59:52
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Illy :
I do negotiate with them without any attitude or anger but she still sabotages everything ruining the mood.
2022-09-25 18:02:08
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Backstreet Bard :
imagine if the parent were the one to ask for additional information before saying no
2022-09-26 03:59:33
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Red Sage (Andrew) :
ok but this is good
2022-09-26 12:01:15
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Krasiph 🍉 :
I understand the idea here, but it's also the parent's fault for not communicating better. I grew up this way - exhausting and discouraging
2022-09-26 08:43:02
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Bigjoedan :
and the parent, being the more mature person, should be a more complete communicator.
2022-09-25 18:54:33
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elia :
my dad sent me this... should I be concerned? (especially since I saw this vid on my fyp earlier today)
2022-09-26 06:15:03
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aburdett31 :
Because he made the parent feel safe and secure about him going
2022-09-26 00:49:19
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SirHexxus :
To all the comments that say, "I asked why, and they pushed back!" It's because - counterintuitivly - "Why?" is perceived of as confrontational. Cont.
2022-09-25 18:37:46
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Dakota Dodson :
it's not on the child to be a mind reader. that's just as messed up as just saying no
2022-09-25 17:53:21
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Minty AAA :
if there's a chance that more information would mean yes why doesn't the parent ask for that instead of taking the easy route of just "No."
2022-09-25 22:53:19
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the-coffee-man3084 :
more often then not parents are not willing to give reson to their own demands even when a child is often explicit in their questioning
2022-09-25 22:53:19
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Ron Morris :
This is definitely the wrong crowd to try to show this information. Most are young and instead trying to listen and think of how this could be useful.
2022-09-26 00:43:31
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Cuba.Libre.on.Rocks :
It’s not perfect, but it’s miles better than the 0 communication that usually happens 🤷
2022-09-25 23:07:01
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AUGH🌃 :
what alternate universe is this where parents listen to reason instead of saying "because I said so"
2022-09-25 19:14:03
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Dixie :
I've told my kids they can disagree as long as it's respectful. It's amazing how well they can argue a point when everyone is calm.
2022-09-26 10:13:20
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Dragoon_Faeren :
can I go. no. do you want to go to a retirement home. no. why not. because I don't want to.
2022-09-26 00:19:33
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Dexter :
I dont think this works in asian house holds g😭💀
2022-09-25 18:04:49
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Shiloh almaguer :
because you communicated with your father
2022-09-25 18:01:20
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Jennifer Cunha :
this was fantastic
2022-09-26 01:22:28
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Lindsay 🍉 Gardening Teacher :
This is a good tactic for older kids, but as parents we can be proactive and say those explanations first. I try not to say no point blank.
2022-09-26 15:34:11
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Caboose704 :
i.... hate that this is accurate. and wish i figured this out when i was a kid...
2022-09-25 18:05:12
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pluto :
the best way to convince somebody of something is to appeal to their values
2022-09-25 18:09:14
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Sky <3 🏳️⚧️✨️ :
What about when I ask them "Why?" and they respond with "Because I said so and I don't owe you an explanation".
2022-09-25 19:10:51
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Burgundee :
Id just walk out go and go anyway
2022-09-25 18:02:24
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As4455 :
I am realizing my 11-year-old is very good at negotiating
2022-09-26 14:41:15
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Lamont Morrison :
negotiation with who?😂. that only works with specific parents other than that you don't pay no bills around here so I said what I said 😬
2022-09-26 04:35:12
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