Signs they are using you: -They’re only nice when they want something -They’re “too busy” when you need them -They cross your boundaries even after you’ve laid them out -They feel entitled to your time -You’re always the problem in the relationship -They act different behind closed doors -They borrow money (think tinder swindler) -They don’t listen to you or care about your thoughts -They make is so you feel like you can not say “no” -The conversation is always about them -They never say Thank you -They’re always criticizing you -Sex is overly withheld or expected -They get jealous when you have your own plans -They gaslight you to cover up their own faults -They impose requirements for the relationship -They control how you act or speak If you think you’re being used rather than loved, I would begin with going inward. Asking yourself why would I accept this kind of love? Does this reflect the sort of love my parents gave me or other relationship examples in my life? Use this information of being used in your relationship as an opportunity to learn more about yourself and your love styles. If it is clear this is going on, exiting the relationship is so hard! Check out my video on, going through a breakup, because the reality is, YOU WILL HURT. But you will hurt less than staying in the relationship for longer and you don’t want to stay in something that is teaching and reinforcing the practices of accepting being used in relationship. #mentalhealthtok #therapytiktok #therapistsontiktok #relationshipadvice - @therapyjessaofficial