Jenny Patinkin
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Saturday 08 October 2022 22:02:40 GMT
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Kristin :
Younger people are less visible to me now I barely notice them
2022-10-09 17:28:14
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ndirishmom :
Totally agree!!! And if younger people disagree with me on TikTok, they say I look old to be mean!!!
2022-10-10 04:48:58
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Michelle Spieler PRO MUA :
I never thought about this until Paulina started discussing this and its an important convo to keep alive🥰
2022-10-09 18:04:04
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LWilliamson :
Maybe that’s why some older women dress in big colors, crazy hats, funky jewelry! To get noticed.😁🥰😎
2022-10-10 14:14:53
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ExhaustedTeacher :
You wanna stay noticeable to younger people? Become a teacher 😅
2022-10-10 22:03:20
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user3468420314474 :
If you feel invisible now being as young and beautiful as you are then you are in big trouble down the road. I doubt you are invisible to anyone
2022-10-17 03:59:47
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Linda Wolfe | +50 UGC :
It’s actually freeing. I’m ok with it.
2022-10-09 06:07:06
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Beth Kirksey :
I am 62, & have been saying this for years. My late mother called it, “turning”. If the youngest live long enough, they, too will become invisible. 😉
2022-10-09 06:44:37
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Smile💙 :
The important people in your life will always notice you. The rest is just ego. I’m good with being invisible. My dog validates me every day!
2022-10-09 16:59:21
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fiestamaple :
I’m 70 and feel invisible all the time. In fact, sometimes people meet me and later have no idea who I am. I’m now totally forgettable. I do feel bad
2022-10-09 16:57:49
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Jester :
I'm even more invisible since gaining weight during covid.
2022-10-09 16:19:26
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pdxgrace :
Yes! I noticed maybe 10 years ago. I’ve been overlooked by store clerks. Hello! I’m here! I’m NEXT IN LINE!! It’s frustrating.
2022-10-09 08:20:23
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nancychristie181 :
It was a big shock when it happened to me. It gets worse every decade. I don't care now but it still hurts at time when no one will even listen to me.
2022-10-09 04:58:55
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user9587720070679 :
So true!
2022-10-09 07:52:52
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Dana Agosto Soto :
Just turned 51 and I feel completely invisible when I go out
2022-10-09 20:32:19
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Melissa :
I just look at it as the torch has been passed on to the younger,I almost don't want to be noticed anymore.Im over it!
2022-10-09 20:21:30
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lorik13589 :
You are very beautiful. Don't worry Im sure you are noticed.
2022-10-09 07:38:35
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Heather Marie Wink66 :
What a relief, I remembered being what I called gawked at that I just hated. I also didn’t like be hyper aware of others especially what they think.
2022-10-09 14:17:53
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gnctoler :
I used to turn every head in the room. Not going to lie, I miss it terribly. But I do love who I am now.
2022-10-09 11:33:23
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Kelly :
so true.. just turned 48 and although fit and feel great about myself, ageism is very noticeable. The only discrimination left that’s acceptable
2022-10-10 00:18:37
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⭐️ Laura ⭐️ :
This is very difficult. Especially when you’ve been told you are beautiful your whole life. I have to remember, that’s not where my worth comes from.
2022-10-10 13:52:05
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Kimberly Bartlett Re :
This is true. You go from being able to stop traffic to ignored.
2022-10-09 16:55:24
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Wandering Lori :
And the same happens at the workplace.
2022-10-09 12:14:15
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Jessbon83🆘🇺🇸 :
Almost 40 and I still need the validation of being seen for my self esteem
2022-10-09 20:20:27
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Chaz :
I'm 55. I do not experience this at all. Plenty of attention from 40 and up.
2022-10-10 00:21:15
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LDelbruzzi :
I am now noticing it now that I am 50. Makes me sad.
2022-10-09 20:09:26
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Bittersweet Brunette :
I hear women talk about this all the time, and that’s exactly the word they use - invisible.
2022-10-09 01:58:35
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MyOwnPrivateIdaho67 :
I’m 55, and I found it definitely happens around 50. People also don’t want to listen to me.
2022-10-10 00:04:27
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Reese :
Yes. The sting of finding out younger friends who actually view you as “old and irrelevant “. 👎
2022-10-09 12:54:53
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Donnamarie :
I laugh as I’m 68 and still occasionally get old dudes flirting with me. Guess I should feel lucky?😂
2022-10-09 21:28:47
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Anastasia Beaverhausen :
Yet my Nana wore green eyeshadow, painted her nails, wore statement jewelry..You couldn’t miss her. 🥰
2022-10-09 13:23:37
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iowagal86 :
I loved being invisible as I drove my kids and their friends around to their activities. I learned so much!
2022-10-09 17:20:08
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aarkellc :
I dont mind it at all.
2022-10-09 09:07:51
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gillian📚🐈✈️ :
Age and weight gain for me had made me invisible, especially to men lol
2022-10-09 19:45:52
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morocla :
I feel this way when I see my fellow millennials get upset that GenZ comments on our attire. I could care less what anyone thinks of my clothes.
2022-10-09 15:53:44
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Jennifer :
I’ve definitely felt this.
2022-10-09 16:00:37
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Milissa Goodgion :
Oh my gosh yes yes yes! I’m going through it now!
2022-10-09 12:33:05
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barbarad5467 :
Truth! Plus the interrupting factor.. guess I don’t bring much to the table! 🤔
2022-10-09 12:36:24
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tinalafayette :
I turn 60 this month and I have really been feeling this.
2022-10-10 01:58:56
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Louise1355 :
I always wanted to be invisible and now I get to be. I Love so much about getting older.,
2022-10-09 21:13:19
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RustyCat :
Um my parents taught me to respect the elderly not ignore them.
2022-10-09 10:39:58
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Beautifully aging with Jackie :
Very true !
2022-10-09 13:40:31
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VirgoImp :
Yep … it’s not fun
2022-10-09 21:26:52
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bitchybrenda1 :
Invisible waiting to order a drink and over looked at work for input or ideas 😕🤨 luckily I’m retired now!
2022-10-09 23:03:04
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user984395936530 :
I became invisible when I was around 45! Iam 65 now, I'm surprised that people don't walk into me, because I'm not there!
2022-10-11 17:15:59
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Aleekee_faucet :
OMG, this, yes. I feel like I've just disappeared 🥺
2022-10-09 23:06:43
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Wendy Lee :
This is so true. I’m 42 and a friend and I were just speaking how we kind of feel invisible. Mixed feelings about it.
2022-10-14 13:04:52
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No Worries :
Why do we care if young people are looking at us? What’s wrong with old people looking at us? That’s us putting value on youth
2022-10-09 19:23:44
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