@stephanne221: Invalidating environments teach us to doubt our emotions/thoughts, and to rely on other people to tell us the “right” way to feel and act #therapy #MentalHealth #validation #friends #dbtiktokofficial #fyp #foryoupage
Steph | Attachment Specialist
Region: US
Monday 17 October 2022 02:31:59 GMT
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Amanda :
Think about how difficult that makes navigating relationships too… can never intuit how they feel, how to respond, etc
2022-10-17 04:42:27
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⎝Ki⎠ :
There are times when our internal perception is not the most adequate for assessing a situation. But it is useful to always have it.
2022-10-17 11:43:55
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chirbzy :
is it okay to reassure someone about something that already happened? for instance, my nephew forgot his 'solo' in a band performance. I don't think-
2022-10-17 21:36:19
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adrian | growth + :
I do the same thing 🥰
2022-10-17 21:07:24
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Paiz :
What book is this?
2022-10-17 21:08:55
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✨💗✨ :
I try to tell people to tell me what happened and how they feel before I give my opinion. I find it’s works better for them
2022-10-17 21:58:30
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KoKoKomando :
Thanks Amy Adams! Totally smart advice!
2022-10-18 01:40:34
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Chris :
I think lots of parents do this without even realizing it
2022-10-17 23:32:27
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Miles :
which book is that?
2022-10-17 14:27:14
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Noble Savage :
And this is why I don't trust myself alone g with not trusting anyone se but I "trust" them over myself bc clearly they've figured something out
2022-10-17 21:08:33
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selaciousshenanogins :
I need to listen to this daily till I recognize my own experiences
2022-10-17 22:42:32
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Average user :
Omg 😭
2022-10-17 22:24:12
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Courtney | Food + Lifestyle :
When your family taught you growing up “Don’t think, just do what I say,” and now as an adult you can’t think for yourself.
2022-10-17 22:43:02
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Skippy Bippy Bo :
There are times, a lot of times, I 100% cannot trust my own feelings or thoughts. Its great to have friends to help with perspective
2022-10-17 21:28:37
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Enmanuel Cruz :
i don't mind sharing what I would do but I like to make sure they know they have to make their own decision based off of how they feel.
2022-10-17 22:25:00
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sherridee865 :
thank you so much for this information
2022-12-20 17:06:08
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Liv Fox :
This is a huge part of the psychoanalytic counseling (M.JPeebles) I'm learning and appreciate for these reasons! Promoting insight before action! ♥️
2022-10-21 17:58:36
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Cataleyana :
I like to validate their feelings if they tell me something appalling, u betcha I’m gasping. It also helps them realize they weren’t “overreacting”.
2022-10-18 03:19:44
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Lee :
When ppl ask me what should they do, they already know what to do, even if I tell them, they don’t listen until they are ready
2022-10-17 22:03:30
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🫧 :
i highlight this freely too:))
2022-10-19 05:08:04
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nubnub :
I'm not into fashion, but I notice your color coordination and really want to tell you it's very nice😌
2022-10-17 20:58:11
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MK :
How do you handle this with a teen who is TRULY being ... dramatic? 😫
2022-12-19 16:08:04
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spoonful_of_sara :
I absolutely love this thank you for this post!!! 👏🙌🙌🙌
2022-10-17 22:21:35
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★ Tieren ★ :
I always try to be logical in my advice but then remind them that we are not the same person and my advice is from my pov and not theirs
2022-10-17 22:16:35
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