@spicycounselor: While sameness does bond us in a sense, it’s in our differentiation where trust and safety can truly develop. These are the foundational traits for intimacy. #intimacy #closeness #safety #relationships #dating #friendship #marriage #codependency #anxiouslyattached #counselor #counseling

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cupishalffull
cupishalffull :
New relationship, my avoidant partner scares the hell out of me. I’m the anx one. How do I feel safe
2022-10-24 16:43:31
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kenbenmcben
Ken :
Can you talk about how you overcame anxious attachment?
2022-10-24 17:30:42
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foodwithsoy
soy ✨ :
This is so good
2022-10-25 12:18:51
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elizabethharvill5
BetAndTheBabies :
what does anxious attachment and co dependant mean in action? I've heard it a good bit but don't understand the meaning?
2022-11-07 21:54:44
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haileyrihanna
haileyrihanna :
This actually made me feel better lol
2022-11-02 00:07:18
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chickyfredo
chickyfredo :
oh my god
2022-11-10 00:06:12
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annameadowside
Anna Meadowside :
Say more about why 🤔
2022-10-24 18:37:13
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myleshaslam
Myles Haslam :
I loveeeeeeee this Miss Brookie 💕💕
2022-10-29 18:11:52
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jackelliottmusic
J. Elliott :
I’m very much an anxiously attached person, trying to find a healthier mindset. Recently I allowed myself to be more vulnerable with my partner 1/
2022-11-14 21:14:19
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smallmagic_
Small Magic by Cora :
Spottttt onnnn! Thank you for this. I’m on the same recovery path from anxious attachment. What did you do to make this change?
2022-11-10 03:49:22
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miguy15
Miguy :
Can you explain how exactly it grows there just curious?
2022-10-24 18:39:19
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danniebear2010
Dannie :
I'm also an anxiously attached person and working on it! Any tips on how to make things easier??
2022-10-27 03:18:18
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lgndrymars
mars 🔻 :
i have a hard time believing that when someone disagrees w me they wont leave lol. i just automatically assume the worst
2022-11-01 05:21:52
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brittany7044
Brittany :
I’m searching for that safety. I’m finding it in myself but I haven’t found it in a partner yet
2022-11-11 19:02:03
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eysaxa
Eysaxa :
This is profound!! Thank you.
2022-11-08 01:29:14
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bananamangojuice
Cherise :
I love this
2022-11-09 22:34:15
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leafyplant0
M P :
2022 was the year I realized I have never experienced intimacy despite being so sure I was always the most vulnerable and ready for connection.
2022-10-25 19:57:07
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phlavorphill
phlavorphill :
Reminds me of a line from the book The Defining Decade. It goes something “Compatibility is about how your differences are handled”…💯
2022-10-31 15:42:00
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aflanda21
Amanda :
as an anxiously attached person i needed to hear this thank you 🥺🥺
2022-11-07 14:17:48
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sarahkeyes3
Sarah Keyes :
thank you so much for sharing your experience. I'm working my way through recovery rt now and it's so tempting to revert to my old patterns
2022-11-02 03:07:12
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10.07.1046 :
Ffs dealing with this now 😩😭
2022-11-13 00:41:28
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rubyshealing
Ruby :
OMG 😳 this explains so much….. no one… literally no one has said this to me nor have I heard this b4. Thank you.
2022-11-07 12:47:51
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really.rachel.green
Rachel Green :
**recovering?
2022-11-04 16:41:43
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undrgrndkttn
undrgrndkttn :
needed this
2022-10-25 23:16:54
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