@feelingrandi78: #stitch with @Jasmines Garden thank you so much for raising this discussion! It’s so important! #oldestdaughter #parentification #Siblings #largefamily #childhood #childhoodtrauma #healing #traumahealing

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normint10
mahmud :
i have 10 children. all graduated from universities.. do they have bad childhoods?
2022-10-29 10:58:30
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remonty15
remonty15 𓂀 :
oldest daughter here😳 you made me realize this why whenever a chance wave I always refuse to take the lead , or be the Boss
2022-10-26 11:02:35
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lilythelamb31
🇨🇦🐑lilylamb🐑🇨🇦 :
as a mom of 5 I make it a high priority to make each of of my kids feel love and NOT have this responsibility. we are not all the same.
2022-10-27 14:48:08
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zeenamistry
zeenamistry :
People have had large families for millenniums and millenniums. The current generations are soft.
2022-10-31 20:01:41
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rgocheva
rgocheva :
hello :) only kid of abusive parents here...wanna switch? 😳
2022-11-02 09:59:23
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lanebraine
Lane :
“Be the example for your siblings” could never make mistakes and had to be an adult before I could tie my shoes
2022-10-26 17:24:19
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bosviewfarm
Bosview Farm 🇨🇦 :
This is my husband. He's the eldest of 6, my MIL blames everything the youngest ones do on him, as he was supposed to raise them. The trauma is huge.
2022-10-27 02:04:35
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esotericrecovery
Kim :
My wonderful Grandma was the oldest of eight and she was still pissed at 90 that she didn't have a childhood. 💔
2022-10-26 01:51:04
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mumofkhaos4
Donna 🇬🇧 :
This is why I stopped at 3 and not once has any of my 3 been responsible for their siblings, I had those children my eldest did not have his brothers
2022-10-26 09:51:03
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dovi777
✨Doviii✨ :
I feel like this is the reason why I don't want kids... I've already helped to bring up one🤷
2022-10-26 20:35:48
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msmaggiemaloy
Maggie :
On my 10th birthday the seventh child was born and he was handed to me as my birthday gift I never got to be a child
2022-10-26 02:51:24
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sa_ruth
user7821968086497 :
My grandma had 8 because “after you have 4, the older ones take care of the younger ones.” I’m an oldest daughter.
2022-10-26 01:36:59
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vickiemint
Vickiemint :
Parents who have a lot of children really don’t think about what childhood those children will have. It’s like an addiction.
2022-10-27 10:51:04
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soniaandelsie
Sonia 🇦🇺🦘 :
My therapists said my parents putting me in this same caring role young set me up to accept abuse more readily
2022-10-26 01:48:18
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jackyndean
…..jacklyndean….. :
My 3 kids will likely never “give me”grandkids. I have made sure that is entirely their decision & just as “valid”as any.
2022-10-26 01:49:25
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bellajewelsfairygodmom
Jewels :
I also think those families cop out on not really being there for their teens (often a difficult stage) cuz they are still raising babies.
2022-10-26 01:59:08
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ninacraig1
ttusette :
Always have to be productive. So guilty if i do nothing.
2022-10-26 01:47:27
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jossalynjensen
Jossalyn :
Not me crying on the bus because I feel so seen
2022-10-27 12:44:59
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theladyks
theladyks :
Having to constantly set a good example/be a role model is exhausting. I just want to LIVE!
2022-10-27 12:08:07
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sarahpierce85
Sarah Pierce :
I have 3 and they are 12, 6, and 18 months. I love that I’ve had their own time. Enjoyed every second. Still make time individually.
2022-10-26 01:46:53
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hollyb19765
holly :
this was my sister. our youngest brother called her mommy.
2022-10-26 15:37:04
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olaveorawo
Olave Orawo :
I am triggered!!!😭
2022-10-27 10:54:05
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lams056123
Lams056 :
I'm the middle child who got parentified for my younger siblings and nephews & nieces and I was also called bossy!
2022-12-04 15:52:53
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ginflavour
ginflavour :
Acts of care and service has been my love language since my siblings were born. My irony is that all I’ve ever wanted is to be left alone
2022-10-26 02:46:04
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