Jefferson Fisher
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Wednesday 26 October 2022 22:14:31 GMT
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Barbi G :
My Dad attended the UPenn Law School. He said "It's always better to ask questions than make statements". He knew everything and I miss him.
2022-10-27 01:53:38
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Cantwaitfor_Summer :
But it’s SO HARD TO DO when they’re SO WRONG
2022-10-27 01:05:29
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Beach Buddy :
“It’s easier to fool a man than it is to convince a man he’s being fooled”
2022-10-27 01:40:57
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Matt :
My dad didn’t like a guy my sister was dating. I told him “if she’s busy being his defense attorney she’ll never be able to view him the way you do.”
2022-11-11 14:11:31
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Mrs Freeman Snyder :
“Selling is not telling, selling is asking.”
2022-10-27 12:47:19
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user9888567125808 :
My moto is open to anything but attached to nothing. I always listen with curiosity and questions !
2022-10-26 23:00:43
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Monster :
I really feel I'm the only person I know who has zero qualms ditching any belief I have at the drop of a hat.
2022-10-26 22:36:21
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Madeline G :
Yes, I agree. However, when you’re dealing with a narcissist this doesn’t work. Even if I frame things from a “curious” mindset it’s still taken (1/2)
2022-10-27 19:57:04
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Adam 5 :
And THAT my friend, is part of how our society has gotten so rotten. People stopped listening, and began hating😔
2022-10-26 22:33:38
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Membersofthejury :
The old “you get more with honey than you do vinegar” saying… ya I struggle with this lol
2022-10-26 22:51:54
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Ali Sharifian :
Thank you for this👏👏👏👍👍👍
2022-10-26 22:53:27
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Dreezy504 :
but when they can't answer they get worse.
2022-10-27 03:29:17
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Amy Gordon-Petrulis :
As a therapist I also agree. There is an approach called Motivational Interviewing: Avoid arguing and seek to understand what motivates their opinion.
2022-10-27 12:08:25
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NathanReo :
True, also agree with them while you walk them to your position. I learned this as a salesman. Never disagree. Agree, understand, ask, explain
2022-10-27 14:17:15
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theludap :
I’ll ask my conservative family questions and then just go “huh” and nod once they answer 😂
2022-10-27 03:49:03
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user7476301261233 :
Parents of teens, take note
2022-10-26 23:38:33
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bhamprogressive :
Yes!
2022-11-17 23:33:22
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Lindsey Alexander :
Exactly!!!!🥰🥰🥰
2022-10-27 03:17:43
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Julia Allison :
Me saying “as long as that makes sense to you” when someone’s wrong 🤣
2022-10-27 12:22:21
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lee_4168 :
And the louder they get. Like yelling something somehow makes it fact
2022-10-27 22:13:10
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Mossy Posse :
Wow - good to know!
2022-10-28 01:17:43
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It’s Dani :
I think about this a lot actually. When I’m trying to get someone to understand something I try to think of it like inception. Plant the idea 😬
2022-10-27 23:04:57
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Dr. Chisom Ikeji, MD :
That’s exhausting
2022-10-30 20:25:22
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Dr. Nicole Thaxton • Therapist :
As a therapist, I share this with parents of teens often. I’ll now just share your video!
2022-10-28 13:48:02
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