@dougweaverart: Seriously, what do they think “submission” looks like? #submission #Relationship #masculine #femanine #marriage

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jasonokan
Jason Okan :
I've asked all these questions and never gotten any good answers from the "submission" crowd.
2022-11-03 16:58:08
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moninator_1
Mominator :
Submitting, in my household has been for me not to speak up or out at anything. I'm to accept/deal with whatever my husband decides. 1/2
2022-11-04 11:10:25
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smoresles
Morris Ruggleturds :
Submissive to them means accept any and all abuse and just take it with a smile.
2022-11-04 11:31:47
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captain_bumbles
Captain Bumbles :
There are not enough characters to communicate the abuse this power structure creates. 😞 Be thankful you haven’t been there.
2022-11-03 16:57:48
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christina_nina28
Christina_Nina28 :
Think 50’s housewife whose sole purpose is to make/care of babies, take care of the house, and anything outside gendered norms is NOT submission. 1
2022-11-03 17:18:36
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arhawk11
Angela :
divorced, heard I should be more "submissive" from my ex and his family a lot. I think they meant never challenge his view. keep his ego comfy 🙄
2022-11-03 21:06:32
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aud_ballin
AuD_ballin :
Everything you've said describes a relationship I did have. Except that I wasn't allowed to leave the house on my own unless grocery/errand shopping
2022-11-03 17:58:05
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debra.a.g
debra.a.g :
You joke, but it’s very real and no joke.
2022-11-04 03:58:56
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tee.._..tee
Tee-Tee :
Submitting to his every need without thoughts of ourselves. Anticipating the man’s needs and doing everything for them. With a smile and cheer.
2022-11-04 00:55:00
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allthefires
Kirsten Weaver :
If you married someone with different beliefs, ideals, wants, needs than you and you disagreed a lot- then it’s the man dictating the final decision.
2022-11-03 20:18:16
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latelierdenova
latelierdenova :
spot on! BTW I like you nail polish color
2022-11-03 16:56:46
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sgt.elyas123
Steph :
they mean a woman who doesn't say no or stand up for herself or establish boundaries so they can behave and treat her how they want.
2022-11-03 17:02:34
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mel_flips_it
Mel Flips It :
he gets the final say in decision making
2022-11-03 17:58:09
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george35813
Lester :
Every man I've dated has been squeamish about helping me with decisions. They didn't want to interfere with my autonomy.
2022-11-03 17:11:47
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reeci_pc
Reeci :
I was in one of those marriages, and pretty much anytime there was a disagreement, you're supposed to let him win. 🙄
2022-11-03 17:01:57
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raethebarista
Rae :
I come from a very Christian family, and it’s like the man has authority over big decisions, money, etc.
2022-11-03 17:42:28
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ashleyngonza
Ashley :
Submission in marriage looks like following the leader or like the helper. Although you need to make sure you have a good leader with the same goals
2022-11-03 18:54:55
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tygafifty
Tygafifty :
Tate is what these men think is a “masculine man”
2022-11-03 17:07:48
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speedyslut
Bipedal Racoon :
and the thing with these people is, they don't realise that this is a kink, and that not everyone shares that kink. It's so silly how they try to forc
2022-11-03 17:40:40
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itsmelaniebaker
𝔐𝔢𝔩𝔞𝔫𝔦𝔢 𝔅𝔞𝔨𝔢𝔯 :
Submissive = victim
2022-11-03 16:56:07
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gratefulgardensong
Alea D. Bunker :
ok... so I just got a new insight into this. God tells men to submit to their woman too. But, I think this is more about bringing things to each
2022-11-04 05:45:23
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krnlg
krNLG :
I’ve always assumed it meant “final decision maker”.
2022-11-03 19:55:37
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bres_adventures
Bre’s_adventures :
I think it comes with men who don’t want their wives to work, expect to come home to dinner and a clean house.
2022-11-03 16:55:00
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artemeia
Artemeia :
They want a victim that they have the right to treat terribly and force them to agree/do whatever they want 😬
2022-11-03 17:11:52
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glasspanda1207
GlassPanda :
I was in an evangelical cult and married my first boyfriend. He had the say over where we lived, controlled the money, etc
2022-11-03 17:58:01
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hapa_jeff
Hapa-Jeff :
You know… “Praise Be”
2022-11-04 06:43:08
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nathanxbaileyx
Nathan Bailey :
I attended a wedding once and the literal vows on both sides were to be dominant/submissive. I was so disturbed and frankly angry.
2022-11-04 01:23:46
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maddieehow
maddieehow :
I picture the 1800s and a guy saying “Betsy, I know your family is here, but we’re getting in a covered wagon and going west.” And her having no say.
2022-11-03 17:29:29
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neonswans
Rocky :
Any and every decision goes through the man. No matter how trivial.
2022-11-03 18:29:50
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amane.perez
Amane.Perez :
Ugh this is going to be long. My family is from Egypt so FYI. My uncle
2022-11-03 18:54:10
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duh_lorien
Lorien :
The 1st fight my ex and I had was over my having male friends. The 2nd was about my not feeling the house was my sole responsibility bc I worked too.
2022-11-04 05:53:27
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mydaystayaroha
Charlie :
The way it was taught to me: if the husband and wife have a disagreement on some kind of major decision, the wife submits to what the husband wants :/
2022-11-04 04:48:39
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slopseller
Nick :
I did have a live-in bf that wanted to know who I had lunch with and why it was just male colleagues and what we talked about etc. never again.
2022-12-06 02:51:40
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ultra_violet_love
ultravioletlove :
I think society is going in a great direction if you're confused about this. you are doing it right, sir! thank you! 💜
2022-11-17 20:33:50
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studdedrocks
Studdedrocks :
It’s like when a decision needs to be made it gets discussed but ultimately the man decides.
2022-11-04 04:43:28
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kmayelz94
Saturn :
If that’s a Trader Joe’s shirt then I’m gonna find you
2022-11-03 17:37:43
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sea_of_solace
Sea of Solace | Wellness :
Basically it is the same power dynamic than an employer with his employee. definitely not an equal partnership.
2022-11-04 02:37:27
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layaloxe
laya :
usually they really mean is they want someone subservient i.e. someone who won't question or challenge them and will wait on them hand and foot.
2022-11-27 10:14:00
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cranberrycoast
cranberrycoast :
an ideal wife supports her husband. she doesn't belittle him especially in front of others.
2022-11-17 22:39:49
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ryan__1969
Blacksmith :
The men saying it are still single, lol.
2022-11-17 07:47:04
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gypzy2022
bb2022 :
Unwanted sex, unwanted children, Unhad discussions about her needs & life dreams. Yes, they do make those rules & physical punishment. No joke.
2022-11-06 09:18:09
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jenandthemoon
Jennifer Bryan :
They demand sandwiches
2022-11-05 04:01:02
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igtheist.earthling
Igtheist Earthling :
No bc the ambiguity has directly led to a lot of the abuse women have endured. You'd think an omniscient god would've caught that & elaborated more
2022-11-04 19:41:30
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justfineand_dani
Dani Alban :
I would say study up on what it means and looks like to submit your life to Christ via the Bible. The guy is supposed to be living this way and also set the tone his family submits to Christ.
2022-11-03 22:15:36
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danielalanbthegood
The Good :
I grew up in one of those cults. A good wife would do whatever her husband asked, a good man would not ask of her anything other than love & support.
2022-11-03 21:03:47
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ahabsfan13
Dena :
To me submitting is having your husband make all decisions and you ask permission to do or get whatever. Don't speak up or voice opinion
2022-11-04 12:56:10
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letsraisethebar
LetsRaiseTheBar :
Look up signs of submission in animals and yeah .. they want us like that. Noooooo thanks
2022-11-04 12:31:26
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ejheatonwriter
Em :
It think it’s yet another way of saying they want a carer, or mother
2022-11-03 22:46:24
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baronessvonginger
BaronessVonGinger :
To these men “submit” means never have needs of your own.
2022-11-03 23:13:18
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