I've asked all these questions and never gotten any good answers from the "submission" crowd.
2022-11-03 16:58:08
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Mominator :
Submitting, in my household has been for me not to speak up or out at anything. I'm to accept/deal with whatever my husband decides. 1/2
2022-11-04 11:10:25
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Morris Ruggleturds :
Submissive to them means accept any and all abuse and just take it with a smile.
2022-11-04 11:31:47
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Captain Bumbles :
There are not enough characters to communicate the abuse this power structure creates. 😞 Be thankful you haven’t been there.
2022-11-03 16:57:48
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Christina_Nina28 :
Think 50’s housewife whose sole purpose is to make/care of babies, take care of the house, and anything outside gendered norms is NOT submission. 1
2022-11-03 17:18:36
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Angela :
divorced, heard I should be more "submissive" from my ex and his family a lot. I think they meant never challenge his view. keep his ego comfy 🙄
2022-11-03 21:06:32
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AuD_ballin :
Everything you've said describes a relationship I did have. Except that I wasn't allowed to leave the house on my own unless grocery/errand shopping
2022-11-03 17:58:05
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debra.a.g :
You joke, but it’s very real and no joke.
2022-11-04 03:58:56
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Tee-Tee :
Submitting to his every need without thoughts of ourselves. Anticipating the man’s needs and doing everything for them. With a smile and cheer.
2022-11-04 00:55:00
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Kirsten Weaver :
If you married someone with different beliefs, ideals, wants, needs than you and you disagreed a lot- then it’s the man dictating the final decision.
2022-11-03 20:18:16
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latelierdenova :
spot on! BTW I like you nail polish color
2022-11-03 16:56:46
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Steph :
they mean a woman who doesn't say no or stand up for herself or establish boundaries so they can behave and treat her how they want.
2022-11-03 17:02:34
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Mel Flips It :
he gets the final say in decision making
2022-11-03 17:58:09
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Lester :
Every man I've dated has been squeamish about helping me with decisions. They didn't want to interfere with my autonomy.
2022-11-03 17:11:47
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Reeci :
I was in one of those marriages, and pretty much anytime there was a disagreement, you're supposed to let him win. 🙄
2022-11-03 17:01:57
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Rae :
I come from a very Christian family, and it’s like the man has authority over big decisions, money, etc.
2022-11-03 17:42:28
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Ashley :
Submission in marriage looks like following the leader or like the helper. Although you need to make sure you have a good leader with the same goals
2022-11-03 18:54:55
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Tygafifty :
Tate is what these men think is a “masculine man”
2022-11-03 17:07:48
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Bipedal Racoon :
and the thing with these people is, they don't realise that this is a kink, and that not everyone shares that kink. It's so silly how they try to forc
2022-11-03 17:40:40
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𝔐𝔢𝔩𝔞𝔫𝔦𝔢 𝔅𝔞𝔨𝔢𝔯 :
Submissive = victim
2022-11-03 16:56:07
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Alea D. Bunker :
ok... so I just got a new insight into this.
God tells men to submit to their woman too. But, I think this is more about bringing things to each
2022-11-04 05:45:23
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krNLG :
I’ve always assumed it meant “final decision maker”.
2022-11-03 19:55:37
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Bre’s_adventures :
I think it comes with men who don’t want their wives to work, expect to come home to dinner and a clean house.
2022-11-03 16:55:00
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Artemeia :
They want a victim that they have the right to treat terribly and force them to agree/do whatever they want 😬
2022-11-03 17:11:52
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GlassPanda :
I was in an evangelical cult and married my first boyfriend. He had the say over where we lived, controlled the money, etc
2022-11-03 17:58:01
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Hapa-Jeff :
You know… “Praise Be”
2022-11-04 06:43:08
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Nathan Bailey :
I attended a wedding once and the literal vows on both sides were to be dominant/submissive. I was so disturbed and frankly angry.
2022-11-04 01:23:46
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maddieehow :
I picture the 1800s and a guy saying “Betsy, I know your family is here, but we’re getting in a covered wagon and going west.” And her having no say.
2022-11-03 17:29:29
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Rocky :
Any and every decision goes through the man. No matter how trivial.
2022-11-03 18:29:50
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Amane.Perez :
Ugh this is going to be long. My family is from Egypt so FYI. My uncle
2022-11-03 18:54:10
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Lorien :
The 1st fight my ex and I had was over my having male friends. The 2nd was about my not feeling the house was my sole responsibility bc I worked too.
2022-11-04 05:53:27
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Charlie :
The way it was taught to me: if the husband and wife have a disagreement on some kind of major decision, the wife submits to what the husband wants :/
2022-11-04 04:48:39
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Nick :
I did have a live-in bf that wanted to know who I had lunch with and why it was just male colleagues and what we talked about etc. never again.
2022-12-06 02:51:40
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ultravioletlove :
I think society is going in a great direction if you're confused about this. you are doing it right, sir! thank you! 💜
2022-11-17 20:33:50
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Studdedrocks :
It’s like when a decision needs to be made it gets discussed but ultimately the man decides.
2022-11-04 04:43:28
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Saturn :
If that’s a Trader Joe’s shirt then I’m gonna find you
2022-11-03 17:37:43
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Sea of Solace | Wellness :
Basically it is the same power dynamic than an employer with his employee. definitely not an equal partnership.
2022-11-04 02:37:27
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laya :
usually they really mean is they want someone subservient i.e. someone who won't question or challenge them and will wait on them hand and foot.
2022-11-27 10:14:00
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cranberrycoast :
an ideal wife supports her husband. she doesn't belittle him especially in front of others.
2022-11-17 22:39:49
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Blacksmith :
The men saying it are still single, lol.
2022-11-17 07:47:04
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bb2022 :
Unwanted sex, unwanted children, Unhad discussions about her needs & life dreams. Yes, they do make those rules & physical punishment. No joke.
2022-11-06 09:18:09
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Jennifer Bryan :
They demand sandwiches
2022-11-05 04:01:02
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Igtheist Earthling :
No bc the ambiguity has directly led to a lot of the abuse women have endured. You'd think an omniscient god would've caught that & elaborated more
2022-11-04 19:41:30
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Dani Alban :
I would say study up on what it means and looks like to submit your life to Christ via the Bible. The guy is supposed to be living this way and also set the tone his family submits to Christ.
2022-11-03 22:15:36
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The Good :
I grew up in one of those cults. A good wife would do whatever her husband asked, a good man would not ask of her anything other than love & support.
2022-11-03 21:03:47
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Dena :
To me submitting is having your husband make all decisions and you ask permission to do or get whatever. Don't speak up or voice opinion
2022-11-04 12:56:10
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LetsRaiseTheBar :
Look up signs of submission in animals and yeah .. they want us like that. Noooooo thanks
2022-11-04 12:31:26
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Em :
It think it’s yet another way of saying they want a carer, or mother
2022-11-03 22:46:24
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BaronessVonGinger :
To these men “submit” means never have needs of your own.
2022-11-03 23:13:18
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