@genericartdad: Never a convenient time to explain your #autism Insensitive or defensive. Your choice. #latediagnosedautistic #actuallyautistic #nd #neurodivergent #adhd #autisticadult #autismacceptance #apologies #chrisgad
Flashbacks to every teacher saying “I don’t want an excuse” when I was just trying to explain 🥲
2022-11-05 01:24:40
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Ray :
the allistic person also laughed at the joke before saying that was the line? this one hit hard
2022-11-05 01:29:09
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Ryn :
Had this conversation with another autistic person before and it really felt like we were talking passed each other and it made me so sad and frustrated because I don't even know what to say anymore
2025-01-05 23:16:25
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Chel :
They ask WHY. Then we explain WHY. They get mad because we said the WHY.
2022-11-05 02:23:02
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Erin :
The fact that they literally ask “why do you do that” and then get mad when you answer
2022-11-05 01:29:47
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gracieann49 :
After this whole thing I still don't understand what the allistic person wants
2022-11-05 01:57:06
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Geek :
The difference between reason and excuse is so dang arbitrary and I don't understand it. Ughhhh
2022-11-05 01:23:03
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kadijjjk :
the thing is i watched this and still don’t understand it from the allistic side 😭😭
2022-11-05 03:58:29
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Ellie :
so is this how personal relationships develop until they understand? and what if they don't ever understand and continue to act this way or even get argumentative? ...
2025-01-20 16:12:21
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adam :
getting called overly defensive when i can't stop myself from giving a reason/explaining my thought process to another person is the WORST :(
2022-11-05 02:03:11
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imvery sarcastic :
YES!!! AN EXPLANATION IS NOT AN EXCUSE, WHY WOULD YOU NOT WANT ME TO EXPLAIN BETTER SO THERE'S BETTER UNDERSTANDING???
2022-11-05 01:36:48
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August :
This video was almost painful because I’ve had this conversation so many times and no one ever seems to understand. Idk what to do about it 😔
2022-11-05 01:33:00
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🌈chacha🌈 :
i didn’t expect this one to make me so sad. this is painful
2022-11-05 01:30:37
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dawnbutnotforgotten :
This feels like every single fight with my husband. He gets so annoyed and tells me I’m being a “lawyer” or “politician.” I don’t know what to do.
2022-11-06 00:56:26
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Ashley :
man this is validating and triggering in the same.
2022-11-05 02:10:03
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toxic :
the way that “that’s just an excuse” hurts SO bad because SOMEONE. i knew used to say that any time i tried to explain myself
2022-11-05 01:53:01
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Hoof the Woof :
the difference between reason and excuse send to be whether or not they want to hear it
2022-11-05 01:32:05
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𝔏𝔬𝔫𝔡𝔬𝔫 🍄🖤👻 :
This is why I literally just isolate. I’m SO tired of being consistently misunderstood and gaslit about my own intentions.
2022-11-05 08:24:25
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Nês💙 :
OMG I would be so frustrated of him just for keep gaming and not paying attention to fix the problem when the other one is actively trying
2022-11-05 01:27:45
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pidge :
so upsetting bc its exactly how I apologize. "I didn't do it to hurt you, heres why, I'll do better in the future, here's how"
2022-11-05 15:22:54
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jannajie صوفيا :
every time the allistic spoke i got so confused 😭😭
2022-11-06 06:14:23
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Rowan Zeoli :
This video was so accurate it brought up some very intense feelings. Thank you for showing this reality
2022-11-05 01:24:48
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Angel :
he literally said "why do you do that" and then got upset when you explained 😅 that happens all the irl and its frustrating
2022-11-05 02:06:54
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blayke :
and then they let it bubble up to a point where they can’t stand you anymore and leave
2022-11-05 01:47:12
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