@theholisticpsychologist: A core sign of emotional immaturity is high defensiveness, taking everything personally, and the inability to understand the needs of others #emotionalimmaturity #childhoodtrauma #emotionallyimmatureparents #selfhealers

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chloellizsa
♡Chloe♡ :
Are you stalking my mom or what 💀? This are the exact words she says on a daily basis😭😭
2022-11-11 14:19:23
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tollingdeathbells
Seventhlambslain :
What parent dumps their insecurities on their kids like that??
2022-11-22 16:48:55
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sw33tandhe4venly
• he4venly!!🎸 :
i love my mom but THIS IS SO HER
2024-08-22 22:47:33
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emmy0429_
em✨ :
had that break down at 18 . moved out and STATES AWAY.
2022-11-12 06:42:36
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notbrynlol
brynie :
this…this is the one
2022-11-11 14:17:10
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deathardath
user9877010867680 :
Yikes. This is so so true.
2023-05-18 15:00:37
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pixzelin
pixz 👅 :
"I cook, I clean, I take care of you and I get nothing in return" omg,...that's almost like..it's their responsibility as a parent.???! wow
2022-11-12 01:53:54
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adventureswithsadie
AdventureswithSadie :
I feel attacked 😅😩😭😭 I know I won't get their approval but my inner child still wants it 😭😭😭
2022-11-11 18:30:04
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kmac_279
kmac :
I feel like we all have these parents meltdowns sometimes. The repair is so important for kids to see.
2022-11-11 14:14:26
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healingwithhelene
helene :
I feel like many parents to this to their kids. Causing them to become perfectionists who have codependent traits and desire feeling worthy 🙋‍♀️
2022-11-11 14:25:42
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wannabecrunchyfrye
wannabecrunchyfrye :
How’d you get this video from my childhood
2024-10-11 04:29:15
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asukakinnievent
Asuka :
My mom straight up told me she had kids because she thought they would make her feel loved and “it didn’t work”. Told me that when I was like 9
2022-11-12 00:53:59
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radina.k
Radina K :
Even at this age my mom STILL guilty and shames me regularly. She denies my feelings even when I state them clearly.
2022-11-12 15:52:17
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hippie_on_hand
user2084627161723 :
Did y’all interview my mom for this clip🤦‍♀️word for word things she has said to me. I wish she could feel loved and enough 🥺
2022-11-11 14:24:26
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ns_sal
🧿 Sarah 🧿 🍉 :
Yes! My mom lost her mother very young. When she had me she expected me to give her all the love she needed. Yet I’m still not good enough and every1
2023-01-30 12:08:10
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phoebemillar3
phoebemillar3 :
never sought her approval because i've always known i'll never get it, but i spend a lot of my life trying to placate this vibe
2023-01-28 23:18:09
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jynxtheservicemutt
Jynxtheservicemutt :
The urge to send this to my mom but knowing she’d just get super defensive…
2022-11-12 00:44:09
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purdythedirdybirdy
DaGoat :
Ooh I felt that😵‍💫
2022-11-11 14:17:28
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rainbowappletree
🌈 FemaleNerdRealness :
Jeez... that hit home. But I realized I don't really remember much of my 20s. I basically just functioned so that my parents are happy...
2023-01-03 08:39:28
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borderlinevirgo_
Derek :
Needed this after I just got grilled for being disrespectful and entitled, for saying my feelings are hurt and I need my basic needs met.
2022-11-12 08:39:21
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elizabethsmith594
Elizabeth :
Plz this is my life 😂😭 except for instead of becoming competitive I just kinda became resigned and don’t think I’ll ever do anything good enough 🫣
2022-11-11 23:48:54
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dorothy.rose80
Dorothy⚘ :
I'm in my 40s and my mother still says this manipulative bs to me. Limited interaction is necessary since she refuses to see it as an issue to resolve
2023-01-24 15:14:17
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timelesssparkle
Timeless Sparkle :
Definitely had a breakdown and I haven’t been right ever since 🤷🏾‍♀️
2022-11-22 06:34:56
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julianapandurevic
Juliana Pandurević :
Thank you for making me (and many others) feel so seen.
2022-11-11 14:21:26
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hooplahoma
Hooplahoma :
Seeing my mother as a child whose needs never were met helps me to have much more compassion for her even though she has behaved so hurtfully
2022-11-12 17:39:07
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