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julierogers161 :
It's ok to stop. It's ok to stay home with your babies and begin your own traditions & make beautiful memories.
2022-11-19 00:48:52
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Mum :
nope, we don't do that anymore. we go to MAYBE one house, but anymore we just want to stay home. being divorced is their problem, not mine.
2022-11-18 23:18:42
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AudreyEliz :
my parents are divorced and so are my husbands. with our child comming into the world in march we said we wont be doing this anymore. prioritizing us
2022-11-19 02:51:18
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Heather Wold :
No is a complete sentence. Make memories with your babies at home. Family can travel to you if they want to see you all. Hugs!
2022-11-19 02:53:57
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Lauren Kathleen :
I told my family once I had my own family I’m only going to one place per holiday. Just switch it up each holiday. Set boundaries
2022-11-18 23:50:39
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user618223663269 :
I think it’s time to start making your own family traditions. It’s ok to make your own rules and set boundaries. It will feel soooo good!!!
2022-11-19 00:36:07
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Fsjfarmstead :
nope. they all get an invite to my house super early. they can join or not.
2022-11-19 01:12:09
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Velvet :
The minute my son started a family he spends it with his family. We go visit late afternoon to see the kids.
2022-11-20 16:19:12
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J :
Not to mention the annoyance of forced blended family
2022-11-19 22:32:30
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J-Kat-Cronin :
I am a mom and divorced/remarried. I will not expect this of my children. They should be home with their babies
2022-11-20 01:42:50
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Summer Ford :
Yesss
2022-11-19 03:15:44
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Maresa Hemminger Hud :
I chose certain holidays with certain family members. No more rushing, feeling guilty. It’s enjoyable again.
2022-11-19 03:21:58
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KateeB :
Honey? Stay home and they can come to you!! 🥰😘 (i know it’s not always that easy, mine are divorced and remarried and live all over too)
2022-11-19 03:20:49
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Ashley :
This is why we don’t go home anymore. I refuse to make my kids leave their gifts to be around toxic two faced family
2022-11-18 22:53:08
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gristlebear 3 :
I have desperately dreamed of a Christmas where I could stay at home in my jammies with my kids and husband for the past 19 years
2022-11-19 06:02:13
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Jaimihuddleston :
All these “no” commentators make me realize you have never met my parents/in laws 😂😂
2022-11-19 15:37:33
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Amb ✨ :
I stay home w my (new) family. Holidays are for your babies not for their grandparents in my opinion 🤷🏻♀️
2022-11-18 19:44:53
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Amy :
holidays were pure misery when our children were young. I tell my kids do what's best for you!
2022-11-19 00:25:51
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roseisrose :
Thanksgiving: rotate years. Christmas: do a gift exchange a different day, stay home on Christmas
2022-11-20 15:05:52
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Doublenjenn85 :
and that's why we do separate days instead. not all in one day cause that is toooo much
2022-11-18 23:20:18
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Everyday Erica | ✨🍒🪩 :
Nah. We said no to that 😌 my babies deserve peaceful holidays, even if they’re small
2022-11-19 04:48:37
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brownsbetriplin :
preach! no longer doing that! they all have to compromise!
2022-11-18 21:26:48
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Alannah :
You have your own family now!! They can come to you 💗
2022-11-19 00:20:09
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mamacooper_SAHMx4 :
I stopped when I became an adult & got married.. y’all can come to me I did this my whole childhood & my children WONT feel that stress & obligations
2022-11-19 05:45:55
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Rachel :
And being guilt tripped about not spending enough time at one of the stops 🙄 Uh, pretty sure you all decided to get together, build a family, then split. Sorry but it comes with the territory and you’re lucky we make an attempt to see everyone on the same day 🤷🏻♀️
2022-11-18 21:50:05
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Whitney Dethloff :
same. Christmas day we have a rule, we don't go anywhere and no one is allowed at our house. we get to spend the whole day with our own kids
2022-11-19 14:33:56
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aly :
What makes it worse is my mom throws fits because we have to share holidays with other parents. Like me and my husband didn’t ask for our parents to be divorced. 🙄🙄🙄
2022-11-19 16:04:40
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Emer K :
It’s ok to say no. Have the day with your own kids. If your parents don’t understand that they shouldn’t be insisting you go to theirs.
2022-11-19 23:11:37
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Caitlyn Gibson :
With divorced parents for my husband and I both we have decided we’re staying home 90% of the time doing our own thing 😅
2022-11-19 09:00:59
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clur :
When I travel to all of my parents houses for holidays I always know that everyone else on the road has to have divorced parents too😅
2022-11-18 20:09:53
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Momma :
It’s a hard no for us! With 5 children of our own whoever wants to see us can come to us😂
2022-11-18 20:25:48
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Adrienne Wilson :
Boundaries are a beautiful thing.
2022-11-18 21:22:41
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AndreaOC27 :
i would just visit christmas week and not on christmas day
2022-11-20 11:32:34
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maryw534 :
and I wish I had this. I don't have any family get togethers with my side family just the little bit with hubbys family.
2022-11-19 00:11:24
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Samantha :
I told my whole family that they can come here for one big Xmas and they can put their differences aside for the grandkids
2022-11-20 16:57:11
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Michelle Copeland :
All of our kids are in your shoes so my husband and I don’t make our kids come on a certain day and if we don’t see everyone on the same day it is ok
2022-11-19 00:46:55
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Amandamumcoach :
We don’t go anywhere anymore. We do our own thing. Highly recommend.
2022-11-20 13:13:07
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The Sexiest Poole Boy :
my parents and wife's parents are divorced. we say we're going to 1 house so yall can cooperate and be civil or we stay home.
2022-11-24 17:37:22
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user7407278061149 :
Decided once I had kids I would do 3 stops max!
2022-11-19 03:13:19
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Bri 🤍☀️🍷☕️ :
No mam - once you have kids it’s now your family and you make the decision! If they want to be involved they will 🥰
2022-11-19 03:03:11
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BakeYouACake :
We decided to just stop and enjoy our day at home.
2022-11-19 02:54:43
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MammaB :
Let me tell you I hated it. Then my mom passed away and I miss the crazy and stress of splitting time
2022-11-19 02:48:14
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Ashley :
my mom's parents are divorced and my parents are divorced. we had so many places to go as kids. and now as an adult we have my dad and MIL
2022-11-19 01:08:52
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Christine📖📚 :
When I started dating my husband we used to spend all day going back and forth Christmas Day. It’s been a long time since I enjoyed the day
2022-11-20 16:09:47
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Nicole Lewis :
We stopped going. Told them I’m cooking one meal, if they want to see us they can come.
2022-11-18 23:59:44
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cannahb :
I think the tradition needs to start with the parents visiting you at home where the children can be home with all their gifts and you are relaxing!
2022-11-20 16:21:58
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angelialewis757 :
I did this as a kid because I had no choice. As an adult I said no.
2022-11-20 16:52:45
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Jessica Clawson :
Yep! Switch up who's house you go to for each holiday. We do one thanksgiving, one Xmas Eve and one Xmas day. Even that is getting to be too much.
2022-11-20 17:52:59
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user672556609381 :
We told both our set of parents that they can get along for one dinner or not see us at all over the holidays it’s about the kids not the adults
2022-11-20 17:31:34
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