Laura Milliken
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Rickson Fantasy Jewelry :
I feel this is holding the relationship over their heads. but my kids struggle with emotional regulation so maybe we are using different techniques...
2022-11-20 22:43:06
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Tara :
Cool but what consequence do you get when you "mess up" and speak to them disrespectfully? Do they get to take things away from you that you enjoy?
2022-11-20 21:04:49
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Sarcasm&Grace :
My 8yo with ADHD is very emotional. He gets frustrated easily and screams. How do I let him have his feelings but also teach him it's not...
2022-11-20 14:37:37
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Britt🎀 :
I need more of these for pre teens!
2022-11-21 00:15:36
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Michelle :
Yeah so this is punishing in a passive aggressive way. In the king term this spore h doesn’t actually address helping them with emotional development.
2022-11-21 04:42:50
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Jon | Parenting Educator :
Fire post.
2022-11-19 20:46:06
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sweetpeaREA :
also don't give in. my mom tried this for like a Day and little me learned if I escalated she'd just give in. if she would've stuck her ground I
2022-12-20 20:12:42
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Gh1998 :
Thank you!!! This is so needed
2022-11-20 15:24:32
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sarah.momof3 :
What about pestering or fighting with siblings? My kids fight a ton and one son is just SO mean to the other 😭
2023-01-04 14:52:58
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Kim :
You are punishing them, not actually teaching them or supporting them to do better
2022-11-20 22:52:25
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Kara :
All of this will them stay out of situations where people are mean/etc to them and set their own boundaries as adults! Thanks for the examples 😃
2022-11-19 20:14:28
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sparrow9087 :
5 kids here. I explain the consequence and the purpose. And I give them a choice. They can fix it before the consequence comes and get to the (1)
2022-11-19 21:38:59
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Jayelle :
“Backtalk” is just communication. Ignore the tone or whatever you’re offended by and address the emotion. Problem solve together. No need to punish
2022-11-21 00:33:08
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B :
Great examples. This was hard for us. The boundary caused a tantrum which caused me to lose my cool. When I stopped reacting to the tantrums and stuck
2022-11-19 22:29:03
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Justina :
Any advice for a 5yr old with an attitude lol. Normally she’s great but when it comes to electronics we struggle :(
2022-11-20 03:58:59
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bittersweetbullsht :
@moonmama_elle
2022-11-19 21:37:48
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Jamie’s Wonder.full Life :
I try to connect it to being aware of their body/feelings like “we can’t do more screen time bc it seems your brain needs a break” we refer to being
2022-11-20 12:40:03
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Hailey Renae Turnmir :
So helpful
2022-11-19 20:30:53
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Mandy :
🥰🥰🥰
2022-11-28 13:49:21
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torialvo :
I love this. thank you!
2022-11-20 18:27:39
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Renee :
Yup. I do this all the time and she usually still stays super mad but it keeps my peace and is so much better than alternatives
2022-11-21 14:26:28
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Julia :
Ok but how did you react at dinner while being disrespected? I’m struggling w/ my 4yo son with huge tantrums due to not listening and timeouts
2022-11-21 02:02:42
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Aimee :
I so agree! I tried these with my SIL she wasn't having it she said I was talking to her like a child
2022-11-19 21:35:57
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Nopenottoday :
So, if you woukd.like to try that again, but this time say it respectfully, I will be ready to talk.
2022-11-21 00:23:30
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tamirose70 :
Or use .... A better way to say that would be XYZ.
2022-11-20 18:39:56
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organic.chaoss :
Love this so much
2022-11-20 23:20:06
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bittersweetbullsht :
@tiffanileb
2022-11-19 21:37:54
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sparrow9087 :
purpose without it or I will put the consequence in place until we get to the goal Often just me explaining what the goal is corrects behavior (2)
2022-11-19 21:41:41
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Candace :
How should I deal with kids (11, 7, and 6) that fight and argue CONSTANTLY? I can’t always separate them and be a referee.
2022-11-21 02:00:31
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getkidstobehave :
👏👏👏
2022-11-20 20:16:33
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gystlifecoacherica :
These are fantastic
2022-11-21 02:43:31
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Jen :
Thank you for sharing several examples with this! I struggle in walking it out and holding my ground with them. This gives me hope
2022-11-21 03:14:08
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prncssdnna :
I am in this too! my son is almost 10 and we are constantly working on respectful talking. this helps! thank you!
2022-11-21 13:44:13
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JasonShoots18 :
Why does the child talk back?
2022-11-20 00:45:10
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Carla Berman :
I’m wish I had you when my kids were little. Thank you for sharing and keep giving tips!!
2022-11-21 18:10:24
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Brenda Harris :
What’s your recommendation when a major problem with taking something away is my son will then say he wants to be with dad…..divorced. 😞
2022-11-23 12:46:32
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myshawtybae8 :
Mine would flip out even more I've been trying to do this for a long time and one of my kids is just broken 😭
2022-11-20 16:40:12
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rallyurallies :
I disagree. Taking away screen time until THEY figure out how to be respectful? Instead, you should sit with them and explain to them how they could 1
2022-12-01 19:49:38
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Demi karayannis :
What book is it that you are reading/found
2022-12-22 00:31:44
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lovinlife :
Oh I love it. What about when mom has a horrible headache and kids are arguing (tween ages)
2023-01-04 02:35:14
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