@theholisticpsychologist: Enabling is very commom in dysfunctional families. Here’s how to set a boundary around it.

Dr. Nicole LePera
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Saturday 26 November 2022 13:24:23 GMT
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juliadoesallthethings
Julia :
ok so tell the dad instead of telling the mom to address it......
2022-11-26 14:00:48
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mamaheathertok
Mama Heather 🩵 :
Mom doesn't and shouldn't regulate Dad's behavior. The conversation needs to be had with Dad.
2022-11-27 17:29:24
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grkelly68
Gina Kelly :
She needs to talk to dad not mom. It’s not fair to put mom in the middle of it.
2022-11-26 16:54:50
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llmy34
user2986256705828 🇨🇦 :
And this is why dad doesn’t change, people complain but never to the actual person with the problem.
2022-11-27 17:19:12
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bluewatersunshine
PA :
It seems this boundary conversation should be happening with the dad
2022-11-27 15:52:59
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_girlkyle_
_girlkyle_ :
Oh. How do millennials do this? Bc this convo is getting aggressive with boomer parents 🥺🥺
2022-11-27 08:32:28
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archieorangecat
Archie :
I didn't know what boundaries were. Thanks tiktok
2022-11-26 14:29:07
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minnowsmom
Charlie’s mom :
It’s sad, Dad probably has an addiction and Mom is trying to deal with it. Maybe daughter should invite her parents to her place.
2022-11-27 21:04:34
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wireteeth
Zoi :
This is actually my family’s situation today!! I am struggling setting boundaries.But I need to, I have a baby now 🥺
2022-11-26 13:34:34
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isi_witchy
Isi Witchy :
The for you page is really "foryouing" today
2022-11-26 14:03:32
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morgank615
Morgank615 :
Triangulation is also not appropriate. If one feels both needs to know, set a time to discuss with both face to face with solution focused convo:)
2022-11-27 16:24:37
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daughter.theresa
Daughter Theresa :
thanks for this
2022-11-26 13:56:43
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chris.miller299
chris.miller299 :
You’re talking to the wrong person
2022-11-27 21:11:48
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tinkerkellita
Kelly- CPTSD Scapegoat Healing :
Guys….it’s about the ENABLING parent in this video which IS the mother in this situation. This type of parent has minimized things to this kid.
2022-12-04 16:15:28
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mrsbower2016
mrsbower2016 :
my dad is abusive, physically and verbally. my mom is a narcissist and enabler. don't talk to either 🥰
2022-11-26 17:14:37
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ccb0803
ccb0803 :
She needs to tell Dad!!
2022-11-26 19:35:23
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alexanderw8255
Alexander :
Maybe talk to the person involved.
2022-11-27 18:01:26
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westcork1900
westcork1900 :
That’s a conversation she should have with her father not her mother. She’s punishing her mother saying this especially over the phone
2022-11-26 18:44:14
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calodoina
user9611033923494 :
Tell the dad. That sounds so bratty.
2022-11-27 21:47:25
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mykualla
My’kualla :
Obv needs to tell the mom to because she is gaslighting and making excuses.
2022-11-27 01:05:53
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truthwinsthree
DianeRiley :
Life as it should be not how it is for many. Education on toxic never enough. Much respect
2022-11-26 14:23:41
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minnesota210
Minnesota210 :
If only real life conversations went like this… usually it’s passive aggressive, raised voices which then turns into a screaming argument 😏
2022-11-27 08:47:27
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tacosmudder
Colleen :
I try so hard to set boundaries and I’m ignored, talked over, or she drops into my work. Still sees me as a clumsy toddler. It is so hard.
2022-11-27 00:26:32
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stelly_monster
Stelly Monster :
I’m sure she’ll talk to dad when she needs his help!
2022-11-27 20:56:31
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amandaplz1219
Amanda J :
this 🥺 I feel seen my mom is always making excuses for my dad
2022-11-26 15:10:19
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