Jess martini
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Caitlin Anne :
“View their behavior not as a struggle for them but as a burden for us” wow
2022-12-05 17:09:16
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Ez Ga :
My sons teacher talks about my son like he’s the bad kid. I finally asked her “anything positive? You seem to only complain”
2022-12-05 01:35:06
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Kassidy Renee Little :
I was turned into the bad/difficult child. I have ADHD. 🥺
2022-12-05 00:26:27
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Daniela :
Can we talk about how schools/teachers/admins do this ! They did it to me as a child and now to my son!
2022-12-06 06:19:46
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Amanda :
I’m trying so hard with my ASD/ADHD son to make sure no one crushes him because he does things differently 🥺 he is so amazing
2022-12-06 11:31:44
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Linzy :
You are amazing. I just saw a video of a child crying over spelling words and was terrified by the comments. We cause so much harm by how we treat
2022-12-05 19:05:10
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Bianca Catalano :
would it be equally good or bad if when they do the task right a question is presented instead like " that worked well, what did you do differently?"
2022-12-17 05:38:48
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Kells :
yup. pulled my easily distracted, high energy kiddo from preschool bc of this. I refuse for him to be the "problem kid" at 4yo.
2022-12-05 18:47:47
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Elle :
I was the one who was cast aside and called bad. My son very easily could be in the same boat had I treated him like I was. Instead I advocated
2022-12-05 00:47:50
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Rebekah Durel :
I love your videos. Seriously, helping me be a better parent.
2022-12-05 05:00:45
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Apple User683362765 :
Might be a dumb question but is this the same as sushing for a kids who is screaming inside and then saying to use an inside voice?
2022-12-05 11:41:08
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GoCryAboutIt :
Damn people actually treat their kids like this?? That's insane
2022-12-05 00:17:49
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Nobody :
reminds me of the song "bad child" by Tones and I.
2022-12-05 00:31:02
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Rachelle Robinson :
the "bad" kid is actually an overwhelmed parent that needs support to be able to help the kid with struggles get through them.
2022-12-05 00:34:28
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AshleyGlow :
I was extremely shy as a kid and everyone acted like I was doing it to be rude or disrespectful. I wasn’t acting socially acceptable so I was bad.
2022-12-05 02:54:53
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Kathy Maxey :
that was my husband growing up 😔 he's still working through it.
2022-12-05 00:34:29
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Elljup :
All of this
2022-12-05 20:01:14
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KrisPKreme314 :
I was turned into bad sheep/difficult problem bc I was diagnosed yet they burned the records after paying to hide it.. logic
2022-12-05 05:54:12
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LissyChick :
My husband does that sh!+ to our kids. Pisses me off.
2022-12-05 01:26:40
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Diane S. :
how do you think a parent should go about caring for a child who bullys, is rude or mean? I don't want to paint anyone as a problem but when he kicks the baby or ignores when hes told something or sticks his fingers in his ears so he doesnt have to listen Idk what to do
2022-12-05 17:01:42
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No name :
They say little things like, “you’re so crazy” or “don’t be a brat” I correct them and say “No, he’s perfect” they don’t like that response
2022-12-05 01:14:26
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Alaska Young :
what about saying I understand your excited. when they do show they do something well say thankyou for jumping quietly!
2022-12-05 18:43:06
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Michelle Jacobs :
💔
2022-12-05 00:35:00
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Shhhnotiktok1 :
My kid is “struggling to pay attention” in school. I don’t want to treat it as behavioral if it’s not but he’s 5 and it’s hard to tell. I also don’t .
2022-12-05 01:21:57
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Betsy Clark almost home :
I have kids with mental health struggles and neurodivergence. None of them are problem children.
2022-12-06 06:03:26
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Jerry Rodriguez :
@mannyrios807 show this to Sandi because she did this to me and so I know is doing it to my sons now
2022-12-05 03:43:03
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Rebakah Knight :
some teachers are just assholes. Doing this to a first grader has major issues.
2022-12-05 02:27:51
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Sherrie Robertson :
You are so profound
2022-12-13 00:39:05
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Cindy_The_Savage :
How does are the bad kids affected by the label growing up?
2022-12-05 01:42:11
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Themadnater :
Imagine this… my first therapy session and I was told I had lots of empathy, my family turned it into a joke … gutted me
2022-12-17 12:43:58
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rmara76 :
That’s why I pulled my daughter out of public and out into Montessori. Public broke her down daily. Not on my watch!
2022-12-25 05:30:37
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Sour Soul :
Staying with a friend that has a kid who is “loud” and I’m like he just has zoomies with his voice.
2023-01-03 01:42:40
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harmonymelodypress :
I saw one of your videos like this very early in my daughters journey to ADHD diagnosis. Thank you for making these videos. It has helped me.
2023-01-04 03:30:06
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Emily :
I have so much guilt over this…it’s so hard
2023-02-01 18:43:52
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Pamela :
seems to me that Kate has never cared about poor Collin
2023-05-10 03:47:05
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