@sharon.a.life: It’s not you. It’s us. We have #adhd or are #stressed or have #mombrain or #anxiety and we just don’t pay attention to details but just because we don’t know what to get you doesn’t me we don’t LOVE YOU!
This is why a list is important. I’d rather get nothing than feel like someone doesn’t pay attention or like they don’t know me at all 😅
2022-12-21 17:26:52
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marzipan86 :
My husband and I almost never give gifts to each other. It's neither of our love languages and we both find choosing gifts stressful.
2022-12-21 18:48:13
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edenapple2000 :
I send my husband an Amazon wish list. Most years it has like 3-4 things. This year it was just one 😂
2022-12-22 01:23:22
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alexmariesworld :
Nobody’s just born a terrible gift giver, it takes hard work and serious empathy. Just like marriage!
2022-12-21 16:56:49
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Shay 🤎📖🏹🩺 :
Just get what the person says they want. It’s not that hard.
2025-11-26 17:40:12
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Shay016🌈🏳️🌈 :
My husband God love is horrible at it. I used to get so upset. Now 9 years in I know he tried and he shows love…
2022-12-22 00:33:07
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banerika1 :
What does “try” mean here?
2023-12-23 13:35:50
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Danni :
He just tells me 😁
2022-12-21 18:00:28
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Brittany Mattingl185 :
I hate Christmas for the very reason, add kids who says “I don’t know” when I ask them what they want. 😵💫😴
2022-12-21 17:34:52
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Savicci :
I never expect anything from my partner on holidays unless I specifically ask for something. He gets stressed trying to guess
2022-12-21 19:34:03
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Robin Geist :
I finally gave him (pre Google and online shopping) ads with the item circled, sizes included if clothing, etc. I had to be specific!
2022-12-26 19:37:01
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LauraCashion :
OMG mine can’t even follow a specific list but I love that he tries.
2022-12-23 17:40:13
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Chrisy :
Mine just don’t get me anything🥺
2022-12-21 16:56:29
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🌻that blue sunflower chick💙 :
I feel this from the depths of my soul.🙈
2022-12-21 18:39:48
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DJBell :
I told my husband that I never want an item that’s going to sit on a shelf somewhere. Just save your money or get me a gift card. So sick of knickknac
2022-12-21 17:43:14
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bluehairedbabe :
Yeah Hubs just usually does nothing. Even when I tell him exactly what to get he messes it up anyway. lol
2022-12-21 17:47:46
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ranaconway7 :
he so realizes it's not his thing...I've realized it. he just takes my Amazon wish list. and thank goodness he realizes giving gifts is my number 1
2023-01-06 13:09:37
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addiem988 :
my husband and I are terrible. so we don't get each other anything and use the money on a few days away by ourselves.
2022-12-21 17:09:08
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hollydelo :
We give each other a new record for our album player each year! It’s simple and something we both love.
2022-12-21 17:37:55
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Beautiful.Mess :
I'm so upset with my husband haven't talked to him in days!!!! 😂😂😂
2023-12-27 21:32:12
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Molly Lindley :
I have started buying my own gifts because it makes me happy and I don’t care about the surprise. Saved my marriage haha
2022-12-21 16:57:47
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practicebrilliance :
1/2 Gift giving can be stressful and frustrating because it’s a skill. We learn it. You can get good at it, but there’s a learning curve.
2022-12-21 18:22:36
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Infinitereality665 :
I’m a terrible gift giver. I’m a terrible gift receiver. I just kind of hate gifts all around. I feel so grinchy saying this but it’s true. I love everyone that gets my awful gifts though. I promise!
2022-12-21 17:39:27
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Platzapus :
Horrific. Every year. I swear I actually love and LIKE my husband. I just fail.
2022-12-21 19:55:09
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emmalee🖤 :
This is me!! I am the worst at gift giving! I never know what to get. My BF on the other hand is the best!!
2022-12-21 21:07:06
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Jobie :
Two years in a row my husband has got me a squatty potty and I’m hoping for a third one this year and I’m actually gonna love it
2022-12-22 03:53:09
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Kandi ❌🩷 :
Not accurate. If you can make the appointments. Be on time. Do all the other things that need attention. You can take time to gift with thought also.
2025-12-25 22:15:26
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user7760830417331 :
I have ADHD too. You look old enough have learned how to do better at this point. I start early and have a process. Stop making excuses for not trying to improve because you can.
2025-03-09 16:12:16
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Call Me Meg :
It’s me, I’m the problem it’s me
2022-12-21 17:39:26
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LyndaLooWho :
😅 thanks for the message! This is why my husband and I pick out our own gifts. Last year he did surprise me with a diamond necklace tho 🥰
2022-12-21 17:47:17
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Kristen Sibal :
my husband is a terrible gift giver. I love him to death, hes an INCREDIBLE husband and father. he gets a list of links and is required to wrap it 😂
2022-12-21 17:46:58
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Pegasus :
Many years ago after being disappointed in gifts from spouse I started buying my own and have never looked back.
2022-12-21 17:18:28
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Jenny 🫶 :
My husband and I have Amazon lists and we always just get each other something off there so we know we will like it 🥰😂
2022-12-21 16:57:07
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Interview tips with Alyssa :
Dear bad gift givers. Reflect on what they have loved in the past (practical vs impractical). Set your budget and type into chatgpt “give me 50 ideas for gifts under $ for a (year) (wife/husband).
2025-01-06 01:48:02
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KP :
At least you get a gift from your spouse. Going on 9 Christmas’ with my husband, not a single gift. Every year I give him something small “from the kids”
2024-12-11 02:52:49
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ciaoplm :
Nope. You are an adult. Figure it out.
2024-12-27 22:27:34
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artdecopanther :
Cant relate but I wish I could help all the bad gift givers 🥹❤️
2024-12-30 21:49:11
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gmakrissy6 :
My hubby asked if I wanted a gym membership.. I asked if he wanted new whitey tightys 😂😂
2022-12-23 17:26:03
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Allthoseopposed :
Bad gift giver is one of my own personal strengths. 😂😂
2022-12-23 17:28:21
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Joann3266 :
Book or wine
2022-12-23 12:52:38
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EverythingMelanie :
I stuck at picking gifts 😂
2022-12-22 18:32:39
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StarPainterStarFire :
You look like Kaley Cuoco
2022-12-22 14:38:22
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Ree :
This is a great post! Thank you!
2022-12-22 05:31:50
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Cami :
it's me! I'm the terrible gift giver.
2022-12-22 04:23:06
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Justine_is_rad :
My husband is currently upset with me because I took our budget we put aside for me and spent it on him 😅
2022-12-21 19:50:55
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