Chris Burkett
Region: US
Sunday 25 December 2022 15:50:29 GMT
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sarahb251🇨🇦 :
I have major anxiety. My brain will tell me I'm not loved. I'll tell my BF "I need validation" and he'll stop everything to say "I love you".
2022-12-25 15:59:07
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Chantel :
what if both parties want to be in the relationship but one person is expecting the other to do all of the validating before the other even tries?
2022-12-26 09:42:29
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Alexis Jimenez :
anytime I bring up my feelings about an issue my partner makes it seem like I'm crazy, oversensitive, and controlling. how do I get him to understand?
2022-12-25 16:56:29
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Branán :
This is exactly how my husband treats me and with BPD I get that it happens a lot so I just gave up.
2022-12-25 16:37:25
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🌸Lily Hayes🌸 :
My husband treats me like this! He thinks I don’t need to be validated because if he didn’t care about me or love me he wouldn’t be with me. He says
2022-12-26 15:28:31
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Cranialvoid :
Truth. Your SO should think of you as a safe place to talk about what they need. I am here to learn. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
2022-12-25 19:27:51
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Tiny :
currently in a separation from my bf of 9 yrs because of things like this. hes in counseling now to try to address the root of why he is so defensive
2022-12-26 01:24:31
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🌔Vivid_Moon🌖 :
your wife is a lucky lady and you are a lucky man! seriously more couples should take notes 💜
2022-12-25 18:30:43
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Ka Ren :
he reassures me but after doing it says see I reassured you and Idk why that bothers me 😭
2022-12-26 23:21:30
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Lilredsdarkside :
My man and I have a phrase we say when feeling down. And instantly the other goes into comforting mode. It has changed my life. And his.
2022-12-27 18:22:20
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Melissa Ruff257 :
that’s the reason my ex and i broke up. he could never sit in his feelings with me always had to be violent.
2022-12-27 17:25:17
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:) :
I’m sending this to my partner
2022-12-25 17:24:43
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Patricia :
Thank you for this. I was told it wasn’t normal to need others to care. 🥺
2022-12-26 01:55:03
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Sandra Stuart :
my husband always is in his phone when i try talk to him especially with something serious, ive asked about the phone but doesnt see an issue 🥺
2023-01-01 14:33:00
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Talia Munoz :
my husband will hold me and says he wishes he could do something more 🥺
2023-01-03 04:06:00
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The_Morrigan :
What can I do to help you through this situation? Give them reassurance
2022-12-25 17:46:19
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Tyfie :
Nope instead they make me feel like the problem for feeing this way and say I’m overly emotional
2022-12-26 19:25:58
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✨Kait🖤 :
I have this. And it’s so much healthier. I’m still learning how to be healthy. He’s a saint to me and is helping me heal
2022-12-26 04:46:00
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Celestine843 :
you are always dead on.
2022-12-25 16:16:05
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Shawnna Marie :
i actually go through this with my partner and just went through it especially because christmas and his bday being in the same month its hard for him
2022-12-26 02:41:54
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