my little brother even tells me no to kisses and I ask" hey can I get a hug" he says no it means no
2022-12-29 20:34:51
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KBR 🩵 :
need consent. but as a gramma I won't buy gifts if kid doesn't love me enough to give a simple hug
2023-01-01 07:27:23
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His_Darling :
At Christmas the youngest two ran to give me(their aunt) a big hug then later when sitting on the couch one was cuddling with me i asked the other if she wanted to as well an she said no thanks i said okay and then didnt even think of it. How do people care so much
2022-12-30 18:00:36
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Jenny_Cox :
"please respect my child like she respects her own body"
this is something I know I'll be saying a lot really soon
2022-12-29 20:27:08
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💗 Princess Dii 💗 :
What I like to do is ask my niece for a hug or whatever affection.. if she’s uninterested, I don’t push it.. because at the end of the day.. this is a
2022-12-29 19:17:06
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Michona Toth :
My mother in law asked my son for a hug. He kept shaking his head no so she yanked him from my husband. She no longer is involved in our lives.
2022-12-30 06:34:03
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Meg :
Girl how do you look so pretty even as an old lady! 😂 #jealousaf
2022-12-29 19:14:09
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crazeykrystal :
so true. I always say the twins don't hug but do high five. they are 18 months they don't like hugs but loves high fives
2022-12-30 12:46:39
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Aura :
my grandfather used hugs to his advantage so this is something I wish I had been taught as a kid. you go mom
2022-12-29 20:58:30
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Rachel Valhalla :
I remember this and I have so many hang ups I had to work through. Don’t force a child to touch someone they don’t want to
2023-01-04 13:05:55
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Brontë :
Even with my younger siblings I always say “ Hey I’m leaving, want to give me a hug before I go?” It gives them the choice to say yes or no to it
2023-01-01 00:32:53
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Brittany Anderso7335 :
I'm doing this with my kids. tge family here understand and respect them. now at their dads house they 🤦♀️
2022-12-29 23:19:23
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user5470121036716 :
literally the fight im waiting for. i keep hearing from his mom well you just dont get it yet or you act like im stupid and dont know anything.....no
2022-12-29 23:17:13
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Ambre Wilson :
I ask if my nieces or nephews a hug or high 5s most time a high5s 😊
2022-12-30 19:38:58
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KBR 🩵 :
I will never force a child. also won't buy gifts for a kid that doesn't love me. babysit your own disrespectful unloving kids
2023-01-01 07:31:41
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Tamisra :
My oldest son hates affection for some reason, giving something for someone is his affection. my younger kids loves hugs and kisses.
2022-12-30 17:11:40
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millie131113 :
agree I never forced my children to give hugs kisses sit on the lap ect
2022-12-29 21:37:34
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Jo :
if my grand babies didn't hug me back I would be very sad.
2023-01-02 02:33:31
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triangulumowl1 :
This is why I offer a fist bump, and if the kid says no I says can I we wave bye
2023-01-02 02:19:16
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Ja-Miyah :
I wish I could send my grandma this
2023-01-01 17:30:59
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chrissy8221 :
My grandma convinced my dad that my mom taking insulin would hurt the baby, so my dad kept throwing it away
2023-01-03 14:18:37
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Makayla :
“ would you want someone touching you without your say so? No? She does not want your hug and she’s saying no. Deal with it”
2023-01-03 20:31:27
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vallangogeanna :
I don’t have to hug my gram
2022-12-29 23:42:23
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Rai Rai🩵💜💜 :
YEAH DEBRA you’re NOT ENTITLED To your grandchildren when will you learn oh Debra
2022-12-29 22:20:22
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PandaMan52 :
I ALWAYS ask my nephews if I can hug them (unless they hug first) and if I can pick them up, if they say no, I say ok and wave bye instead
2022-12-31 15:37:13
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Alison Haws :
Off topic, but my brother had that exact same onsie your baby is wearing. It's adorable.
2024-06-21 03:45:11
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MrsKengiAsano :
my mil tries to make my nephew hug me and he says no I tell her that's fine and ask for a fist bump and gladly does that it's not hard people 🥰
2022-12-31 07:10:52
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Di :
OH TINY HUMAN
2022-12-30 03:19:31
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Nancy :
If kids don’t want to give you a hug they don’t have to — it’s boundaries—
2022-12-30 19:22:08
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rainbow :
I may ask them to thank them but I'd never force a child to allow someone to touch them that's wrong u wouldn't allow a stranger to do that
2022-12-30 20:42:53
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Brittany “Babyydoll” :
This!! I’m so thankful that my husbands side of the family is very understanding of my daughter not being a touchy huggable person, but when she does
2022-12-30 22:19:02
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Adrien ❤️ :
No is no!! It’s not disrespect or being rude!! It’s about consent!!
2022-12-30 22:48:53
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Valentine :
I had this issue with my aunt recently, I'm 21 and have autism, I dont wanna hug you anymore, I dont like it
2022-12-31 04:17:22
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Nixie :
😳😳 this was the EXACT conversation I had to have with MIL on Christmas.. well it was the Wednesday before but still.😳😳
2022-12-31 05:07:23
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Jenn🫶Smiles :
Lmao my mom felt EXACTLY the same way! She was so mad. I had to explain that you can’t teach bodily autonomy while forcing unwanted touching.
2022-12-31 05:41:31
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Angelic Alchemist :
I try to say can I have a hug
2022-12-30 18:14:35
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JJ2018FL :
That’s over the top
2022-12-31 15:50:42
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strawberryChimmy :
The only disrespect is the grandma trying to force a child who said no to give her a hug
2022-12-31 21:00:01
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Chell :
I just asked my grandson for a hug. His answer " No thank you, sometimes I just don't feel like a hug." So I did not hug him.
2022-12-30 17:43:26
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KateyK :
That’s like teaching your child that if a man pays for your dinner you have no right to say no.
2023-01-01 01:07:15
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Jessica :
Their father and I teach the girls this... They have the right to say no to anyone even us if they don't want a hug or kiss. Why force them??
2022-12-30 17:42:58
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Mackenzie :
This is what I’ll be doing with my child after he or she is born
2022-12-30 17:34:30
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Cristene comstock :
Forcing a child to hug or kiss someone says how they feel doesn't matter as long as their family’s happy and that's a toxic mindset
2023-01-01 08:20:29
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