@heal.with.fifi: You’re NOT lazy. You’re NOT undisciplined. While we do have to work our discipline muscle, it’s likely that you need better SYSTEMS instead of more motivation. #adhd #neurodivergent #pcos #mthfr

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iloveyoubetterr
ilyB :
Oh my gosh, that’s why I think existing is such a chore…basic human functions are exhausting and I couldn’t figure out why…
2023-01-04 16:14:07
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bldtyp
Ruth 🔻 :
Yes please to the series on ‘ADHD hacking systems’ - thank you 😭
2023-01-04 20:34:32
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sarahthecat8
sarahthecat8 :
Showering. The bane of my existence. Then skincare, then getting dressed. It takes so much discipline to do and sometimes I just can’t do it.
2023-01-05 21:24:38
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twitchywitchyx
Dani :
This is so validating, I feel like I’m trying to swim upstream just completing daily tasks 🫠 I def need better systems!
2023-01-04 00:30:32
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thevictoriavance
Victoria Vance :
And the de-motivation comes from how others might treat us. Literally just yes all around!
2023-01-04 00:45:11
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snaredwolf
Snaredwolf🇨🇦🇵🇸 :
IVE BEEN GASLIGHTING MYSELF FOR SO LONG
2023-01-06 02:03:24
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aster_ion
aster_ion :
Someone tell me what some systems are I am literally too burnt out to endlessly research this
2023-01-05 05:43:04
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heal.with.fifi
healwithfifi :
Part 2! Systems for neurodivergent peeps-coming soon 💜
2023-01-05 19:33:18
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malgoandthemango
malgo :
i constantly give advice to my friends about time management because I tried about every method that exists trying to get myself to do things
2023-01-05 18:24:06
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qweenkendra
user6487483683775 :
Yesss if there’s a small thing I need to do like glue something, change batteries, ext I leave it out on the counter until it bugs me enough to do it
2023-01-04 19:56:11
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user9694818115854
user9694818115854 :
Need more examples of systems
2023-01-04 20:46:39
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extracelestiallife
Celeste :
Systems for bedtime pls my insomnia is out of control 😅
2023-01-04 07:10:06
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mareikesamira
Samira Kunz :
Why is everything a task😩uuurgh am I just a bystander to the flow of life😅
2023-01-05 20:12:36
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meh_dicelavaca..0
hello 🍀 🍀 :
Naur Cleo
2025-01-22 15:51:40
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rebecca_lynn1994
Rebecca :
A series would be amazing!!
2023-01-04 21:17:22
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squeakz77
Squeakz :
And yes leave all your hacks please queen :)
2023-01-04 00:21:00
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hagelfox
hagelfox :
I stared at my trousers a full minute this morning before sighing and pulling them on.
2023-01-06 14:14:56
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sabrinithegenie
Sabrini The Genie :
Omg yessss give me all the hacks!
2023-01-04 00:21:55
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kennedha
Holly 🍉 :
Yes, please share your systems!
2023-01-04 13:51:53
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nikkipebbles
Nikki Pebbles, M.S. :
YES YES YESSSS!! Thank you!!
2023-01-04 01:39:25
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urmomisniceactually
urmomisniceactually :
Omg please give us more systems !!
2023-01-04 18:43:16
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creat1veuser
creat1veuser :
Thinking of all the steps stops me a lot too 😭
2023-01-05 00:00:38
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sharon.loves.her.life
Sharon.loves.her.life🫶🏻✨️ :
More systems, please.
2023-01-04 06:47:49
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lavender_and_mints
Lavender_and_mints :
Would love a series on this!
2023-01-04 23:34:02
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daydreamer56837
Sarah :
More examples of systems pls!
2023-01-04 19:53:46
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feralforestfairy
Maggie :
Love this perspective!!! I’m a neurodivergent grad student about to graduate with my occupational therapy master’s & totally agree with this!!!
2023-01-04 15:18:04
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tamarathorsen
tamara :
Please make it a series!
2023-01-04 07:52:10
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6tars
F6 :
omg please show us more :( your tiktok made me emotional
2023-01-04 19:46:22
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hayleysparks419
hayleysparks419 :
And brain is fried by the end of the day lol
2023-01-04 00:38:29
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calvin896155
calvin896155 :
But.. Why? Why is it that way...?
2023-01-05 21:48:31
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cloudysun22
CloudySun22 :
YES, YES, YES! this was my most important lesson of 2022.
2023-01-05 22:58:03
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maddydonovan22
maddy :
Yesss series
2023-01-05 02:10:15
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lojolane73
Loni Jo :
And the discipline we received as children 😳 so much! My goodness 😳
2023-01-05 05:15:48
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eloisecleeter
Eloise🦋 :
omg this is so real
2023-01-05 23:30:58
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squeakz77
Squeakz :
Ahh you always explain us better then I ever could queen! 🧡
2023-01-04 00:19:26
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dede_davies
Sid the sloth :
Mg you’re a genius you’re right, and also I learned what we think is lack of motivation is actually lack of task initiation
2023-01-05 19:45:39
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emcat96
Emma Turner :
Love this! I like to tell people being neurodivergent is like being the only manual car in a lot of automatics.
2023-01-05 19:51:27
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letsny
Nicoly :
Thankyouu, MORE EXAMPLES PLSSS
2023-01-05 19:58:07
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ritadportugal
Rita Portugal :
yes. I did actually notice it even before diagnosis tbh, because whenever I HAD to do sth objectively annoying, I rarely complained
2023-01-05 20:14:37
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theguitaristswife
theguitaristswife :
Thank you! Yes, please, a series!!!
2023-01-04 01:33:51
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rae.deo
rae.deo :
Well thanks sis, I needed this
2023-01-05 21:59:05
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sn.lloyd
S.N. Lloyd | Fantasy Author✨✍️ :
Please I need all the systems!
2023-01-05 11:18:05
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call_me_a_hippie
Call me a hippie ✌🏼 :
Yes series please ❤️
2023-01-04 20:35:27
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masha_pile
user4663485830655 :
The tray hack is genius, gonna buy one tomorrow! Please share more🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
2023-01-05 22:43:43
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svamli
Sigrid :
Please do! I’ve got a lot of systems but my 14 yo daughter.. I’m going insane trying to help her find systems that work for her instead of nagging
2023-01-08 20:54:56
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b.arbarrra
B A R B A R A :
amiga lo entendiste todo
2023-01-09 03:39:00
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lonely._.random
YourFutureFriend♥️ :
@funnybuniies
2023-01-09 13:05:19
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jwaydan20
Jwaydan :
My god thank you. To an extreme amount. And I'm exhaustedd
2023-01-06 11:08:36
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daily_katti
Katti :
I need to see ALL of the systems. Please and thank you
2023-01-04 00:45:09
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devoue00
Devoue :
No because you’re so right….
2023-01-04 16:10:27
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