Hemali Mistry
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elizaaaaaah :
Also, too many parents DID physically abuse their children but they don’t recognize their violence as abuse!
2023-01-21 18:09:19
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Cait :
Another problem is viewing our children as extensions of ourselves and not individuals. That’s where they feel owed for raising their kids.
2023-01-22 19:15:49
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Cosmicdoll :
I agree, our gen is often framed as letting go too easily, but from what I’ve seen, people only go NC after years of failed attempts at healing the
2023-01-21 00:13:14
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abria.danee :
Ugh, the pain of finally thinking you’ll be heard .. and being met with your parents lack of accountability hurts even more in your grown age
2023-01-21 13:22:50
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Sailea :
This!! I tell people going no contact was the hardest decision but the BEST for me.
2023-01-21 03:40:21
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Jarai :
I don’t agree w. this, sorry. Kids think bc they’re the kids it gives them free reign to treat their parents however & the parent is supposed 2 takeit
2023-01-23 23:55:03
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Mia 💜 :
I understand both sides. Grace & empathy should go both ways. Kids will cut their parents off without understanding. It's sad.
2023-01-22 11:17:08
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Maria Nihsen :
When I set my boundaries with my mother, I gained grace and empathy for her. She’s herself, I can’t change her. And I shouldn’t. She’s lived a very
2023-01-21 12:59:32
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Dani :
your points are 100% accurate. I'll never get how ppl don't *actually* want better for their children, esp if it means distance from them...
2023-01-21 00:12:22
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shemika_patrice :
I watched all of the vids and definitely see your point but I also think a middle ground is what some people of all generations lack.
2023-01-21 19:14:05
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Gluteus Maximus the cat :
Also many millennials have kids. They’re not going to let grandma continue the generational trauma with their kids.
2023-01-22 14:41:31
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lillymakesart :
“they are told to have grace and empathy instead of genuinely practicing grace and empathy” this this this x100000
2023-01-22 07:50:42
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watchinganonymously :
Imagine you are her kids and being talked to them, like she presented that video. The dismissiveness & toxicity permeates the room!!
2023-01-22 12:08:20
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Epiphanie :
It felt worse for me when I became a mother and realized what shouldn’t have happened to me if my mother would have put me first.
2023-01-22 03:40:00
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wirerox :
you are absolutely right as a mother of 3 genZ it was hard for me to deal with emotional trauma that I may have caused, and it was important to me to face it and make sure my kids know I'm sorry....
2024-03-21 12:54:27
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Julissa Romero Perez :
Wait until you have children it’s easier said then done! Being a parent isn’t easy you sacrifice a lot and ur kids don’t see that and feel like we r h
2023-01-21 20:00:41
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Nini :
this always is going to be my mom, my older sister (17 yrs older than me) is always like "You have the BEST mom" no you have It , with me is a hell +
2023-01-23 18:22:09
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No need to know :
I went no contact with my dad when my mom passed. My life has been 100000000000% times better I regret nothing!
2023-01-22 02:55:45
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Kristina Nicole :
I agree emotional damage is the worst. I went thru both emotional and physical trauma, with both parents. I cut my mother off, I’m not angry anymore
2023-01-21 10:51:10
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cortniechoate :
They think we deserve the toxic behavior and that we should stick around and be mistreated and are shocked when we just go where we are accepted.
2023-01-21 19:55:21
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J. Rabb :
I wonder if this other creator has ever gone to actual therapy cause hunneee
2023-01-22 04:22:52
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velocijaster :
I have really good parents but there was a breaking point a while back. I went NC for a few months until there was a general family gathering. (1)
2023-01-22 17:03:29
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Just me, plain old me... :
Agreed 99% but the saying stick and stones is not a reflection of truth, never has been. It’s trying to communicate to our kids that what people say
2023-04-20 03:58:00
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