@zielzebub: This explains why so many conversations were short #asd

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glitchangellv
Angel :
I like having conversations with other neurodivergent folks better where we're both excitedly info dumping back and forth.
2023-01-21 00:50:59
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waasnoode986
Carrie Humphreys-Sack :
Seriously though, i grew up thinking why aren’t there lessons for these things? I didn’t realize people picked up social skills easily, i thought
2023-01-20 23:50:57
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tiktok.us3r_
TikTok User :
Sure but now it turns out they just don’t wanna talk to me cuz I asked all the questions and they asked none lol
2023-01-21 02:25:14
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amchaotic
amchaotic :
ok but like about what
2023-01-20 23:53:24
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batmayne1996
Largest VC Andrews Collection :
me standing in silence with my coworkers... sooo hows everyones day... 👀😭
2023-01-20 23:55:33
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vin_scullcat
Ghost ☻ :
BUT WHAT DO I ASK???
2023-01-21 00:50:50
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subbling
subbling :
as a therapist, I'm really good at uncomfortable silences but that didn't help me make friends to
2023-01-21 00:23:38
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chaxnny
chaxnny :
I don’t know about that, I’ve observed conversations before and it looked like a constant flow of shared interests or stories
2023-01-20 23:50:37
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amarvelgirl
🧿 :
Conversely, you learn this mask early but then you ask *too many* questions 🫠
2023-01-20 23:46:10
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doodle.witch
Juka 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🍉 :
I ask questions that I want to be asked. It's how I manage lol
2023-01-20 23:39:19
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imnotreal326
poopy :
why can't people just sit in silence?? what's wrong with that? 😭 when you said "hangout" I thought you meant like sitting across from each other just
2023-01-21 00:55:52
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bajaa_blast
Violet :
I’m not doing it if they’re not doing it
2023-01-20 23:48:14
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blablorgenstein
blablorgenstein :
I heard someone complain that folks don't ask questions. I was always taught it was intrusive and rude, so I just let folks tell me what they want.
2023-01-24 12:16:25
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hanl552
Han :
Buuuut, why continue a conversation?
2023-01-20 23:41:36
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celestialcrabb
Gwynne 🐝 :
Confusing bc I've had them tell me they feel like they're being interviewed... But how am I supposed to learn abt you if you don't tell me?
2023-01-20 23:38:21
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poisonedlogic
Poison :
this but also like why can't they tell me about the stuff they want me to ask about instead of me asking. I WANT to hear about things my friends like
2023-01-21 01:13:13
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sneakysquiidly
Nessa :
"babe, you hvlave to talk more, you can't expect me to continue talking if you're staring at me with RBF" 😅....
2023-01-20 23:55:27
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spacepinata
Lee 🏳️‍⚧️ • 🅰️🏴 :
& now I'm asking too many. people tell me it feels less like a conversation & more like an interrogation 😞
2023-01-21 00:49:06
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toriklepto
ToriKlepto :
But like maybe I don’t ask because I don’t care about the answer and I don’t want the conversation to continue 😬
2023-01-21 01:24:22
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ladykeldana
Kelly O :
I kind of consciously remind myself of this. I've even set alerts to my friends important things so I remember to ask cos I don't want them to 1/?
2023-01-24 19:22:04
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kittydcalicocow
kittydcalicocow :
I learned this in my 30's
2023-01-20 23:43:18
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luna_raven88
Raven :
ok I'm 34 and only just learnt you have to ask questions to keep a conversation going - even if you're not interested 😂
2023-02-10 17:28:19
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geektastic.woodles
That Geek Girl :
I hate being asked questions… why do the allistics need me to prompt them… just talk
2023-01-23 18:43:50
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gayrbitch
Goldfish :
Sometimes it’s just run out of question and my brain crashes
2023-01-21 02:01:07
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jelllybeancat
27reasonswhy :
sitting getting my hair cut and they start asking questions
2023-01-21 01:53:08
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wotameye
Wot :
Me learning they want the names of my friends and family in conversation even if they never meet them. I just say “my husband”, how is his name better
2023-02-04 14:40:14
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opheliaoathbreaker
OpheliaOathbreaker :
And once you get that no one tells you “not too many questions tho or they won’t want to talk to you anymore”
2023-01-23 14:55:09
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jenm252
Jenm252 :
The other half: finding out asking too many questions is 'grilling them' and frowned upon
2023-01-21 00:03:45
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stayshasweird
Stayshasweird :
But… what if we don’t want to continue the conversation? 😶
2023-01-22 12:49:46
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lunchbox1mus
Victor Maldonado :
my questions are always like...so whats ur dreams and what music u like. they get talking its helpful
2023-01-21 16:05:35
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luigislilpissbaby
luigislilpissbaby :
I love having friends who just talk and go on about their interests and fun facts and life
2023-01-21 00:33:41
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radiocryptid
🎃❄️🌸 Radio 🧑🏼‍🦽🏳️‍⚧️🇨🇦 :
but what do I ask????😅
2023-01-20 23:31:29
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shadowwaters6212
shadowwaters6212 :
But I don't know how. why can't we just sit silently next to each other for an hour?
2023-01-20 23:48:03
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mamahand88
Michelle Hand :
yo, but once you memorize the script that gets them talking.... then you don't have to anymore and that's peace 😌
2023-01-21 04:23:28
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_infinite_icons_
Evelyn | Kids Custom Clothing :
Lol why can’t they just TELL me ? I don’t even want them asking questions but they do so i try not to ask it back
2023-01-20 23:33:55
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k.mango.k
Mango :) :
Im so glad I picked up on this but also...how do I ask questions? What if I dont have any questions?? What questions can I ask!?!
2023-03-03 00:15:50
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loreolympusnerd
mehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :
them: how was your day? me: *answers them: *silence me: oh, shit, right. how was YOUR day?
2023-02-17 16:13:36
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anxietyape
aerin :
I'd just rather not have the conversation thanks
2023-01-21 00:47:15
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x.x.bluebird.x.x
Jason Todd :
okay but what do i do when they answer..
2023-01-21 00:46:31
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mauxnmoody
Maux :
I hate it and sometimes I just don’t ask until they start volunteering information and then I feel bad and do my best to smile
2023-01-21 00:42:31
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sade95lynette
sade.sade :
y especially if I'm not interested in talking or if what they are saying is boring or I can't relate 🤌🏿👌🏿😭
2023-01-21 00:29:15
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brickbrigade
brickbrigade :
I'm autistic and stream to twitch casually. when someone enters my chat, my go to conversation starter is to ask how their day was...
2023-01-21 00:28:05
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autibird
Bird :
I just like can only ask questions when I actually wanna know!!
2023-02-04 14:01:21
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suspendersdg
♾️🌈 Suspenders DG 🌈♾️ :
Why don't they just say stuff?
2023-01-21 01:38:16
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