@marriagefirst: It would be very easy to be frustrated and upset with your partner in this case, but with practice you can grow the skill of checking in with yourself and learn not blame and be the victim. Checking in with yourself and why you feel hurt can prevent so many fights. #marriage #attachmentstyle #traumahealing #marriagecoach #couplegoals #marriagegoals #marriedlife #divorce #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #secureattachment #disorganizedattachment

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dani_doesitall
Dani Michael :
My ex would go full death spiral then explode before I even realized what was happening. What’s the recommended therapy for this thought process?
2023-02-01 21:01:11
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delaneyallen01
Quandale Dingle :
No she just didn’t care enough and you’re using coping tactics to make yourself feel better about you’re feelings being invalidated
2023-01-25 06:58:11
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mayra.morris
lose_not_loose⫍ ⃢👁ܫ👁⃢ ⫎ :
not only marriage but this happens all the time. like when you're driving and someone cuts you off. We get so angry and assume they did it on purpose
2023-01-23 22:04:42
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nursemama79
Crystal Baker Pearon :
Man, I have anxiety and my mind tries to do this almost daily. I appreciate this video so much.
2023-01-21 23:30:22
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dandydandy023
Ft.chloe79 :
Is it truly crazy to just assume the person would hopefully *want* to watch it though? Is it really an inappropriate unspoken expectation?
2023-01-22 15:37:18
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axfxking
af🍉king :
I am working on this exact thing currently. Thank you for laying it out very clearly.
2023-01-21 23:36:02
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exxxistentialkysis
Kyla 💫 :
So everyone’s arguing in the first comment and I didn’t feel like adding it so I have a question for everyone
2023-01-27 06:03:56
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brkxst
吃货 :
Expectations of others are a no no
2023-01-30 00:17:20
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itsyagirlkay__
Kayla 💋 :
very much relatable. what about when your spending time with someone & you’re talking to them & you get no verbal feedback whatsoever? my biggest pet
2023-01-25 16:38:11
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igotissuesyouvegotemtoo
Vieve :
As a woman I’d be shocked if he watched the video even if I’d asked 😏 I love that you’ve reversed your anger but we don’t talk about how angry men ar
2023-01-31 19:55:48
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luzyroze
Banb5302 :
I hurt my own feelings all the time with things my husband doesn't do. but I never asked lol. I'm working on it
2023-01-22 04:09:14
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tiso3788
Tiso :
yes. my husband said he wanted me to go to the gym with him and my mind told me he thinks I'm unattractive. untrue. he just wants me to be healthy.
2023-02-18 15:44:48
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scorpiobabe73
T 👑💕 :
Felt emotional last night. Wanted a hug. He was wrapped in the duvet, so no hug = me crying silently. He doesn't he want to hug. He doesn't love me 😔
2023-02-02 15:48:00
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n8_love
N8🐶 :
my partner has said things like "well, you should know" 🤣, "you should anticipate my needs" 🤣🤣 this close 🤏🏽 from being single 😎
2023-01-22 18:31:18
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christinmdk
christinmdk :
Ya like I’d be frustrated that they didn’t automatically watch the video!!! Like
2023-01-26 16:37:30
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theunknownphilosophy
Shezad 💯 :
If there’s anything left unchecked, the mind will use it against you, so it’s best to check if you missed anything (speaking in general)
2023-01-29 04:02:23
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pitbulls_and_cannolis
Pitbulls_And_Cannolis :
I get like that but not usually angry more like I'm not important nor is what I'm saying, I feel ignored
2023-02-01 06:45:41
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kjray12619
Kelly Jean Hogan :
Yes because if wonder why saying there’s a new video isn’t enough to prompt her to watch it. This issues gets to me all the time.
2023-01-23 15:33:15
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pacagawea
Pacagawea :
Man.. my wife shifted back to evening work shifts and it rocked me.
2023-01-23 23:27:16
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adrikvm
adrikvm :
I feel like that’s the bare minimum though, you shouldn’t have to tell your partner to like and comment on your post, they should already want too.
2023-01-24 07:53:26
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daniigurl21
Danielle :
Can you tell us how therapy helped you identify your emotions and the cause of them
2023-01-22 15:58:35
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thathartmama
ThatHartMama :
My husband doesn’t show a ton of emotions on the outside. So when I have something exciting to share, I let him know I’d like a big reaction.
2023-01-22 19:49:45
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