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Alyssa :
Guilty of this too. Everytime anything goes wrong or someone is upset, I automatically think I did something wrong. It's exhausting, tbh🥺
2023-01-22 21:37:46
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Tess 👑💖 :
I just got into a healthy relationship…is stressful
2023-01-22 23:10:11
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Amanda French :
Being conditioned to know that the “I’m not mad at you” was a lie sucks. It hurts others just as bad as the abuse itself.
2023-01-22 22:08:01
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Belen☽Latina coach 𓆃 :
It looks like she has anxious attachment, which means she needs extra communication up front.
2023-01-23 16:28:38
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N8sMommy :
I have designated grumpy pants - clear sign to give me a little space without the questions😎
2023-01-22 22:02:12
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maggiemayhem83 :
I’m totally guilty of this. Work in progress.
2023-01-22 21:39:53
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Melissa :
I'll just say, hey, I'm not in a good mood today. Nothing you did, we're good, just a heads up.
2023-01-22 22:26:09
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jfrog115 :
This is the female version of gaslighting. It should be just as hated and discouraged.
2023-01-22 22:37:04
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Teena :
Jesus. The running & hiding hits home too much. 😳 Luckily he has PTSD too so we are working through our trauma together.
2023-01-23 00:27:11
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Sol & Zazou :
ok, but what abt when I know he's mad @ me, but not y, b4 he has pinpointed it & says "no", but us still distant & clearly upset? what then?
2023-01-22 22:34:04
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Mrs. Park🖤 :
This is still a touchy thing between my husband and I.. even after almost 7 years together
2023-01-22 21:37:41
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Jade :
I’ve hit a point where I ask once. If they said it’s not me, then it’s not me. I offer support and leave it. If it is me they need to tell me directly
2023-01-23 03:17:49
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Julie :
What are you doing in my house?! 😂
2023-01-22 21:43:24
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Tara Lock :
I learned early on to tell my guy "I'm in a bad mood and I don't know why but it's not you. I love you but I'm cranky" it made a huge difference!
2023-01-25 07:20:35
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Jen Centracchio :
This hit me so hard today, that just happen to me and my husband this morning 🥺
2023-01-22 21:52:06
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WhatsUpAlyCat :
My ex always got quiet before he got abusive, my current bf is just a quiet guy. The first year of our relationship I was constantly on edge, thinking that silence was still dangerous. But now, almost
2023-12-28 23:14:44
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davina :
issue with this is that even when he said i done nothing wrong there was always something he’d tell me hours later…
2023-01-23 16:21:39
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alequipe :
hubby and i are both from abusive relationships and don't do well with yelling/fighting. when we're in a bad mood, we reassure that it's not at (1)
2023-01-29 15:35:40
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Makena :
Love this - my bf and I had to learn this too. We also figured out a phrase so that he was allowed to be in a mood and I knew it wasn’t about me.
2023-01-26 22:46:28
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Halie :
But if you are on the end of “I’m allowed to be in a bad mood” you need to explain that you’re just in a bad mood not just “no” or else it will just m
2023-01-30 00:37:46
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Lady.Cherri :
wow. such flashbacks. my ex was abusive af and it was always "my fault but my current partner is so healthy and this is exactly how it feels.
2023-01-24 20:32:55
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adds🌷 :
@yourmomwashere05 awww this is basically us but i’m never mad at anything else just sad lol so it isn’t even this bad
2023-01-25 15:55:42
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BAM Panda :
Life hack: when she does this just get up, go over to her and hug her. It saves you from yelling, and let’s her know that you aren’t mad at her.
2023-01-22 23:48:24
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