Erica Mallett
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Tuesday 24 January 2023 09:29:32 GMT
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Dr.pysecist :
Considering tiktok links an emotional bid is so online jeez
2023-01-25 20:24:49
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Aggy :
Wait does this start in childhood? Because hearing this makes me think of how kids are constantly asking their adults to look at something or them.
2023-01-25 05:36:08
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friendships too suffer from ignoring the bid :(
2023-01-25 05:20:46
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Rocky Retrograde Esq :
And Ignoring bids is a symptom of the underlying dislike of the person that leads to divorce
2023-01-27 07:49:23
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zahra_27khan :
My ex said that the random tiktoks I sent him “stressed him out” so… guess that’s why we’re exes now
2023-01-25 05:37:41
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me.lost :
while the emotional bid is legit, I think as long as the in-person ones are reciprocated it can be okay with tick tok being ignored.
2023-01-25 01:31:06
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Hapenkuluttaja :
FOR THE LOVE OF GODS THIS!!! I strugle with autism+adhd and often lack the words to describe these things so i send tiktoks to my soon ex partner for
2023-01-25 06:06:27
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RubyStar :
My fiancé and i save into a collection for the other and then sit and show the entire collection to the other every now and then 🥰
2023-02-16 13:27:06
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Stone Novara :
it's not that they never ignore emotional bids that's insane I think it's like 60% or something (don't remember exactly but it's not 100% )
2023-01-24 10:20:09
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Alan :
I think you're really over rating tiktok
2023-01-24 10:00:13
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missjemmac :
Maybe with other stuff like seeing pretty things in nature etc but don’t say this starts with ignored tiktoks.
2023-01-25 11:40:00
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glitter.fiend 🌀❤️ :
❤️❤️❤️
2025-06-29 02:48:02
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Sam :
After I learned this, I started noticing how my entire family denies my bids every time, big and small. 🥺
2023-01-24 21:08:08
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user4576327900054322 :
Every interaction is an opportunity to connect. There’s subtext to things that people just miss all the time
2023-01-25 05:08:13
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John :
My 6yr relationship ended 12 days ago. She was ignoring my emotional bids everyday while giving her attention to someone else.
2023-01-24 22:35:41
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Uneaten_Paint :
My friends and I will constantly point things out to eachother with "look at my bird!" and it works like a charm
2023-01-25 02:35:37
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kimi :
my partner likes the tiktoks i send and i pretend to like the tiktoks he sends, its about balance 🥰
2023-01-25 02:29:03
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mtechnik :
This can also be called "turning away" - if they keep chosing to turn away it has an effect over time.
2023-02-07 02:46:51
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Justy :
I tried to explain this emotional bid theory about the birds to my ex husband when we were still together and he ignored the bid 😳
2023-01-25 07:43:21
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bluefeenyx :
This is legit what just happened over the past several months leading up to my divorce
2023-01-25 00:41:44
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𓆣like :
you explained this perfectly. I tell people this ALL the time. I liken it to the "thousand papercuts" in relationships too
2023-01-30 15:08:57
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Calontopoftheworld :
Not me sending this to my husband
2023-01-25 03:29:07
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Meghan :
so I guess my 29 year friendship is gonna end cuz I ignore her tiktoks and she ignores mine a bunch. LOOOL
2023-02-22 22:16:13
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andie :
my partner and I follow this theory sm. they domt use tiktok or Instagram so every time we meet up, they have me go thru all the tiktoks I've sent the
2023-01-25 03:42:02
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Rinjamin :
the thirds pipeline: “ive already seen that one”
2023-01-25 22:22:26
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Allan Crain :
Oof, this hit me in the feels.
2023-01-24 21:32:13
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wickedone30 :
This happened to me 😂 .. now I have an amazing partner who watches every tik tok I send him and then we analyze/discuss them 🥰
2023-01-24 12:32:20
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thomd42 :
I sent this to my wife and she ignored it
2023-02-16 14:00:48
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Sarah_Dearie 🆘🇺🇸 💕💜💙 :
This has nothing to do with the video but your shirt matches your eye color exactly and it’s pretty
2023-01-24 23:09:12
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ginger.talks :
This is accurate. Although sometimes I truly don't hear my partner say something because I have ADHD and they feel discouraged. For partners who are
2023-02-21 06:22:01
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wrathfulraven67 :
I sent this to him, now let's wait and see if he ignores it or not😅
2023-01-26 01:02:14
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Chicken :
My partner started this cute little thing were I save all my favourites throughout the day and when we get into bed we sit and watch them all together
2023-01-25 09:06:33
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Amanda :
there are so many, all day, like... dozens of them. I feel overwhelmed and can't keep up. 🥺
2023-02-15 19:15:00
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Sage :
this was the clearest sign that my ex has disconnected from me
2023-01-30 13:12:37
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Didacticalone :
So make sure your family understands that it is a prompt for a need. They may not have learned that as a child.
2023-01-24 21:39:59
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Gremlin :
I’d say sending a TikTok is more direct than an emotional bid like “look at the pretty bird”. Emotional bids feel more manipulative.
2023-03-01 10:11:42
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Shelby.Laura :
Okay, okay, okay, I'll respond to my mom's long trail of unfunny reels
2023-02-06 07:39:54
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jamesjoel2000 :
i already knew about this study but i’ve never thought of it in the form of tik toks, it’s interesting
2023-01-25 13:59:16
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Punk.Dot :
so Emotional bid=penguin pebbling of abstracts?
2023-01-25 10:10:59
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Aaron :
Way too many ignored emotional bids.. but I rode it till I became the problem getting bitter and angry.
2023-02-13 03:28:27
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Th3 Evil W3nch :
this is why I go on Instagram and watch/ comment on EVERY SINGLE ig reel my best friend sends and she send like 10 at a time😅
2023-02-15 20:09:28
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💛 :
why do people ignore the bids
2023-01-29 17:39:45
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Lady :
Me: *giggles, brings phone to him* , him: *gets angry to make a few seconds for me* , me: *takes my seconds to my friends & they turn to hours*him: 😡
2023-02-16 20:26:20
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Daniel/Lora :
what about if a friend ignores all my tiktoks yet demand I see theirs?
2023-01-26 04:18:05
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Sage O. :
My wife has a busy demanding job so I save the tiktoks I wanna show her and we have “tiktok time” before we go to bed and she can watch with me lol
2023-01-25 15:39:46
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excice :
I have ADHD and so does my partner and we would forget to check what we've sent to eachother so every night we watch them together and talk about them
2023-01-25 17:14:36
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Cherrythewizard 🧙🏻 :
Some ppl send like 10 a day tho and I don’t wanna be constantly on my phone
2023-01-25 10:53:23
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Jacob B :
awesome at least I'm aware of the direction my relationship is heading now
2023-02-15 12:51:31
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Cora :
me sending this to my husband to remind him that he is falling behind watching only 90/100 tik toks I send him every day
2023-02-15 16:11:23
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Anthony Galatianos :
Yes! I'd heard about this before and couldn't find it without the terminology.
2023-01-25 06:17:15
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username :
i just checked my moms bids i felt so bad
2023-02-01 23:51:54
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🌈 Valiant 🗡🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️☀️🦘 :
this is why even when ppl tell me stuff i know or send me stuff ive seen i still acknowlege hey cool thanks for sharing
2023-01-31 15:03:37
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