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Tuesday 24 January 2023 18:14:43 GMT
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Vin Kiva 🏳️⚧️ :
I genuinely wish repair were possible with my parents, but I know they're too stuck in their ways, so we're NC.
2023-01-25 02:38:32
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thekids(arent)alright :
It’s like the allegory of the cave. How many times should we go back into the cave and try to rescue our parents if they insist the shadows are real?
2023-01-25 17:14:47
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What to Wear - Sasset :
Their unmet needs come out in strange ways. Like, when we talk abt having a hard time, that’s an opportunity for them to mention they had it harder.
2023-01-25 04:17:06
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ItsMeLiz :
My mom used me as a therapist for 25 years and is shocked I know how she works
2023-01-25 21:59:08
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Melanie Kincade-Russ :
I've pulled away from my dad but I don't want to hurt him...I'm just saving myself at this point
2023-01-24 23:25:16
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scarlett.rope.hall :
Do you ever think that maybe their upbringing was so disabling that they are unable to do that work. Not to mention they are older…
2023-01-25 16:30:37
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Brookedy Bee :
Yep! I had a talk about this with my mom and she was oblivious to the cycle of abuse. Meanwhile I can trace it back generations
2023-01-24 20:36:58
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Shamrocks&Thistles :
Yep, we're still trying to parent them.
2023-01-24 22:20:51
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jenny :
When you are in your 60s and watch this video you will think, Wow I really thought I knew everything at that age. 😁
2023-02-01 03:01:24
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tinyhedgehogdreams 🌀🦔 :
Yes! This is totally it. They can’t see what we see and it’s to their detriment.
2023-01-24 18:48:25
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kimberleydashiell 💙 :
I know you don’t mean all boomer parents, but ouch! Some of us have done tons of work, after having this realization about our own parents at your age
2023-01-27 15:02:21
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JoMurWiCh :
Hundred percent
2023-01-25 12:53:09
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Steven looks like a pervert :
No contact and my parents are my landlords. It’s grueling I miss having a mother every day
2023-01-24 19:02:29
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Nagemlynn :
yes!!!!
2023-01-24 19:09:41
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whimsicalwidow :
I do wonder if there comes a point when you really can’t “teach an old dog new tricks” 🤷♀️
2023-01-24 19:22:04
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niccult :
Yes! Trying to get my mom to acknowledge her trauma and that it’s part of why she forces herself to work even when dealing with cysts/kidney stone.
2023-01-24 23:00:57
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🧿 Straw Hat Prin 🧿 :
fantastic description!
2023-01-25 15:40:58
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dar222 :
I'm at minimal contact.
2023-01-27 14:46:44
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elizabethherriot3 :
please, please stop grouping all boomers together! we are not all the same!
2023-01-30 13:38:49
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Karlene Shapeshifter Menace :
very true
2023-01-24 18:42:47
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lexlex4242 :
My mom who was in a 30 year marriage with an abusive narcissist: “do I have trauma? I don’t really think so…”
2023-01-26 16:33:34
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HanrattyTheBull451 :
Beautifully said 💜
2023-01-25 21:29:05
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Angela Siana :
This! I have come to accept my trauma.... my mother however continues to struggle with acceptance.
2023-01-26 16:37:36
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Unhinged Millennial :
Boomers as a whole don't understand it. My Mils mother is as toxic as they come. We've tried to tell her to cut contact. But she won't. Because...
2023-01-24 19:20:51
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