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LordDeadazz :
Only women and children are loved UNCONDITIONALLY. If you a man/boy, you better achieve something
2023-02-01 19:08:24
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It's Me :
women/girls experience the exact same thing but we are not treated as superior like the men/boys so i don't really see how that justifies the...
2023-02-06 04:31:32
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Jessigirl :
girls experience this too, being praised when they got 1st place or the highest grade...people, this is an experience for people.
2023-02-06 19:24:30
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justmo :
toxic family systems hurt everyone inside of them, including the Golden Child. the whole family is toxic
2023-02-01 22:49:34
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user8128314006010 :
From experience, being put on a pedestal as a child does not make you feel loved, it makes you feel separate. We feel loved when we are seen.
2023-02-05 16:15:44
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rudympl09 :
hit the nail on the head. as a young boy and into my adulthood. the lovei gathered was always conditioned on external values and not on me
2023-02-01 17:04:17
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ChronicBronchitis :
Yup, I'm only as valuable as what I can provide or do for you.
2023-02-01 19:37:59
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donnade5 :
my sister and I were high achievers and my brothers were not. they still received love and attention whereas we only got criticism.
2023-02-23 13:59:56
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The Bread Boi :
I'm currently reading that book, nearly finished with it.
2023-02-01 17:41:52
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Aryn :
this perfectly explains the fallacy of the vast majority of men's personal development/ coaching. none of it addresses the root problems
2023-02-01 17:55:04
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Ursula Goff :
I have a teenage son and this is very helpful. As his mom, is there any messaging I can give him that can compete with this culture?
2023-02-06 00:41:24
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cowbird :
this is also why a wife that is asking for something to be better, gets translated into nagging and gets retaliated on
2023-02-24 14:01:53
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beep :
Not being taught how to care for yourself, how to hold yourself accountable, deal with emotions and coddling a child is actually a very insidious form
2023-02-23 23:23:57
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keerstahn :
as someone who was held accountable for her brother, this hit and I appreciate the depth of your thought. this is valuable introspection, underrated
2023-02-07 17:45:28
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LO :
I went through this as a woman, I feel though held in a pedestal that wasn't love. I was never supported in the things that matter like handling
2023-02-24 13:03:29
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Zeil :
even if the unfair act is done positively towards someone, it can still have a negative effect on them. doesnt make the unfair act ok, adds perspectiv
2023-02-01 23:25:54
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Tashi Albertson :
That’s so sad. Everyone is inherently valuable and loveable. 🥺
2023-02-06 17:34:24
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joannamohr0 :
Widow with 4 girls and the youngest a boy. ♥️Thank you for sharing this bc I am using all this breakthrough thinking to fuel my parenting.
2023-02-08 14:48:49
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tiatop0 :
not in my or my mother's or grandmother's experience 🥺 we were taught to make men valuable
2023-02-24 03:37:58
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user2524982632801 :
I see fathers only paying attention to sons while they are excelling at sports. If they aren't doing well, the dad will just leave the game.
2023-02-25 18:24:48
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Zack :
I just found your channel a few minutes ago, and I have never felt more seen in my entire life
2023-02-23 22:48:25
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