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Bailey Colby :
Parents who constantly minimize your emotions and constantly expected you to forgive their abusive behaviors because they “loved” you
2023-02-05 03:53:17
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Ryanne Cruey :
My mind “forgets” the betrayal and the abuse and I’m able to move on like nothing happened. I have no control over it, and I hate this about myself.
2023-02-05 06:10:17
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misshaven💗 :
most people who have been hurt a lot or have seen a lot do this because we can empathize by having felt a lot of pain
2023-02-05 07:11:06
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Jayden :
having parents you constantly had to forgive growing up
2023-02-04 17:27:51
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Wave✨ :
When you find out teach me!
2023-02-04 16:44:06
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mariah gabrielle :
you had to sacrifice your peace for everyone else’s since you were a child most likely. if you didn’t, they would leave
2023-02-04 17:15:15
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purr_pull_reign :
People-pleasing, fear of being alone, lack of boundaries, always having to forgive a parent. I used to be like that too. It's a journey ❤️
2023-02-05 16:18:15
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MaryBeth ♡ Phan :
I think empathizing and forgiving is a beautiful gift, but just because u forgive and move on doesn’t mean they also still deserve to be in ur life
2023-02-05 08:51:31
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Danae :
My therapist looked me dead in the eyes and said “being forgiving isn’t a sign of weakness, the people that treated you badly were the weak ones” and
2023-02-05 03:10:29
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E :
I saw a TikTok that said I overstep boundaries with empathy bc it’s easier for me to understand where you’re coming from than to admit how much
2023-02-02 14:12:58
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Roger Franco :
The algorithm algorithming right about now.
2023-02-02 06:49:59
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Jordan Maiwald :
I saw a post the other day that said something like “do I empathize and understand them, or is that easier than knowing they hurt me this bad” 🥺
2023-02-05 14:49:51
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omgaboosie :
it’s so easy to forgive and then a while later i get angry at myself for letting them think they could do that to me
2023-02-04 17:27:49
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annabawl :
I know exactly why, if I held a grudge for being mistreated and abused, then I wouldn’t have any parent
2023-02-04 17:11:59
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def :
i audibly gasped because this is a literal description of myself . Ouch.
2023-02-05 15:14:16
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maggie mccormack :
yes! and when i finally do fight back/stick up for myself i feel guilty and end up apologizing
2023-02-05 16:13:46
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Boiwonder :
OH WE SAID FOR YOU PAGE FOR YOU PAGE?! 😭😭😭😭 like at this point I feel like it makes people take advantage of me
2023-02-04 16:16:04
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j zee :
we dont want others to feel the same pain of not being understood as a kid so we empathize more🫠
2023-02-08 02:17:50
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Leaha Ureel :
Abandonment and emotional neglect causes us to shove aside our identities & boundaries as children to make ppl stay, so it they never fully develop.
2023-02-04 20:14:54
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virgobae♰ :
I totally do this however, I personally can’t look at them the same, the vibe will always be different but I’d deff still talk to them
2023-02-05 16:44:12
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Hanna🌿 :
I relate so hard. so much counseling and I still can't prioritize my own feelings.
2023-02-05 06:44:36
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Michelle Guider :
I wish I’m like total opposite
2023-02-05 00:11:53
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Marnsnowson_ :
Just means ur an extremely kind & empathetic person. Don’t let others change u, that’s such a great quality to have even when it feels like its not❤️
2023-02-05 23:14:01
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Bratfacebaby💋👱🏼♀️ :
Empathy is a blessing and a curse.
2023-02-06 11:40:50
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