Ella
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Jack :
you function in therapy? I talk about Hamilton and avoid talking about my dysphoria-
2023-02-02 15:33:08
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LaurenM95 :
I would just get black out drunk so I could "handle social situations" 🙃 I was not handling social situations 😂
2023-02-02 13:53:57
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Lee :
As well as your life being richer - I bet you have more responsibility now then you did back then... bills, adult relationships etc.
2023-02-02 14:57:57
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Brei :
I don’t understand 15-18 year old me.. I worked, did sports & went to school? I feel like Im still recovering from that to this day & I’m almost 25
2023-02-02 11:59:42
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NutsForCoconuts :
I wish my therapist would say things like that instead of trying to make me go back to who I was. And she supposedly specializes in Autism!
2023-02-02 17:32:31
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Alex Andrea :
This was so helpful to hear and so true. Sometimes my mom asks me why I used to do so many things and now I don't do anything and I felt guilty
2023-02-02 12:11:29
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Em 🇨🇦 :
My therapist framed this for me as ‘chasing gold stars’. The idea that in school we work for these achievements and then in adulthood…
2023-02-02 14:57:44
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Mouse :
I feel like I can't function if I do more then the smallest thing anymore, it's frustrating because how people judge me, I feel like I can't rest.
2023-02-02 12:30:03
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Chelsea Althouse :
you look like the kind of person teenage me would sooooo look up to
2023-02-02 15:50:29
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°o°✨️𝒯𝒶𝓈𝒽𝒶𝒷𝑒𝓁𝓁 ✨️°o° :
this explains so much. sounds like me when I was younger. now im a hermit. I have limited social interactions now.
2023-02-02 12:03:53
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Natalie :
The amount of times i got called lazy cos i would fall asleep in class or in afternoons round a friends house when i was supposed to be socialising 😳
2023-02-02 12:35:33
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honeyandmud :
at 35 now, i look back on myself 10 years ago and wonder how i managed to do all i did. it was the alcohol. 🫠
2023-02-02 12:45:56
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Wren :
That’s an interesting view of a “rich life” whereas I’d always considered a rich life to be a busy life. But I guess that isn’t always so
2023-02-02 12:31:25
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Tara Crank :
I find the pace and way that you talk at so so much easier to understand and process than most other people. thank you!
2023-02-02 12:49:57
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Jettspaghett :
Honestly the best piece of free therapy I’ve heard on hear. Thank youuu!
2023-02-02 14:32:15
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Luca/Madz is Magic✨ :
I really needed to hear this thank you Ella🥺❤️
2023-02-03 08:29:24
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Lou 😷 :
I love nothing more on tiktok than seeing ppl share their therapy breakthroughs 🥰
2023-02-02 15:37:36
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3FrogsinaTrenchcode :
I always feel like I should go out and do things but I honestly just feel the best when I live my boring little everyday life
2023-02-02 14:35:48
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gray :
I love this, thanks for sharing 🥰
2023-02-02 12:12:19
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Pumpkin :
My autistic sister has been told the only available therapy for her is CBT. Any advice or thoughts on this based on your experience?
2023-02-02 17:31:35
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Luca/Madz is Magic✨ :
:0
2023-02-03 08:27:12
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Pheebs :
I love this way of explaining this very much.
2023-02-02 16:05:30
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Em_jo :
I didn’t understand this either but remembered I just used to ‘zone out’ when I was younger. My brain was literally in sleep mode so I could function
2023-02-03 00:27:38
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🏳️🌈✨Jac✨🇨🇦 :
Wow 😯 I like this perspective 💕
2023-02-02 11:59:36
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Éloïse Desmarais :
Gosh your channel is a GEM
2023-02-02 14:35:28
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Ley :
when therapy works it's just beautiful. Huge love to all those therapists doing the right thing.
2023-02-02 19:40:32
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Creating Elena Designs 🎨 :
this made me cry. I needed this today. thank you Ella 💕
2023-02-02 20:06:40
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yikes :
unrelated but I love your glasses they're so cute
2023-02-02 21:28:45
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Alilunstable 🦘 :
My life isn't richer... But only because capitalism makes doing the things I value difficult. My life is more balanced though.
2023-02-02 16:02:07
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Shannon :
@ella bella @Niammmh
2023-02-02 17:16:25
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Happylikeanoldtimemovie :
You're living your life now, not someone else's.
2023-02-02 17:38:46
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Jules :
You speak at the perfect speed 🥰
2023-02-02 15:09:16
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Asasara Krystaller :
Bloody hell - that hit home in one 🥹 mind is blown!
2023-02-02 17:52:52
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Bbcutiee :
This is such an amazing perspective to adopt. I can totally see how my life is richer now even though I’m doing less. Which is why I feel content!
2023-02-02 18:02:34
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Katrina Al-Hassan 🌹 :
I really needed to hear this! I constantly think back on what I used to do, but I was exhausted and had horrendous migraines all the time.
2023-02-02 20:53:05
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Alex :
Wow, how validating! Thanks for sharing
2023-02-02 21:47:59
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ej :
this resonates so hard
2023-02-06 15:26:04
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Meaa Morphine :
I needed to hear this thank you
2023-02-02 14:31:26
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Amber Cara191 :
🥰 yessssss!!! you said this so well, thank you
2023-02-02 18:01:56
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halloumi :
agree 100% but also, so much of your everyday was likely done on automation/by others. eg meals, chores, bills, travelling to school, scheduling work
2023-02-02 13:29:53
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Rosie :
any tips on finding an autism friendly therapist? I'm exhausted looking
2023-02-02 13:31:19
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Inexorable :
I love that you took notes from therapy 🥰
2023-02-02 13:34:52
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Tarryn :
The dude is on to something
2023-02-02 13:41:18
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bot02027 :
Thank you for sharing this 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
2023-02-02 13:42:46
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Frances Stewart :
need to find me a therapist like this! the only nice ones I've had aren't specialised in neurodivergence:(
2023-02-12 13:14:47
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bebokowa :
yup, that's why I was drunk in almost every social situation with people around my age (almost, because I wasn't drunk at school)
2023-02-07 08:53:22
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marsrosebud :
One thing that really puts things in perspective for me is comparing how much I cried back then (every day) to now (once every few weeks)…
2023-02-03 19:07:23
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terrimtr :
Ella what do you do when you are having a meltdown or you feel you’re going to have one?
2023-02-03 16:56:09
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『』 :
hey I just wanna say that I adore your content thank you sm
2023-02-03 13:25:18
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